when they know that most women will simply agree with what they have to say and not really give them the advice they need? Agreed, most men aren't good about discussing feelings however men's minds are TOTALLY different that women's minds. You need advice from someone who speaks the language of men to offer a point of view you hadn't thought of. For example, I have seen COUNTLESS questions from women who's husband or boyfriend flirted with another woman and the woman asks other women's opinions. What do you think another woman would say? duh. Now from a guy, I would tell you that men by societies standards are only allowed 2 emotions, happy and mad. Men get low self esteem JUST as easily as women however are not allowed to discuss it. Other women provide an instant boost of confidence and self esteem that make guys feel 10ft tall and bullet proof. Half of the time guys are just looking for this boost, not necessarily concerned with trying to cheat on you. That was just an example...Serious question now... Why do women always ask for ';Women only'; advice...?
Awesome question ,Bro. But i think that the way men like to flirt with women for that little extra piece of confidence, women do the same. Not necessary that there lesbians but i think both men and females seek that boost from a female for one reason, there honest to men and can relate to women.
Example 1: ';You might be going bald on top but you can always shave your head and be sexy as hell!'; Talk about 10 foot tall, eh?
Example 2: ';Girlfriend, you deserve somebody better than that loser man you got!'; Clearly some women are lucky to have the men they already have, but the idea that they are superior being to there man makes them 10 foot high.Serious question now... Why do women always ask for ';Women only'; advice...?
dude you should know that women only hear the bad things we tell them so why ask us, they already think we are simple minded let then deal with it. like we can say he likes you they will take it as he likes you but he doesn't love you that's how there mind work also they think other women will answer there questions right and that would be the end of it, its just there way of thinking Also Good Question good job matey
or maybe they just no other women are going to tell them what they want to hear
Sir,
Would you like you to discuss your penis with a woman, unless it were phone sex? Think about it!
because guys just say, ';you're retarded, it's all your fault.'; so we can choose between mostly good feedback and mostly bad feedback.
You have made a great point. Maybe some of the people asking the questions do not want to bore the men so they ask ';women only.'; Again, that is a great point!
ha thats a good one because men would tell you why they would do that and women would tell what they would do if that has happened 2 them before.
women only discuss things to have their feelings heard in order to get sypathy or empathy from other women. Men are wired to look for solutions to solve problems. thats why we like to give advice. Have you ever noticed that when you give some women advice they don't follow through? They just want to be heard without having to recieve any advice. That is why most of them are emotionally all over the freakin place!!! Google men and women relationships. Men are more logical and women are more emotional.
because we trust other womens opinions
because guy are to stupid to answer it right they hardly ever really know what advice the should give!
women don't always ask for ';Women only'; advice...
You are right...kinda sorta. We ask advice from women only BECAUSE men can't feel on the level that a woman can.Women need to talk to someone who can totally FEEL where she is coming from.A man can HEAR her ,but not feel her in depth.Women are creatures of emotion,men are creatures of habit.Of course a man(referring to your example)would give this type of advice,because this is what HE thinks.But to a woman its all a bunch of crap.Because if the woman he flirts with were willing.......most men WOULD cheat! Why? Because they can hardly contain themselves when a willing female is around.
I think your gemeralizing a bit much. Not ALL women are one way or another, just like not ALL men are a certain way. I can only speak for myself when I say, I always give my honest opinion. Even if that means I disagree with the writer of the question. I think men think differently than woman, but are not at all hard to figure out.
And by the way, the comment about men only having 2 emotions...happy and mad? Thats not true, those are the only 2 theya re willing to share for the most part.
You really have a good point. Take a bow.
i understand what your saying.. i guess someone women ask for other women's advice due to feeling like its the same sex..they feel comfy about it. most women believe guys are dumb ( sorry to say). its sterotyping it and i think its wrong. i believe you should go to both ways to get advices or not. i always go to my guy friends for advice cus i want it from a different prospective. sometimes i go to my gal friends too.. jus varies on problems i guess. :)
So women should ask men the questions to get answers like we want our ego boosted ? Duh, we already knew that. When women ask men serious questions in wanting to know the male mind better we usually get no answers or answers like do you think were going to give up the man code.
Most of the time, women look to other women for comfort and confidence boosters. Because we're so driven on emotional roller coasters, by our biological make up, that we do this.
Probably so they don't have to hear crap about ';ditch him and date me';. That, or answers that won't make any sense to them from a dude that calls himself Mike Hunt- they may have seen through your subtle code...
Even though a woman, I agree with you, you have a point. They ask these Qs when they think the guy did them wrong and don't wanna admit they had their share in that matter, so by asking ';women only'; they make sure there's gonna be few other men-angry women to support them and tell them how bad and stupid guys are. Because that't what they're looking for, not wanna hear the truth from a guy ..... you know, it is almost impossible for woman to admit she's been wrong ( although we reqire that from guys)..... gosh, I'm gonna be lynched for saying this.......:-)
coz we r wise.. no no... wiser! :) gud luk!
I agree 100%......men CAN and DO give a different perspective. I like to see both sides of the coin, myself.....
In every country, there is an unseen society that really is knitted and that is the Women Society . Women share similar experiences despite of what part of the world the come from they may not even speak the same language but faces similar challenges like child rearing just to name one so women know this and feel so much more comfortable because they know that either that woman have passed that same road or know of someone who did so they understand through their personal experience or those of others and women are not ashamed to cry with each other when it's needed or to just sit is a language women understand because it means she undersatnds beter than the men would
because men are smart alecs
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