I was set up with a girl last Sat night at my friends house. We all stayed the night and I stayed up with this girl and talked with her. We went out last Wed night to dinner and had coffee afterwards. The date seemed to go good and when I asked if she would like to go back out she said that she would. We text a little after our date on Wed. I did not mention the date but just text with small talk and flirt a little. So last night I call her up to talk to her. She picks up and we start to talk a little. I ask her if she would like to do something this week and she says she has to see when she can. I was kinda like uh oh here we go. She did not say no but did not give me an answer like which day or time. However she did keep talking about what happen to her at work and joking about with me. I did cut the confo short and told I would get back in touch. Now is this girl interested to go back out or I am just getting the run around. I mean why pick up the phone if she not interested.Women please advice on this.?
Slow dowwwwwn.... it seems like you might be getting a little too excited about this girl. She may feel like you're coming on too strong.
From what you've explained, she definitely seems interested... but, like MANY girls, we are hard to read... we want the guys to pursue us, but if its too strong, then we'll feel suffocated.
Let her call you next. It'll make her wonder if you are still interested in her, and intrigue her into thinking more about you and eventually caving in and calling you. And if it turns out she doesn't call, then unfortunately, she probably isn't that interested... which, isn't a bad thing because that way you can move onto the next girl who will show more interest :)
Good luck! Have some patience...... good things come to those who wait!Women please advice on this.?
If she doesn't have caller ID, she'd not know it was you..! Call her again, and ask if she'd like to go out....if she gives you ';I'll have to check my schedule'; again, politely tell her you'll get back in touch w/her next week then... If she's playing, then let her play by herself!
Omg, over reacting much.
She does have a life, she might have other stuff in her schedule that comes first!
It really bugs me when guys are like this.
Just wait, if she's interested she will come back.
Man.. if you don't try, you'll never know. I am sure you are not the only fish in her sea.
Hey look dont worry about it she is definatly interested in you because if she wasnt interested she wouldnt have picked up the phone at all.. maybe she genuanly has other plans! give her a little text asking if she is still up for going out? if she declines the offer dont be taken back just say ';ok. Well maybe another night'; and when you see her again dont automatically talk about going out again leave it a week or 2... im a girl and i would be so flattered if i was this girl but maybe she just wants to take things slowly, wer funny in this way! Anyway good luck and i hope i helped!
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Women only. advice on looks. PICS INCLUDED! Serious comments only.?
I am naturally dark brown brunette with fair skin. I have dyed my hair blonde for the past few years and decided since it's fall, I am going to see what (black) brunette looks like on me. It didn't turn out good at all. I was trying to tan to get the look as a super tan, sexy, dark brunette. Any advice you can give me I'd appreciate. I'm at the point where I don't know what to do! :(
What is wrong here: Eyebrows? Hair color? Skin color? Makeup? It could just be my own facial features. ha I don't care how brutally honest you are, just need your help. Thank you!
FRONT VIEW:
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SIDE VIEW OF FACE:
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MY OLD HAIR COLOR: (natural eyebrow color)
http://s35.photobucket.com/albums/d152/JulieBabe2020/Mobile%20Uploads/?action=view%26amp;current=1256008347.jpgWomen only. advice on looks. PICS INCLUDED! Serious comments only.?
1st pic: your hair looks to dark against your skintone, so become more golden with gradual self tanners, but not too dark. it's weird seeing super tan/orange girls in the middle of winder.
3rd pic: i think you should try brown eyeliner, it would look less harsh than black and more natural
5th pic: the blonde looks too peroxide, and the roots are badd
sorry if that's harsh! good points: you do have bright white teeth, your skin tone is even and you don't have many blemishes yay! i think you would benefit from going to a professional and getting your hair color done. or get a box color that has highlights and lowlights in it. I don't think the blonde or brunette would be that bad if you had some more depth of color.
hope this is what you were looking forWomen only. advice on looks. PICS INCLUDED! Serious comments only.?
... wow ohmygosh well the blonde hair didnt suit you it was a little too light. but with the brunette hair you look so great. like GREAT great. I seriously cant see anything else you could do cuz u look absolutely gorgeous in those pics just the way u r now.
i think blonde looks better on you :) your really pretty though and brown doesnt look bad try a caramel brown though or get some highlights.
i honestly think u look fine at where u r right now
I think you look fine both ways, really! As for the brown I recently did the SAME. I was blonde for a little over a year, same shade and JUST went brown, same shade on wednesday :) I have a naturally light skin tone so I too have been a little insecure about it but you look great! As for me I definitely just have to wear make up all the time when I go out to keep that ';natural tan'; look lol but I wouldnt change a thing, it's a good look for you. :)
Hmmm, your are beautiful! Nice smile ... but do not touch your brows because they are perfect the way they are.. but your look is kind of a lil kiddy . Not to be mean, just honest !I'd suggest to get swept bangs those would look really nice on you . Also i think i like your blonde hair better ! OR you can let your hair grow out down to your chest and get a V-CUT !
swept bangs: http://hairbrained.files.wordpress.com/2008/01/rock-n-roll-hair-seraphimc-on-flickr.jpg
What is wrong here: Eyebrows? Hair color? Skin color? Makeup? It could just be my own facial features. ha I don't care how brutally honest you are, just need your help. Thank you!
FRONT VIEW:
http://s35.photobucket.com/albums/d152/JulieBabe2020/Mobile%20Uploads/?action=view%26amp;current=1256008294.jpg
SIDE VIEW OF FACE:
http://s35.photobucket.com/albums/d152/JulieBabe2020/Mobile%20Uploads/?action=view%26amp;current=1256004697.jpg
http://s35.photobucket.com/albums/d152/JulieBabe2020/Mobile%20Uploads/?action=view%26amp;current=1256004661.jpg
http://s35.photobucket.com/albums/d152/JulieBabe2020/Mobile%20Uploads/?action=view%26amp;current=1256004609.jpg
MY OLD HAIR COLOR: (natural eyebrow color)
http://s35.photobucket.com/albums/d152/JulieBabe2020/Mobile%20Uploads/?action=view%26amp;current=1256008347.jpgWomen only. advice on looks. PICS INCLUDED! Serious comments only.?
1st pic: your hair looks to dark against your skintone, so become more golden with gradual self tanners, but not too dark. it's weird seeing super tan/orange girls in the middle of winder.
3rd pic: i think you should try brown eyeliner, it would look less harsh than black and more natural
5th pic: the blonde looks too peroxide, and the roots are badd
sorry if that's harsh! good points: you do have bright white teeth, your skin tone is even and you don't have many blemishes yay! i think you would benefit from going to a professional and getting your hair color done. or get a box color that has highlights and lowlights in it. I don't think the blonde or brunette would be that bad if you had some more depth of color.
hope this is what you were looking forWomen only. advice on looks. PICS INCLUDED! Serious comments only.?
... wow ohmygosh well the blonde hair didnt suit you it was a little too light. but with the brunette hair you look so great. like GREAT great. I seriously cant see anything else you could do cuz u look absolutely gorgeous in those pics just the way u r now.
i think blonde looks better on you :) your really pretty though and brown doesnt look bad try a caramel brown though or get some highlights.
i honestly think u look fine at where u r right now
I think you look fine both ways, really! As for the brown I recently did the SAME. I was blonde for a little over a year, same shade and JUST went brown, same shade on wednesday :) I have a naturally light skin tone so I too have been a little insecure about it but you look great! As for me I definitely just have to wear make up all the time when I go out to keep that ';natural tan'; look lol but I wouldnt change a thing, it's a good look for you. :)
Hmmm, your are beautiful! Nice smile ... but do not touch your brows because they are perfect the way they are.. but your look is kind of a lil kiddy . Not to be mean, just honest !I'd suggest to get swept bangs those would look really nice on you . Also i think i like your blonde hair better ! OR you can let your hair grow out down to your chest and get a V-CUT !
swept bangs: http://hairbrained.files.wordpress.com/2008/01/rock-n-roll-hair-seraphimc-on-flickr.jpg
Women's advice needed: If you text a girl and she chooses not to text back...?
Hi so this is a follow up from my last post.....
So I met a girl last week at a bar. We're both 27. We had a 3 minute phone conversation the next evening. and this weekend I texted her:
';hey adorable brat, thinking about me much? : )';
She never texted me back! haha.
So my questions is....why is the advice (from many of the girls who replied to my last question) to still call her or text her in a few days?
With a text like that I figure, if she doesn't text back, that's obviously a bad sign right?...
I mean, isn't her not texting me back a sure-fire sign that she's not into me???
Please feel free to advise and input!Women's advice needed: If you text a girl and she chooses not to text back...?
Well you obviously take the time to compose questions on here about her so you must really be interested in her.If you are willing to walk away without finding out what the real deal is from the horses own mouth, then do so.
If you are curious or just really interested you might wanna call and put this dog to sleep. She could have got back with her ex, deleted the msg by mistake, never got the msg at all, could be playing hard to get, maybe you offended her, she might not know how to text, she might have texted back but you deleted it or it never got to you.... the possible explanations are endless. Only she would know, and if she picks up the phone when you call, you might know too.Women's advice needed: If you text a girl and she chooses not to text back...?
shes waiting to see how keen you are,try again
maybe she didn't get it?
Maybe she got it %26amp; couldn't text yu right bak %26amp; then forgot...
Just text/call her again. You'll never know if you don't contact her again...
sometimes girls don't text back because they don't want to seem to desperate.
hope I helped.
There are a variety of reasons she may not have gotten the text. I have had them in my mail box and not realized it until a week or so later. So I would keep that in mind...and give her a call in a day or so. If she's not interested, that's the worst thing that could happen.
she might have just skipped the txt or just forgto to reply..
maybe u should send her like a chain text and if she doesnt reply then no dont bother texting her again.
Why did you call her a brat?
She playing hard to get with you...
well, frankly i wouldn't text back either your test was wierd! i guess it really depends on how well you knew her and how comfortable you guys are around eachother, and it seems to me like you guys don't know each other that well..
so i wouldn't text her again because that obviously isn't working, but do call her once and if she doesn't reply than that's that...
keep texting her. not too much thou, you dont want to be stalker like... women like being pursued... maybe this time not call her names?
it may or may not mean she isnt interested. i know, for me, i sometimes get a text, get busy and totally forget to text them back. maybe she got busy....lots of things. dont give up on just one texts
no offense.. but your asking about you.. .. text her and ask what she's up too... ... id let her know that your thinking of her .... .. without being stalkerish.. lol.. ..
sometimes when girls dont text back :
their busy.
their sleeping.
their pissed off.
or they just dont wanna look at their phone.
I'd say, try one more time in a few days. Maybe she doesn't check her messages or something else occurred. If she doesn't text back, then let it go.
What do you have to lose?
i dont think she likes you very much
So I met a girl last week at a bar. We're both 27. We had a 3 minute phone conversation the next evening. and this weekend I texted her:
';hey adorable brat, thinking about me much? : )';
She never texted me back! haha.
So my questions is....why is the advice (from many of the girls who replied to my last question) to still call her or text her in a few days?
With a text like that I figure, if she doesn't text back, that's obviously a bad sign right?...
I mean, isn't her not texting me back a sure-fire sign that she's not into me???
Please feel free to advise and input!Women's advice needed: If you text a girl and she chooses not to text back...?
Well you obviously take the time to compose questions on here about her so you must really be interested in her.If you are willing to walk away without finding out what the real deal is from the horses own mouth, then do so.
If you are curious or just really interested you might wanna call and put this dog to sleep. She could have got back with her ex, deleted the msg by mistake, never got the msg at all, could be playing hard to get, maybe you offended her, she might not know how to text, she might have texted back but you deleted it or it never got to you.... the possible explanations are endless. Only she would know, and if she picks up the phone when you call, you might know too.Women's advice needed: If you text a girl and she chooses not to text back...?
shes waiting to see how keen you are,try again
maybe she didn't get it?
Maybe she got it %26amp; couldn't text yu right bak %26amp; then forgot...
Just text/call her again. You'll never know if you don't contact her again...
sometimes girls don't text back because they don't want to seem to desperate.
hope I helped.
There are a variety of reasons she may not have gotten the text. I have had them in my mail box and not realized it until a week or so later. So I would keep that in mind...and give her a call in a day or so. If she's not interested, that's the worst thing that could happen.
she might have just skipped the txt or just forgto to reply..
maybe u should send her like a chain text and if she doesnt reply then no dont bother texting her again.
Why did you call her a brat?
She playing hard to get with you...
well, frankly i wouldn't text back either your test was wierd! i guess it really depends on how well you knew her and how comfortable you guys are around eachother, and it seems to me like you guys don't know each other that well..
so i wouldn't text her again because that obviously isn't working, but do call her once and if she doesn't reply than that's that...
keep texting her. not too much thou, you dont want to be stalker like... women like being pursued... maybe this time not call her names?
it may or may not mean she isnt interested. i know, for me, i sometimes get a text, get busy and totally forget to text them back. maybe she got busy....lots of things. dont give up on just one texts
no offense.. but your asking about you.. .. text her and ask what she's up too... ... id let her know that your thinking of her .... .. without being stalkerish.. lol.. ..
sometimes when girls dont text back :
their busy.
their sleeping.
their pissed off.
or they just dont wanna look at their phone.
I'd say, try one more time in a few days. Maybe she doesn't check her messages or something else occurred. If she doesn't text back, then let it go.
What do you have to lose?
i dont think she likes you very much
I need advice, preferably from older women.?
I'm a junior in high school and i've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year, and we are fully in love. I plan to marry and spend the rest of my life with him. Now here comes the issue, we have been post poning sex for a while now and I was just wondering when other girls first had sex with thier high school sweethearts?I need advice, preferably from older women.?
The week before my 16th birthday to my first kiss, boyfriend, etc. We did marry but a little sooner than planned because I did get pregnant. You had better be sure you are ready!I need advice, preferably from older women.?
i did with my high school sweetheart when i was 17. we were together for years afterward, but eventually we broke up. i don't think that the sex had any influence on that.
i understand that girls especially are taught to wait, but i don't really believe in that. i think that if you're mature, and you understand the risks and benefits, it can be a rational, adult decision to do so.
my advice to you is this:
1. make sure you understand how easy it is to get pregnant, and be comfortable with at least one, if not two birth control methods. (i.e. get on the pill, and get him learning how to use condoms)
2. make sure that you are actually in love, and not just eager to have sex
3. make sure that he's a guy with a good reputation
4. make sure that you won't regret having sex with him if you guys do end up breaking up some time down the road.
5. make sure he understands the consequences of sex.
play it smart.
The week before my 16th birthday to my first kiss, boyfriend, etc. We did marry but a little sooner than planned because I did get pregnant. You had better be sure you are ready!I need advice, preferably from older women.?
i did with my high school sweetheart when i was 17. we were together for years afterward, but eventually we broke up. i don't think that the sex had any influence on that.
i understand that girls especially are taught to wait, but i don't really believe in that. i think that if you're mature, and you understand the risks and benefits, it can be a rational, adult decision to do so.
my advice to you is this:
1. make sure you understand how easy it is to get pregnant, and be comfortable with at least one, if not two birth control methods. (i.e. get on the pill, and get him learning how to use condoms)
2. make sure that you are actually in love, and not just eager to have sex
3. make sure that he's a guy with a good reputation
4. make sure that you won't regret having sex with him if you guys do end up breaking up some time down the road.
5. make sure he understands the consequences of sex.
play it smart.
Women's advice/opinion?
i am 25 and have a 3.5'; penis when it gets erect, problem is, i suffer mild ED and it doesnt always work. my gf is beautiful and caring but im afraid she sees other men, do you think she does or do you think she remains loyal? she tells me it's not that small but i don't know. what do you think?Women's advice/opinion?
I won't lie to you that is pretty small and the ED is prolly a little stressful for her as well. What you have to do is get creative! Learn and practice pleasing her orally and maybe get a sex toy or two to liven things up. There is more than one way to skin a cat. Start thinking outside of the box or this will plague you for the rest of your life. Good sex doesn't have to be all about penetration there are other ways babe.
Yes sometimes ED can be treated but the 3 inches is an issue that will not go away and speaking for myself three inches wouldn't do much for me and other avenues would have to be explored to keep me interested sexually. I wouldn't stop seeing a small guy if he was willing to explore those options but if all he wants to do is tickle me with his little thing and call it a night then yes I would see him as less of a man and would likely leave. A ';real'; man rises above his short comings. A boy just whines about it and says oh well this is the best I can do. Getting creative is something you will have to learn to do if you want please a woman in the bedroom regardless of the ED. It is what a ';real'; man would do.Women's advice/opinion?
If it can make you feel a little better, I heard that some girls prefer men with small penis, 'cause they have to work harder to please them... I don't have any experience with men, but it definitely make sense !
If you're worried, just talk to her about it. Like someone said, go see a doctor for your problem, he might help you. Don't be ashamed of it ! It's not your fault !
Good luck with that :)
PS: Ok you ejaculated while she was kissing you... that's kind of a compliment for her ! Means you think she's really hot :P
Umm... I'm sorry *hugs*
i've seen smaller
1). Ask her
2). Consult a physician-maybe it's stress related and he can help you out with the ED.
3). Be honest with her and tell her how you feel-relationships should be open.
dude u do gotta small piece but dont worry just get really good at going down on her! ;) xx
Wow man.
Not much in the way of satisfying a woman, eh?
Ah well.
Teh best thing you can do is give her mind blowing oral sex.
I won't lie to you that is pretty small and the ED is prolly a little stressful for her as well. What you have to do is get creative! Learn and practice pleasing her orally and maybe get a sex toy or two to liven things up. There is more than one way to skin a cat. Start thinking outside of the box or this will plague you for the rest of your life. Good sex doesn't have to be all about penetration there are other ways babe.
Yes sometimes ED can be treated but the 3 inches is an issue that will not go away and speaking for myself three inches wouldn't do much for me and other avenues would have to be explored to keep me interested sexually. I wouldn't stop seeing a small guy if he was willing to explore those options but if all he wants to do is tickle me with his little thing and call it a night then yes I would see him as less of a man and would likely leave. A ';real'; man rises above his short comings. A boy just whines about it and says oh well this is the best I can do. Getting creative is something you will have to learn to do if you want please a woman in the bedroom regardless of the ED. It is what a ';real'; man would do.Women's advice/opinion?
If it can make you feel a little better, I heard that some girls prefer men with small penis, 'cause they have to work harder to please them... I don't have any experience with men, but it definitely make sense !
If you're worried, just talk to her about it. Like someone said, go see a doctor for your problem, he might help you. Don't be ashamed of it ! It's not your fault !
Good luck with that :)
PS: Ok you ejaculated while she was kissing you... that's kind of a compliment for her ! Means you think she's really hot :P
Umm... I'm sorry *hugs*
i've seen smaller
1). Ask her
2). Consult a physician-maybe it's stress related and he can help you out with the ED.
3). Be honest with her and tell her how you feel-relationships should be open.
dude u do gotta small piece but dont worry just get really good at going down on her! ;) xx
Wow man.
Not much in the way of satisfying a woman, eh?
Ah well.
Teh best thing you can do is give her mind blowing oral sex.
Women please. advice please.?
me and my boyfriends been sexually active for about 6 months now, we have do not use any method of birth control, protection or even pulling out. my period has always been messed up, but for about a month it stopped. a few days ago i started bleeding it was a lot then it slowed down and stopped all of a sudden. today while having sex it started again, its not a lot of bleeding. for a couple weeks my boyfriend and i have been thinking i was pregnant. ive had cravings for stuff i wouldn't usually eat, my breast have gotten really big %26amp; my auroras around them have gotten really dark brown. my stomach %26amp; breast have been itching %26amp; they are getting really dry. i get this odd feeling in my lower abdominal and a really bad sharp pain. i get headaches all the time, early in the mornings i get a nausea feeling to my stomach %26amp; ive obviously gained weight in my stomach. i just get the feeling that im pregnant. im always feeling weak or achy. when i pee it really hurts %26amp; feels like something is pushing down on my stomach and i always feel like im going to pee. any advice? could i be pregnant, or what is it?Women please. advice please.?
If you are suspecting you are pregnant then why don't you take a pregnancy test? There are other possibilities as well but you can never know for sure and you can't always rule out pregnancy. So go to the store, buy a pregnancy test, take it. If it is negative then you need to see a doctor because obviously what you are going through isn't normal. Get a pregnancy blood test done because they are more accurate than HPT,s at picking up the pregnancy hormone hCG that would be in your system. If you aren't pregnant at all then maybe you should start considering using some kind of birth control to lower your chances on getting pregnant. If you are going to be having sex you need to take responsibility for the consequences that go along with it. If you don't want a baby then use BIRTH CONTROL. Ignorance is not an option. I wish you luck.Women please. advice please.?
Boyfriends? Anyways, you could be preggers. Get a pregnancy test to make sure
Theres a strong possibility, why dont you take a pg test for your own peace of mind.
The answer could be in the question..no protection..sex....pregnant.cheap cosmetics
If you are suspecting you are pregnant then why don't you take a pregnancy test? There are other possibilities as well but you can never know for sure and you can't always rule out pregnancy. So go to the store, buy a pregnancy test, take it. If it is negative then you need to see a doctor because obviously what you are going through isn't normal. Get a pregnancy blood test done because they are more accurate than HPT,s at picking up the pregnancy hormone hCG that would be in your system. If you aren't pregnant at all then maybe you should start considering using some kind of birth control to lower your chances on getting pregnant. If you are going to be having sex you need to take responsibility for the consequences that go along with it. If you don't want a baby then use BIRTH CONTROL. Ignorance is not an option. I wish you luck.Women please. advice please.?
Boyfriends? Anyways, you could be preggers. Get a pregnancy test to make sure
Theres a strong possibility, why dont you take a pg test for your own peace of mind.
The answer could be in the question..no protection..sex....pregnant.
Women needs advice / help with Ford Explorer!?
I have a 2002 ford explorer. I know very little about this vehicle. I am very smart and I know basics about vehicles. I owned a neon for years and new everything about it. I am pretty good about fixing things myself. My problem is now I have kids, babies at that so I don't have time to get under the hood any more.
My problem is every time I take it somewhere to get repaired the flippin mechanic rips me off. I know its because I'm a women and I've learned that鈥檚 how it is in my area got over it.
Okay took it to Wal-Mart for a oil change and air filter change. The dude forgot to put the freakin air filter in. So I take it back and tell them they refund me the 8 dollars whatever for the filter. I laughed and asked him that I was concerned that it would have caused a problem with something else. They said oh no no it'll be fine ( I drove like 150 miles before it started jerking and I checked and found no filter) I knew they were lying but I left went home and the check engine light was still on so I started it up like 15 times in a row to reset it but of course it didn't go off. Took it for a diagnostic check (which auto zone did) They couldn鈥檛 read it to me (funny huh?) So I looked it up and have narrowed it down to either my MAF censor or my O2 censors?
My Question to all you people who know about trucks do you think that driving it with no filter caused it (because I do) and if so how (if I can) do I prove it to Wal-Mart? I am so sick of people jackin my truck up and trying to take advantage of me because they think I'm a freakin moron.Women needs advice / help with Ford Explorer!?
Well first of all, you are getting screwed over all the time because you probably don't want to pay for an actual ASE Technician to repair your vehicle. People at walmart, auto zone, etc are just young kids making minimum wage and not enough skill or training to actually work at a real shop that all their employee's are factory trained and kept up with training all the time. Thats why we charge more then those places. Just remember, cheaper isn't always better as your finding out. Don't blame all mechanics as ';rip-off artists';, as good honest mechanics are out there, they do charge for their training and skill though. My suggestion to you- ask your friends who they go to or recommend. You might find they are a bit higher in price, but in the long run, it will pay for itself in the long run.
As for leaving your air filter off, fine particals can enter your engine and put premature wear on your engine, but most likely, the reason your light is on now is that it cause the MAF sensor to build up with lint or dirt, have it cleaned, replace the air filter and you proably will be good to go. ps, the SES lights won't reset now a days by turning the car on and off, they have to be cleared by using a scan-tool hooked up to your computer systemWomen needs advice / help with Ford Explorer!?
lack of air filter would not harm the O2 sensor, but it could hurt the MAF sensor.
Wal-Mart does not have mechanics, they have wannabes and never-was people, they do not pay enough to have knowledgeable people - with very few exceptions.
Okay that sucks, I sympathise with you. I am a single mom of 2 drive an explorer and have been screwed by walmart mechanics, but not nearly that bad! I was going to suggest you call and speak to the manager then I found this and thought it might help you out.
run back to wal mart and scream and ***** at them. (tell them youre pmsing) haha. thatll frighten em! then thell them exactly what to do, step by step. use as many technical terms as you can. if they still dont do the job right, sue them. say they were sexist. hey, maybe even get them to let you go in the bay and train the clowns there how to change a damn air filter! my freakin 12 year old brother can change an air filter. and he's spent all of 2 minutes under a car hood. and that was because he dropped a quarter in the engine compartment and was looking for it. haha. as for damages done to the car, there could be a number of foreign contaminants in the engine now. that could cause poor performance and foul up your spark plugs. the filters are there for a reason.
I'm confused about how you took it back because there was they didn't change the air filter and got your 8 bucks back but somehow drove for 150 miles without an air filter. Maybe I'm not reading that right. Truthfully some of the cheaper air filters are what cause most problems with the maf sensor. Tiny pieces of the paper element come off the filter and get stuck to the hotwire. Worst part about driving without an air filter would be dust in the rings destroying cylinder wall. Who cares about the maf go steal one from a junkyard. What is the purpose of autozone scanning your car if they don't tell you what they found. At least to try and sell you a part. Weird.
I can not say for certain that not having the air filter installed caused the problem but if you were not having any problems before it is a good possibility the maf sensor which is the mass air flow sensor. It could have given a bad reading to the computer and tried to adjust for all the air that was being taken in and kicked the check engine light on. Disconnect the neg. side of the battery for a minimum of two minutes and then reconnect and start the vehicle and see if it cleared the light. If it does not I would take it back to walmart and make them clear the code and see if it stays out. This is assuming you have the air filter in the vehicle at present. I would talk only to the manager of there service department if they give you crap get notarized copies from two techs from other reliable shops and take them to small claims court and make them pay. You at least have to give them the option of seeing if they can correct there mistake before you take them to court.
My problem is every time I take it somewhere to get repaired the flippin mechanic rips me off. I know its because I'm a women and I've learned that鈥檚 how it is in my area got over it.
Okay took it to Wal-Mart for a oil change and air filter change. The dude forgot to put the freakin air filter in. So I take it back and tell them they refund me the 8 dollars whatever for the filter. I laughed and asked him that I was concerned that it would have caused a problem with something else. They said oh no no it'll be fine ( I drove like 150 miles before it started jerking and I checked and found no filter) I knew they were lying but I left went home and the check engine light was still on so I started it up like 15 times in a row to reset it but of course it didn't go off. Took it for a diagnostic check (which auto zone did) They couldn鈥檛 read it to me (funny huh?) So I looked it up and have narrowed it down to either my MAF censor or my O2 censors?
My Question to all you people who know about trucks do you think that driving it with no filter caused it (because I do) and if so how (if I can) do I prove it to Wal-Mart? I am so sick of people jackin my truck up and trying to take advantage of me because they think I'm a freakin moron.Women needs advice / help with Ford Explorer!?
Well first of all, you are getting screwed over all the time because you probably don't want to pay for an actual ASE Technician to repair your vehicle. People at walmart, auto zone, etc are just young kids making minimum wage and not enough skill or training to actually work at a real shop that all their employee's are factory trained and kept up with training all the time. Thats why we charge more then those places. Just remember, cheaper isn't always better as your finding out. Don't blame all mechanics as ';rip-off artists';, as good honest mechanics are out there, they do charge for their training and skill though. My suggestion to you- ask your friends who they go to or recommend. You might find they are a bit higher in price, but in the long run, it will pay for itself in the long run.
As for leaving your air filter off, fine particals can enter your engine and put premature wear on your engine, but most likely, the reason your light is on now is that it cause the MAF sensor to build up with lint or dirt, have it cleaned, replace the air filter and you proably will be good to go. ps, the SES lights won't reset now a days by turning the car on and off, they have to be cleared by using a scan-tool hooked up to your computer systemWomen needs advice / help with Ford Explorer!?
lack of air filter would not harm the O2 sensor, but it could hurt the MAF sensor.
Wal-Mart does not have mechanics, they have wannabes and never-was people, they do not pay enough to have knowledgeable people - with very few exceptions.
Okay that sucks, I sympathise with you. I am a single mom of 2 drive an explorer and have been screwed by walmart mechanics, but not nearly that bad! I was going to suggest you call and speak to the manager then I found this and thought it might help you out.
run back to wal mart and scream and ***** at them. (tell them youre pmsing) haha. thatll frighten em! then thell them exactly what to do, step by step. use as many technical terms as you can. if they still dont do the job right, sue them. say they were sexist. hey, maybe even get them to let you go in the bay and train the clowns there how to change a damn air filter! my freakin 12 year old brother can change an air filter. and he's spent all of 2 minutes under a car hood. and that was because he dropped a quarter in the engine compartment and was looking for it. haha. as for damages done to the car, there could be a number of foreign contaminants in the engine now. that could cause poor performance and foul up your spark plugs. the filters are there for a reason.
I'm confused about how you took it back because there was they didn't change the air filter and got your 8 bucks back but somehow drove for 150 miles without an air filter. Maybe I'm not reading that right. Truthfully some of the cheaper air filters are what cause most problems with the maf sensor. Tiny pieces of the paper element come off the filter and get stuck to the hotwire. Worst part about driving without an air filter would be dust in the rings destroying cylinder wall. Who cares about the maf go steal one from a junkyard. What is the purpose of autozone scanning your car if they don't tell you what they found. At least to try and sell you a part. Weird.
I can not say for certain that not having the air filter installed caused the problem but if you were not having any problems before it is a good possibility the maf sensor which is the mass air flow sensor. It could have given a bad reading to the computer and tried to adjust for all the air that was being taken in and kicked the check engine light on. Disconnect the neg. side of the battery for a minimum of two minutes and then reconnect and start the vehicle and see if it cleared the light. If it does not I would take it back to walmart and make them clear the code and see if it stays out. This is assuming you have the air filter in the vehicle at present. I would talk only to the manager of there service department if they give you crap get notarized copies from two techs from other reliable shops and take them to small claims court and make them pay. You at least have to give them the option of seeing if they can correct there mistake before you take them to court.
Women only. Advice on looks. PICTURES INCLUDED. Serious comments only please.?
I am naturally dark brown brunette with fair skin. I have dyed my hair blonde for the past few years and decided since it's fall, I am going to see what (black) brunette looks like on me. It didn't turn out good at all. I was trying to tan to get the look as a super tan, sexy, dark brunette. Any advice you can give me I'd appreciate. I'm at the point where I don't know what to do! :(
What is wrong here: Eyebrows? Hair color? Skin color? Makeup? It could just be my own facial features. ha I don't care how brutally honest you are, just need your help. Thank you!
FRONT VIEW:
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SIDE VIEW OF FACE:
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MY OLD HAIR COLOR: (natural eyebrow color)
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I'm usually against girls going blonde, but that pic looks great. You're very pretty. Eyes, eyebrows and skin all look good.Women only. Advice on looks. PICTURES INCLUDED. Serious comments only please.?
There's nothing wrong with your looks AT ALL.
Seriously lool. You're a verrrrry pretty girl^__^
I think you looked great with blonde hair and with brown hair.
You have very nicely shaped eyebrows. And a very nice face.
And if anybody tells you differently they're just jelous. I know everybody says that, but it's true.
You're beautiful.
aw i think you are really pretty but here is my opinion;
get your hair cut in a non-flare sort of way
wear darker (pink and red) shades of lipstick
and do elaborate eye make up (smokey eyeshadow, no eyeliner on the bottom)
other then that you ARE beautiful =)
go back to blonde, the dark hair looks like **** on you. sorry.
you said you wanted the tan,sexy, brunette look...well sorry you need to actually be sexy for that to work out.
you look a lot better brunette, in my opinion
the only thing I would suggest would be to use a different lip color with the dark hair
I like the brown soooo much better!
But please don't be concerned with your looks, your very pretty:)
you're pretty. your hair is plain though, if you honestly want to make a change do something with your hair. but it's really unnecessary
This doesn't belong in women's health.
I'd do you.
i think the blonde hair makes you look prettier but thats just me
Im a guy but i thought i could offer my opinion, you look great both ways i have to say but the darker hair makes you look more serious and down to earth while the blonde makes you look more playful flirty and energetic try brown with blonde streaks you never know could be the look your going for. Best of luck with your choice and don't fret over looks you shouldn't have a problem getting guys or girls either way =).
What is wrong here: Eyebrows? Hair color? Skin color? Makeup? It could just be my own facial features. ha I don't care how brutally honest you are, just need your help. Thank you!
FRONT VIEW:
http://s35.photobucket.com/albums/d152/JulieBabe2020/Mobile%20Uploads/?action=view%26amp;current=1256008294.jpg
SIDE VIEW OF FACE:
http://s35.photobucket.com/albums/d152/JulieBabe2020/Mobile%20Uploads/?action=view%26amp;current=1256004697.jpg
http://s35.photobucket.com/albums/d152/JulieBabe2020/Mobile%20Uploads/?action=view%26amp;current=1256004661.jpg
http://s35.photobucket.com/albums/d152/JulieBabe2020/Mobile%20Uploads/?action=view%26amp;current=1256004609.jpg
MY OLD HAIR COLOR: (natural eyebrow color)
http://s35.photobucket.com/albums/d152/JulieBabe2020/Mobile%20Uploads/?action=view%26amp;current=1256008347.jpgWomen only. Advice on looks. PICTURES INCLUDED. Serious comments only please.?
I'm usually against girls going blonde, but that pic looks great. You're very pretty. Eyes, eyebrows and skin all look good.Women only. Advice on looks. PICTURES INCLUDED. Serious comments only please.?
There's nothing wrong with your looks AT ALL.
Seriously lool. You're a verrrrry pretty girl^__^
I think you looked great with blonde hair and with brown hair.
You have very nicely shaped eyebrows. And a very nice face.
And if anybody tells you differently they're just jelous. I know everybody says that, but it's true.
You're beautiful.
aw i think you are really pretty but here is my opinion;
get your hair cut in a non-flare sort of way
wear darker (pink and red) shades of lipstick
and do elaborate eye make up (smokey eyeshadow, no eyeliner on the bottom)
other then that you ARE beautiful =)
go back to blonde, the dark hair looks like **** on you. sorry.
you said you wanted the tan,sexy, brunette look...well sorry you need to actually be sexy for that to work out.
you look a lot better brunette, in my opinion
the only thing I would suggest would be to use a different lip color with the dark hair
I like the brown soooo much better!
But please don't be concerned with your looks, your very pretty:)
you're pretty. your hair is plain though, if you honestly want to make a change do something with your hair. but it's really unnecessary
This doesn't belong in women's health.
I'd do you.
i think the blonde hair makes you look prettier but thats just me
Im a guy but i thought i could offer my opinion, you look great both ways i have to say but the darker hair makes you look more serious and down to earth while the blonde makes you look more playful flirty and energetic try brown with blonde streaks you never know could be the look your going for. Best of luck with your choice and don't fret over looks you shouldn't have a problem getting guys or girls either way =).
Women's advice? Please???
What is the best to do? I am 22 and will soon use it for the first time.
I know when taking a oral contraceptive, my must also use a second form of protective form. Ok. But my question is when you start the first pack, should I start on the first 24 hours of the first day of my period or wait til the last day and start with the active pill first?
Which is better? Also if I use the pill and spermicide, will I be fully protected from concieving and can I have intercourse w/ bf w/o condom?Women's advice? Please???
I've always heard to either start on the first day of your period, or the Sunday following the first day of your period. (if you start on Saturday, start the next day)
I prefer the Sunday start, because it is easier for me to keep up with, but if you start the pack on the first day of your period, theoretically, you will be MORE protected during your first pack.
If you take the pill properly, you should be fully protected within a couple of months (One doctor told me I only had to use a backup method the first month, the other doctor recommended a three month wait before I stopped using a back up method.) If you are confident in your pill and your ability to take the pills at the exact time everyday, you may be fine without a condom, but know that there is still a very small chance you may become pregnant (it may help you to figure out your ';ovulation days'; and only use a backup method on the days you are ovulating. I know a few couples who do this, and it gives them peace of mind.)
However, if you are not in a monogamous relationship and will have multiple partners you should ALWAYS use a condoms to help protect against certain STD's or STI's.
Good luck, dear!Women's advice? Please???
You should start the pills the first day of your period. They just want your period to make sure you aren't pregnant.
Spermicide is usually less effective for birth control, but please understand you will NOT be protected by the birth control for about 2 months so you have to use a condom at least for the first few months. You can try using Vaginal Concepetrive film. It is more effective than spermicide and is less likely to be used incorrectly.
good luck.
i have been on bc for years and never used a back up method. you will be fine without it. that is what it is for. you start the pack on the day of your period. remember to take it at the same time everyday. you will want to use a back up method for the first 2 weeks or so and also if you forget a day.
I know when taking a oral contraceptive, my must also use a second form of protective form. Ok. But my question is when you start the first pack, should I start on the first 24 hours of the first day of my period or wait til the last day and start with the active pill first?
Which is better? Also if I use the pill and spermicide, will I be fully protected from concieving and can I have intercourse w/ bf w/o condom?Women's advice? Please???
I've always heard to either start on the first day of your period, or the Sunday following the first day of your period. (if you start on Saturday, start the next day)
I prefer the Sunday start, because it is easier for me to keep up with, but if you start the pack on the first day of your period, theoretically, you will be MORE protected during your first pack.
If you take the pill properly, you should be fully protected within a couple of months (One doctor told me I only had to use a backup method the first month, the other doctor recommended a three month wait before I stopped using a back up method.) If you are confident in your pill and your ability to take the pills at the exact time everyday, you may be fine without a condom, but know that there is still a very small chance you may become pregnant (it may help you to figure out your ';ovulation days'; and only use a backup method on the days you are ovulating. I know a few couples who do this, and it gives them peace of mind.)
However, if you are not in a monogamous relationship and will have multiple partners you should ALWAYS use a condoms to help protect against certain STD's or STI's.
Good luck, dear!Women's advice? Please???
You should start the pills the first day of your period. They just want your period to make sure you aren't pregnant.
Spermicide is usually less effective for birth control, but please understand you will NOT be protected by the birth control for about 2 months so you have to use a condom at least for the first few months. You can try using Vaginal Concepetrive film. It is more effective than spermicide and is less likely to be used incorrectly.
good luck.
i have been on bc for years and never used a back up method. you will be fine without it. that is what it is for. you start the pack on the day of your period. remember to take it at the same time everyday. you will want to use a back up method for the first 2 weeks or so and also if you forget a day.
Women need advice on second date?
Went out with woman had a good time and asked if she wanted to go out again and she said yes and she even suggested a drive in movie. She was the one that asked me out and during dinner on our first date I asked what made her ask me out and she said she goes after what she likes. The problem is that after the date we talked and text and chat online for off and on for about two days then the next day I sent a how are you doing text and a text asking if she wanted to get something to eat this week and she has not answered. I really liked this girl and want to know how I should approach it now. Should I wait for about two days then call and see if she still wants to get together and what if she dont answer and not return the call is it worth it to email her and let her know I had a good time and just to contact me if she wants. She also has kids so I dont think she can date around too much either. I met her online.Women need advice on second date?
I think you could call today and ask. If you have to leave a message - just tell her you hope she is Ok and if she needs anything to just give you a call or a TXT. Then if she does not respond within two days send an email with the same thing, basically: ';Hi, I was wondering if everything was OK. When you get a chance, I would like to go out again sometime but I do not want to pester you, I know you have the kids and their stuff to schedule as well. You know how to reach me.';
That tells her you are interested, confused, trying to understand, and a little worried - all of which the situation warrants.
But I will also tell you that people have their personal lives sidetracked by health, family, finances, jobs, and a million other things that happen to them and sometimes it takes a while to find out the real story - so I would not worry just yet. In a few more days, if there is no response, I would just text her or email or voicemail her to ask her if you did something wrong - and leave it at that. The chances are that you did not - at least the way it stands right now, but she should get back to you within a few days - especially once she hears that you are concerned. Sometimes people are in the hospital for a week before anyone knows they had a cold that changed into pneumonia or something like that and they have been on heavy meds without a phone for days. Or people just get really busy or upset about something else in their life and it just pushes everything else out of their mind for a few days also - maybe one of the kids is sick or hurt or a relative died and they had to go to a funeral! It is too soon to know yet - give it some time and try to be calm about it.Women need advice on second date?
Sometimes texts dont send right and they never get them. Dont just assume she is ignoring you.
Wait a day or two and give her a call!
I'm not sure what to say about the text........maybe she did not receive it. but with the email, wait another day or so. Then I would call her personally and invite her for dinner. Give her some time, she may be a bit apprehensive dating a lot with kids depending on their ages.
Dude.... she's got kids... that means she is BUSY...
Don't take it too hard- she just has a lot going on... but it sounds like she is into you so give it a few days and check back with her...
she sounds like she needs to get over herself, you need to move on!! play hard to get, do not let the spoiled brat!! think you are helpless!! thats what feeds her ego, ask someone else out!! play the field
Put your doubt aside. She could be preoccupied with her kids or work. Wait a day and give her a joking text maybe, Do I leave you that speachless? or something that is more you. I know I have gotten a text and forgot about it then 2 days later remembered and wrote back.
don't wast your time if she is at all interested she will get back to you don't act needy let her call you and if she never does then you have your answer!!!!
She sounds like she is a busy girl, so don't get too flustered if she doesn't respond immediately. Call her in a few days, but don't chase after her.
hi there,
I guessing you fall for girls quick!! from what I read!! Just give her about two days and give her a call leave a message stating that ';I had wonderful time on our date and I would like to do it again soon, so if you please give me a call back to set up a time and date that I would great, have a good nite.'; %26lt;-- Or something along those lines should work!! B/C maybe she is just busy with working and her kids!!
BUT -- if ya don't here from here, I am sure you can always find someone else!!
When you have children, you are ';busy!'; But forget the texting and use the phone. Call her. Doesn't have to be a long winded conversation if she is busy, but long enough to ask her if she recieved your text or not and if not then ask the question.
Perhaps she never received your text or doesn't want to say no and is trying to make it possible. Maybe wait a few days and ask again. She may be wanting you to invite her kids to the drive in movies/dinner with you too. Good luck!
I think you could call today and ask. If you have to leave a message - just tell her you hope she is Ok and if she needs anything to just give you a call or a TXT. Then if she does not respond within two days send an email with the same thing, basically: ';Hi, I was wondering if everything was OK. When you get a chance, I would like to go out again sometime but I do not want to pester you, I know you have the kids and their stuff to schedule as well. You know how to reach me.';
That tells her you are interested, confused, trying to understand, and a little worried - all of which the situation warrants.
But I will also tell you that people have their personal lives sidetracked by health, family, finances, jobs, and a million other things that happen to them and sometimes it takes a while to find out the real story - so I would not worry just yet. In a few more days, if there is no response, I would just text her or email or voicemail her to ask her if you did something wrong - and leave it at that. The chances are that you did not - at least the way it stands right now, but she should get back to you within a few days - especially once she hears that you are concerned. Sometimes people are in the hospital for a week before anyone knows they had a cold that changed into pneumonia or something like that and they have been on heavy meds without a phone for days. Or people just get really busy or upset about something else in their life and it just pushes everything else out of their mind for a few days also - maybe one of the kids is sick or hurt or a relative died and they had to go to a funeral! It is too soon to know yet - give it some time and try to be calm about it.Women need advice on second date?
Sometimes texts dont send right and they never get them. Dont just assume she is ignoring you.
Wait a day or two and give her a call!
I'm not sure what to say about the text........maybe she did not receive it. but with the email, wait another day or so. Then I would call her personally and invite her for dinner. Give her some time, she may be a bit apprehensive dating a lot with kids depending on their ages.
Dude.... she's got kids... that means she is BUSY...
Don't take it too hard- she just has a lot going on... but it sounds like she is into you so give it a few days and check back with her...
she sounds like she needs to get over herself, you need to move on!! play hard to get, do not let the spoiled brat!! think you are helpless!! thats what feeds her ego, ask someone else out!! play the field
Put your doubt aside. She could be preoccupied with her kids or work. Wait a day and give her a joking text maybe, Do I leave you that speachless? or something that is more you. I know I have gotten a text and forgot about it then 2 days later remembered and wrote back.
don't wast your time if she is at all interested she will get back to you don't act needy let her call you and if she never does then you have your answer!!!!
She sounds like she is a busy girl, so don't get too flustered if she doesn't respond immediately. Call her in a few days, but don't chase after her.
hi there,
I guessing you fall for girls quick!! from what I read!! Just give her about two days and give her a call leave a message stating that ';I had wonderful time on our date and I would like to do it again soon, so if you please give me a call back to set up a time and date that I would great, have a good nite.'; %26lt;-- Or something along those lines should work!! B/C maybe she is just busy with working and her kids!!
BUT -- if ya don't here from here, I am sure you can always find someone else!!
When you have children, you are ';busy!'; But forget the texting and use the phone. Call her. Doesn't have to be a long winded conversation if she is busy, but long enough to ask her if she recieved your text or not and if not then ask the question.
Perhaps she never received your text or doesn't want to say no and is trying to make it possible. Maybe wait a few days and ask again. She may be wanting you to invite her kids to the drive in movies/dinner with you too. Good luck!
Question for women or advice for a guy with low self confidence with women?
I'm trying to change my attitude and gain some self confidence with women. Ill say I'm your average looking smart guy. My really attractive but married female friends which really sucks (why cant they be single) say I'm extremely attractive. But how much weight can i put into what they are saying due they are friends and not available. From some of the past women who i have dated or tried to date have said that I'm not that attractive. (but again to be honest they weren't that pretty and the last one had man hands). But I'm thinking they have low self esteem and have to be negative to feel better. Like the bully who needs to feel big by beating up little kids.
So does that sound right? Then this part sound stupid but a guy that feels not that attractive but is trying to change his thinking. Is it stupid or delusional for him to think to himself that all women would like to be with him and all guys want to be like him? I know it sounds corny but is that a good way to build self confidence with women?Question for women or advice for a guy with low self confidence with women?
I think it's silly to focus on appearance as the end all and be all to confidence. That's not it at all. We are all our worst critics.
People that we love and admire are naturally more attractive to us than others. My boyfriend thinks I'm gorgeous and sexy, but there is no way I'd ever be mistaken for a model, nor do I look like a celebrity. I think I'm pretty but not gorgeous or sexy. I think he's absolutely handsome, but he hates the fact that he's chubby. It goes both ways.
Focus on what kind of person you are. Be a good, caring, loving person, and you will be attractive to others.Question for women or advice for a guy with low self confidence with women?
You don't have to be attractive to attract women, your character should. Stop obsessing over it.
we all just need to be confident, I know it is easier said than done, I don't have a lot of experience with the oppossite sex, so I know how you feel.
Looks aren't that Important...
NOT THAT IMPORTANT...
get it...
but it's a big asset...
but if you dont have the looks...
dont worry...
you still have your own assets...
like talking to her...
try approaching any random girl...
practice small talks and conversations to that random girl...
dont forget to put humor in your conversations...
its important to make her smile or laugh...
and in the end of that talk get her number...
even if shes not that pretty or sexy...
JUST A PRACTICE!!!!
this was my method on jacking up my confidence...
and i found out that the best pick up line is....
';Introducing myself';...
dont forget once you approach a girl...
everything you do is being observed...
your like in a audition...
your voice, the way you talk, the way you smile,
what your wearing, how you laugh, your hair, everything in you or on you is in a audition...
so always be ready....
and dont forget your goal here is to find the girl your comfortable with...
just try using my tips...
sooner or later you'll be smooth sailing your way to the one you've been looking for...
wow... hey you gotta relax.. you put soo much into ';good lookin'.... have you ever heard beauty is only skin deep??... sounds like your married friends see you for who you are and they like you.. maybe you need to take a lesson from that and be yourself around single females... and let the rest come natural... when you date a new female do not pressure yourself or her about .. am i good looking.. let all that junk go and be fun and interesting and positive and the rest will come natural.... do not rush stuff.. it wont last anyway
So does that sound right? Then this part sound stupid but a guy that feels not that attractive but is trying to change his thinking. Is it stupid or delusional for him to think to himself that all women would like to be with him and all guys want to be like him? I know it sounds corny but is that a good way to build self confidence with women?Question for women or advice for a guy with low self confidence with women?
I think it's silly to focus on appearance as the end all and be all to confidence. That's not it at all. We are all our worst critics.
People that we love and admire are naturally more attractive to us than others. My boyfriend thinks I'm gorgeous and sexy, but there is no way I'd ever be mistaken for a model, nor do I look like a celebrity. I think I'm pretty but not gorgeous or sexy. I think he's absolutely handsome, but he hates the fact that he's chubby. It goes both ways.
Focus on what kind of person you are. Be a good, caring, loving person, and you will be attractive to others.Question for women or advice for a guy with low self confidence with women?
You don't have to be attractive to attract women, your character should. Stop obsessing over it.
we all just need to be confident, I know it is easier said than done, I don't have a lot of experience with the oppossite sex, so I know how you feel.
Looks aren't that Important...
NOT THAT IMPORTANT...
get it...
but it's a big asset...
but if you dont have the looks...
dont worry...
you still have your own assets...
like talking to her...
try approaching any random girl...
practice small talks and conversations to that random girl...
dont forget to put humor in your conversations...
its important to make her smile or laugh...
and in the end of that talk get her number...
even if shes not that pretty or sexy...
JUST A PRACTICE!!!!
this was my method on jacking up my confidence...
and i found out that the best pick up line is....
';Introducing myself';...
dont forget once you approach a girl...
everything you do is being observed...
your like in a audition...
your voice, the way you talk, the way you smile,
what your wearing, how you laugh, your hair, everything in you or on you is in a audition...
so always be ready....
and dont forget your goal here is to find the girl your comfortable with...
just try using my tips...
sooner or later you'll be smooth sailing your way to the one you've been looking for...
wow... hey you gotta relax.. you put soo much into ';good lookin'.... have you ever heard beauty is only skin deep??... sounds like your married friends see you for who you are and they like you.. maybe you need to take a lesson from that and be yourself around single females... and let the rest come natural... when you date a new female do not pressure yourself or her about .. am i good looking.. let all that junk go and be fun and interesting and positive and the rest will come natural.... do not rush stuff.. it wont last anyway
Women -Any advice on this?
Once in a while, I will get dressed to the nines for a formal occasions-heels, dress, pantyhose, etc. The other night, hubby and I went to a wedding reception and he kept complimenting me on how good I looked, especially my legs. When we got home after, he kept up the compliments and then told me that he was curious to try the pantyhose and panties I was wearing for some bedroom kink. I was kind of surprised and asked him why and he told me he wants to experience the feel of what its like. He told me that it wouldnt be an everyday thing and that he had no desire to wear them all the time or anything like that. I'm kind of deciding on it. Anybody out there ever encounter anything similar? What do you think I should do?Women -Any advice on this?
Once he finds out how uncomfortable those pantyhose are, I doubt that he will ever ask again. As for the panties, i got kinky one night and asked my hubby to try them on. It looked kind of sexy, but he said that it was not that comfortable for him. It was a fun night, however!!
Besides, nowdays they are making undies that are practically unisex!! The Hanes for women look like a female version of male under clothes.Women -Any advice on this?
Well if he really wants to let him, but my guess is that he might wierd himself out once he tries them on and realises that they just don't look the same on a guy. Maybe he'll try them once and let it go at that. That is unless of course both of you really like it. At least you know he's crazy about the way you look in them..... Maybe it's a bit like penis envy from a womans perspective. Who knows.
Yep... it's a fetish. My ex was like that... loved pantyhose and painted toes.....however, he never wore the articles of clothing, just admired them. It's up to you... how comfortable are you doing to be seeing him dressed in your ';undies'; ??
whatever two grown people do behind closed doors,is no ones business,i say let him try the clothes.But personally i wouldnt like it if my man did.But like i said to each there own.Good luck to you.
I think you should relax and have fun in the bedroom. Stop thinking too hard about this. He was honest with you. I hope you honored him.
I think this is strange. Don't men tend to sstick with the manly stuff?
this isn't something i personally would consider normal male heterosexual behavior, but who knows...cheap cosmetics
Once he finds out how uncomfortable those pantyhose are, I doubt that he will ever ask again. As for the panties, i got kinky one night and asked my hubby to try them on. It looked kind of sexy, but he said that it was not that comfortable for him. It was a fun night, however!!
Besides, nowdays they are making undies that are practically unisex!! The Hanes for women look like a female version of male under clothes.Women -Any advice on this?
Well if he really wants to let him, but my guess is that he might wierd himself out once he tries them on and realises that they just don't look the same on a guy. Maybe he'll try them once and let it go at that. That is unless of course both of you really like it. At least you know he's crazy about the way you look in them..... Maybe it's a bit like penis envy from a womans perspective. Who knows.
Yep... it's a fetish. My ex was like that... loved pantyhose and painted toes.....however, he never wore the articles of clothing, just admired them. It's up to you... how comfortable are you doing to be seeing him dressed in your ';undies'; ??
whatever two grown people do behind closed doors,is no ones business,i say let him try the clothes.But personally i wouldnt like it if my man did.But like i said to each there own.Good luck to you.
I think you should relax and have fun in the bedroom. Stop thinking too hard about this. He was honest with you. I hope you honored him.
I think this is strange. Don't men tend to sstick with the manly stuff?
this isn't something i personally would consider normal male heterosexual behavior, but who knows...
Women please advice.?
Went out with this girl who has kids. Date went good and we talked afterwards about maybe another date. However, a few days later she told she did not think it would work since I dont have kids. We have been talking still though. We talking about peeps last night on yahoo emailing us and she tells me that my picture is kinda blurry but says I am a good looking guy and that the picture is ok because she still asked me out after she saw the picture. She also said I am the only guy that has not brought up sex with her and she said good job. After that comment I said I guess I get brownie points and she said well best friends forever brownie points. Have I been doomed to the dreaded friend list or what else could it mean. Do you think she maybe into me enough to build a relationship. I know the best relationships start as friends but I do want it to be open to go to more than friendsWomen please advice.?
Ask her if the only obstacle is the kid thing. The advantage to you not having kids already is that you can put her first in your life, whereas if you had kids, she'd be second on your priority list behind them. She deserves to be someone's #1.
If she's willing to consider that as a fact, then she should give you another chance. If she waffles on that, then you're in the Friend Zone, sorry.Women please advice.?
you're doomed. you name's on the friend list.
Ask her if the only obstacle is the kid thing. The advantage to you not having kids already is that you can put her first in your life, whereas if you had kids, she'd be second on your priority list behind them. She deserves to be someone's #1.
If she's willing to consider that as a fact, then she should give you another chance. If she waffles on that, then you're in the Friend Zone, sorry.Women please advice.?
you're doomed. you name's on the friend list.
Need some advice from women?
Are women attracted to totally shaved heads? I'm a guy thinking of doing this, and wanted to know how it goes over with women. So, does a guy shaving his head totally repel women? How do you know if it'll look good in advance? Thanks.Need some advice from women?
mmm I love men with bald heads! I use to be turned on by long hair and that was it, but now either long or bald does it for me. I feel it makes a man look sophisticated.Need some advice from women?
uhm...no...not actually...i usually don't like totally shaved heads....but there are exceptions...I saw this guy in a bus once that was totally *drool* and he had a shaved head. I don't know how it will look on you but you can try it to see women's reaction, because it will grow back faster than you think.
i've seen a very small number of men i think that looks good on...so i guess until you try it you won't really know! but heck if you want to do it, then do it, who cares if ';women'; don't like it. i hope your life is about more than impressing random women!
Some are, some aren't.
You can't really say what women will like.
Some prefer long hair, some prefer shorter, some prefer bald.
It all depends on the woman herself. : )
My friends like guys with hair though, if that helps.
Some women like it, but it really depends on the shape of your head!
The only way to know is to try it, if it looks bad, it will grow back eventually!
Not with completly shaved heads, it doesn't look good and any guy.
I don't find some guys head completely shaved, you should try a Marine cut or a buff look.
no dont, its UGLY
mmm I love men with bald heads! I use to be turned on by long hair and that was it, but now either long or bald does it for me. I feel it makes a man look sophisticated.Need some advice from women?
uhm...no...not actually...i usually don't like totally shaved heads....but there are exceptions...I saw this guy in a bus once that was totally *drool* and he had a shaved head. I don't know how it will look on you but you can try it to see women's reaction, because it will grow back faster than you think.
i've seen a very small number of men i think that looks good on...so i guess until you try it you won't really know! but heck if you want to do it, then do it, who cares if ';women'; don't like it. i hope your life is about more than impressing random women!
Some are, some aren't.
You can't really say what women will like.
Some prefer long hair, some prefer shorter, some prefer bald.
It all depends on the woman herself. : )
My friends like guys with hair though, if that helps.
Some women like it, but it really depends on the shape of your head!
The only way to know is to try it, if it looks bad, it will grow back eventually!
Not with completly shaved heads, it doesn't look good and any guy.
I don't find some guys head completely shaved, you should try a Marine cut or a buff look.
no dont, its UGLY
I need advice from women only please?
What is you opinion on masterbation while with your spouse/bf ?
Is this normal for couples to do? I 'm from the old fashion way of thinking and I was wanting some serious imput from other women on this subject. Thanks for the delicate answers.I need advice from women only please?
I am also from an old-fashioned background. Since I've been married I've done a lot of things I never would have thought in a million years. Yes we have done it but just as a part of the whole sex experience, we haven't actually set out to do it but it just happened in the course of things. I do stay away from kinky stuff though, just not into it. Bottom line, just relax, do what feels natural to you and try to have fun! Learn what feels good and let him know so you can do it again and again and again....I need advice from women only please?
I think it's a real turn on.
in sex an war everythin is allowed!!! accordin to sexologists it is ok as long as ur partner has no problem with it!!!
I think its normal. Ya gotta spice it every once in a while.
it's normal, look at it this way, you enjoy your partners company, right? you have sex together? masterbation is just like having sex , hell , your partner can even help in doing it, you both might even enjoy it and do it more often. my boyfriend and i do it to each other, and let me tell you our sex life hasn't been better.
My husband loves it. We masturbate while watching each other and sometimes he does me and I do him and we kiss in the process. He taught me that, it was uncomfortable at first but after I saw what it did to him I just kept on allowing this to happen.
It is absolutely healthy.....
it's okey to me i dont see anything wrong with that. it might be your secret fantacy with him and be rest assured it will be abit embarassing at first but do it more often or even tell him you want to do it or you want him to do it while you watch and it is fantastic. i was like you and i gained courage and told him i do it and asked him if he does it and when and why he does it ,then it became a conversation and we just found a way we are both comfortable with and believe me we are very naughty now!!and it makes me feel good coz if he asks for it i know in my heart he still wants me and that is encouraging. if you are afraid how to start, start by staying naked all the time he is around and you have enough privacy and tell him to touch here and there it will just fall in place very fast you wont believe it!!!!!!!!
Do you mean while he watches? My husband loves that....I'll do it occasionally....I don't think there's anything wrong with it. It's something different to do in the bedroom, not to mention he normally can't take it and it ends up being old-fashioned sex anyways.
i find nothing wrong with it. Something deviant from the usual routine is good, especially if it turns him on while watching you.
if other isn't there-what are u supposed to do?
think you want permission-that or go find someone else
Whether alone or with your partner, it is a normal thing to do for many loving couples. You may have been raised to believe that masturbation is wrong or sinful, and this is simply not the case. There is nothing wrong about sharing your pleasure in your body with your partner, and vice versa.
There are many How To books and DVDs available to couples who wish to explore their sexuality in this way, and they may be helpful to you.
the old ';look but don't touch'; fashion?
or the old ';let your fingers do the walking'; fashion?
I don't think you should do anything you don't fee comfortable doing. I do, however, believe in experimenting (as long as you aren't doing anything that seriously compromises your ethics). I personally like it. I want my man to feel good and have an orgasm. Men are very visual. You should take it as flattery if he wants to watch you. You may even learn how to pleasure him better by watching the way he brings himself to climax. If you are comfortable enough, ask him to show you what really feels good to him. Making love is very intimate and filled with pleasure and connection with your lover. Just being together and enjoying pleasure given to one another is so magical.
I hope this was delicate enough.
i think it is fine, maybe a little embarassing at first
I think it is very sexy when my husband does it...and he loves to watch me. It's a really turn-on for most people.
Is this normal for couples to do? I 'm from the old fashion way of thinking and I was wanting some serious imput from other women on this subject. Thanks for the delicate answers.I need advice from women only please?
I am also from an old-fashioned background. Since I've been married I've done a lot of things I never would have thought in a million years. Yes we have done it but just as a part of the whole sex experience, we haven't actually set out to do it but it just happened in the course of things. I do stay away from kinky stuff though, just not into it. Bottom line, just relax, do what feels natural to you and try to have fun! Learn what feels good and let him know so you can do it again and again and again....I need advice from women only please?
I think it's a real turn on.
in sex an war everythin is allowed!!! accordin to sexologists it is ok as long as ur partner has no problem with it!!!
I think its normal. Ya gotta spice it every once in a while.
it's normal, look at it this way, you enjoy your partners company, right? you have sex together? masterbation is just like having sex , hell , your partner can even help in doing it, you both might even enjoy it and do it more often. my boyfriend and i do it to each other, and let me tell you our sex life hasn't been better.
My husband loves it. We masturbate while watching each other and sometimes he does me and I do him and we kiss in the process. He taught me that, it was uncomfortable at first but after I saw what it did to him I just kept on allowing this to happen.
It is absolutely healthy.....
it's okey to me i dont see anything wrong with that. it might be your secret fantacy with him and be rest assured it will be abit embarassing at first but do it more often or even tell him you want to do it or you want him to do it while you watch and it is fantastic. i was like you and i gained courage and told him i do it and asked him if he does it and when and why he does it ,then it became a conversation and we just found a way we are both comfortable with and believe me we are very naughty now!!and it makes me feel good coz if he asks for it i know in my heart he still wants me and that is encouraging. if you are afraid how to start, start by staying naked all the time he is around and you have enough privacy and tell him to touch here and there it will just fall in place very fast you wont believe it!!!!!!!!
Do you mean while he watches? My husband loves that....I'll do it occasionally....I don't think there's anything wrong with it. It's something different to do in the bedroom, not to mention he normally can't take it and it ends up being old-fashioned sex anyways.
i find nothing wrong with it. Something deviant from the usual routine is good, especially if it turns him on while watching you.
if other isn't there-what are u supposed to do?
think you want permission-that or go find someone else
Whether alone or with your partner, it is a normal thing to do for many loving couples. You may have been raised to believe that masturbation is wrong or sinful, and this is simply not the case. There is nothing wrong about sharing your pleasure in your body with your partner, and vice versa.
There are many How To books and DVDs available to couples who wish to explore their sexuality in this way, and they may be helpful to you.
the old ';look but don't touch'; fashion?
or the old ';let your fingers do the walking'; fashion?
I don't think you should do anything you don't fee comfortable doing. I do, however, believe in experimenting (as long as you aren't doing anything that seriously compromises your ethics). I personally like it. I want my man to feel good and have an orgasm. Men are very visual. You should take it as flattery if he wants to watch you. You may even learn how to pleasure him better by watching the way he brings himself to climax. If you are comfortable enough, ask him to show you what really feels good to him. Making love is very intimate and filled with pleasure and connection with your lover. Just being together and enjoying pleasure given to one another is so magical.
I hope this was delicate enough.
i think it is fine, maybe a little embarassing at first
I think it is very sexy when my husband does it...and he loves to watch me. It's a really turn-on for most people.
Women and girls opinion and advice?
I have my 15 year old physical in a month. I want to start using tampons but I'm really nervous to and I don't know why. I want to ask my doctor her opinion on tampons, so that I'm not as nervous and can try them. Is this strange to ask my doctor about tampons? especially at my age? Also, how could I ask her?Women and girls opinion and advice?
The doctor hears about this stuff all the time. Im 13 and I started using tampons when I was 12. I totally understand how your feeling it was very nerv racking the first time but dont worry nothing can really go wrong. I actually think asking your doctor is a great idea. Also talking to your mom is great to. I hope this helps.....
4 always~Women and girls opinion and advice?
when you get your physical, and you just had your period theyre gonna ask you if you got it and that would be a good time to ask and you could just say whats your opinion on tampons?
The doctor hears about this stuff all the time. Im 13 and I started using tampons when I was 12. I totally understand how your feeling it was very nerv racking the first time but dont worry nothing can really go wrong. I actually think asking your doctor is a great idea. Also talking to your mom is great to. I hope this helps.....
4 always~Women and girls opinion and advice?
when you get your physical, and you just had your period theyre gonna ask you if you got it and that would be a good time to ask and you could just say whats your opinion on tampons?
How can i break the ice with women???? really need advice. so plz view?
i can talk, joke, and flirt with women, but when it comes to taking the next step i choke. im 16 almost 17 and have made out with a girl and thats it. i guess im kind of a prude, but i have no idea why. i love women and but i am like afraid, it sucks so badly cause i really want a g/f but this stands it my way. i feel so stupid, i just could never get over this hill and now im just a loser. and im an alright looking kid and girls have been madly in love with me but i wont act on it cause i wont take the chance of slipping up. it reaally sucks. so how do i really break the ice, i NEED to get out of my shell. and i need serious answers. so plz help in any way possible.How can i break the ice with women???? really need advice. so plz view?
Umm.... u need to talk to her and see how she feels, if they feel the same way then take it slow step by step, and ask her if she wants to do something even if it is embarrasing, believe me it will pay off in the end!How can i break the ice with women???? really need advice. so plz view?
keep rollin with your instincts! your big head knows better than the little
Umm.... u need to talk to her and see how she feels, if they feel the same way then take it slow step by step, and ask her if she wants to do something even if it is embarrasing, believe me it will pay off in the end!How can i break the ice with women???? really need advice. so plz view?
keep rollin with your instincts! your big head knows better than the little
Fashion advice for women?
I work in a large office and the other day noticed something odd when my co-worker removed his jacket. Showing through his shirt noticeably was the outline of a white bra. How do I tell him I am aware of it and that it is probably noticeable to others.Fashion advice for women?
Don't do or say a thing!! Let it go. Why? Because it's not hurting you or affecting your ability to do your job - or affecting his ability to do his job. Remember, you're at work, not at a club or a bar or something like that. If you give it any attention whatsoever you could inadvertently cause a big stir and embarrass everyone involved. What would you do if you said something and then later found out it wasn't a bra at all but something else?
I know it's difficult, but let it go. So he's wearing a bra... it's not hampering his ability to do his job.Fashion advice for women?
So, let me understand this. A guy you work with has a bra on that can be seen through his shirt. Why do you think he doesn't realize it shows? Maybe he doesn't care if it shows. After all, he revealed his shirt in your presence and didn't seem to be concerned. I don't think I would say anything. It really isn't anyone's business what he wears under his clothes, including you. Don't mean to sound abrupt, but you might want to mind your own business.
lol. if you are close to him ask him whats the deals with the bra and tell him you can see it. if you are just sociable then just write him a note letting him know that you don't wanna make him feel uncomfortable but you can see his bra line. either way, it's still weird. don't tell him that last part.
You don't. It's none of your business.cheap cosmetics
Don't do or say a thing!! Let it go. Why? Because it's not hurting you or affecting your ability to do your job - or affecting his ability to do his job. Remember, you're at work, not at a club or a bar or something like that. If you give it any attention whatsoever you could inadvertently cause a big stir and embarrass everyone involved. What would you do if you said something and then later found out it wasn't a bra at all but something else?
I know it's difficult, but let it go. So he's wearing a bra... it's not hampering his ability to do his job.Fashion advice for women?
So, let me understand this. A guy you work with has a bra on that can be seen through his shirt. Why do you think he doesn't realize it shows? Maybe he doesn't care if it shows. After all, he revealed his shirt in your presence and didn't seem to be concerned. I don't think I would say anything. It really isn't anyone's business what he wears under his clothes, including you. Don't mean to sound abrupt, but you might want to mind your own business.
lol. if you are close to him ask him whats the deals with the bra and tell him you can see it. if you are just sociable then just write him a note letting him know that you don't wanna make him feel uncomfortable but you can see his bra line. either way, it's still weird. don't tell him that last part.
You don't. It's none of your business.
Advice on bringing a pregnant women(I am not the father) home to meet strict Catholic parents?
The girl I am dating (for 2 months) is 7 months pregnant (had a one night stand with some guy and got pregnant) I am bringing her home to meet my parents(they do not know she is pregnant) any advice, I don't want to cause scene? There is also an age difference, I am 19, she is 33
BTW-my parents are very strict Catholics and do not beleive in sex before marriageAdvice on bringing a pregnant women(I am not the father) home to meet strict Catholic parents?
I don't think your parents what ever religion they are would be so thrilled about such a LOSER! Why the heck are you with this woman?Advice on bringing a pregnant women(I am not the father) home to meet strict Catholic parents?
Don't just spring this on your parents and show up with the lady.
Call them ahead of time. Tell them that this is a woman you care about deeply. Explain to them that she is experiencing a crisis pregnancy right now, and ask for their support of her for choosing life instead of abortion. If you think her skin color is going to be an issue for your parents, then bring that up, too.
You don't have to go into how she got pregnant. You can just say, ';It's a crisis pregnancy, and the father of the child is not in the picture and is not going to be in the picture. Honestly, the details don't matter. What matters is that she gets the love and support she needs to choose life for this child.';
Honestly you have to prep your parents for this ahead of time. They are not going to like her though. You've only been dating 2 months as well so I think it might be a bit too early.
Either way work on that story. Obviously tell your parents she's pregnant and don't work out someway that her spouse died in combat....but feel free to completely avoid that bit about a one night stand. That automatically tells most parents that she's immature, irresponsible, and many other negative things.
Do tell them that you are dating her. She is pregnant but you would really like them to meet the girl you are dating and see her for who she is not just as a pregnant woman. Ask them to be open minded and show her the love of Christ. They are going to judge her but the best you can hope for is that they are polite and try to get to know her while you are there.
My 2 cents is that this is a bad idea. I wouldn't do it unti you guys had been together 6 months-10 months. If it's still working out then, with the baby and all that, introduce her to the family.
Well, I'm going to be very honest and you're not going to like this. You're parents would flip even if she wasn't pregnant, due to the age difference and probably race difference (most strict Catholic parents don't like crossing races either). I honestly think you're just going have to swallow, buckle your feet in, and get ready for a storm of wrath. If you two truly want to be together you're going to have to stand together and be willing to show it.
It would show maturity to prewarn your parents. They probably won't be happy with the situation since you are only 19 and the child is not yours. Be prepared for a negative reaction. Your parents love you and are only looking out for you and your happiness in the long run. It would be smart to take this relationship really slow and see how it develops. You are both young and have plenty of time.
Not to bash the catholic religion but it does have alot of skeletons in its closet. But anyway at least she is not getting an abortion. You must be a pretty good person because it would take one to take on the caring and raising of a child that is not yours. Your parents should realize that. In the bible Jesus states ';the one without sin cast the first stone';
I would like to be there to see your parents if they are strict catholics, you are bringing someone almost twice your age, pregnant, and does she have dark roots to go along with that? You must have some vendetta against your parents to do that to them. Good luck.
I would not introduce someone to my parents after two months of dating. Parents do not need to meet every person that you date. I would wait till you have established the nature of your relationship before adding my family to the equation.
Only thing you can do is let them know ahead of time so they dont cause a scene the day they see her. Respect what your parents say, but the relationship is entirely up to you two.
Way to old for you bro. Assess your future and ask yourself,'; Is there a future with someone as old as my mom?';. Question, do you love her?
wow, you like to stack the deck huh? This has a smell of a troll, but if not, GOOD LUCK, you are going to need it.
My question to you is why are you doing this to yourself?
My suggestion to your question is give your parents a heads up. No one likes an unpleasant surprise such as this one.
I agree with gabe
BTW-my parents are very strict Catholics and do not beleive in sex before marriageAdvice on bringing a pregnant women(I am not the father) home to meet strict Catholic parents?
I don't think your parents what ever religion they are would be so thrilled about such a LOSER! Why the heck are you with this woman?Advice on bringing a pregnant women(I am not the father) home to meet strict Catholic parents?
Don't just spring this on your parents and show up with the lady.
Call them ahead of time. Tell them that this is a woman you care about deeply. Explain to them that she is experiencing a crisis pregnancy right now, and ask for their support of her for choosing life instead of abortion. If you think her skin color is going to be an issue for your parents, then bring that up, too.
You don't have to go into how she got pregnant. You can just say, ';It's a crisis pregnancy, and the father of the child is not in the picture and is not going to be in the picture. Honestly, the details don't matter. What matters is that she gets the love and support she needs to choose life for this child.';
Honestly you have to prep your parents for this ahead of time. They are not going to like her though. You've only been dating 2 months as well so I think it might be a bit too early.
Either way work on that story. Obviously tell your parents she's pregnant and don't work out someway that her spouse died in combat....but feel free to completely avoid that bit about a one night stand. That automatically tells most parents that she's immature, irresponsible, and many other negative things.
Do tell them that you are dating her. She is pregnant but you would really like them to meet the girl you are dating and see her for who she is not just as a pregnant woman. Ask them to be open minded and show her the love of Christ. They are going to judge her but the best you can hope for is that they are polite and try to get to know her while you are there.
My 2 cents is that this is a bad idea. I wouldn't do it unti you guys had been together 6 months-10 months. If it's still working out then, with the baby and all that, introduce her to the family.
Well, I'm going to be very honest and you're not going to like this. You're parents would flip even if she wasn't pregnant, due to the age difference and probably race difference (most strict Catholic parents don't like crossing races either). I honestly think you're just going have to swallow, buckle your feet in, and get ready for a storm of wrath. If you two truly want to be together you're going to have to stand together and be willing to show it.
It would show maturity to prewarn your parents. They probably won't be happy with the situation since you are only 19 and the child is not yours. Be prepared for a negative reaction. Your parents love you and are only looking out for you and your happiness in the long run. It would be smart to take this relationship really slow and see how it develops. You are both young and have plenty of time.
Not to bash the catholic religion but it does have alot of skeletons in its closet. But anyway at least she is not getting an abortion. You must be a pretty good person because it would take one to take on the caring and raising of a child that is not yours. Your parents should realize that. In the bible Jesus states ';the one without sin cast the first stone';
I would like to be there to see your parents if they are strict catholics, you are bringing someone almost twice your age, pregnant, and does she have dark roots to go along with that? You must have some vendetta against your parents to do that to them. Good luck.
I would not introduce someone to my parents after two months of dating. Parents do not need to meet every person that you date. I would wait till you have established the nature of your relationship before adding my family to the equation.
Only thing you can do is let them know ahead of time so they dont cause a scene the day they see her. Respect what your parents say, but the relationship is entirely up to you two.
Way to old for you bro. Assess your future and ask yourself,'; Is there a future with someone as old as my mom?';. Question, do you love her?
wow, you like to stack the deck huh? This has a smell of a troll, but if not, GOOD LUCK, you are going to need it.
My question to you is why are you doing this to yourself?
My suggestion to your question is give your parents a heads up. No one likes an unpleasant surprise such as this one.
I agree with gabe
I need Women's advice please?
I had lunch at a restaurant with family members. The waitress is also a relative of mine. As we were eating our lunch, the waitress approached me and said I have an admirer. I responded, ';Huh?'; and she told me to look over at a wall located behind the table we were sitting at. I looked and there was a waiter standing by the wall and he smiled at me. She told me he asked her who am I and am I single? She said she told him, why? Do you want to be her boyfriend? and he said ';Yes I do.';
Before I had a chance to say anything, the other family members starting laughing but not laughing at me, you know? My mother of all people told our waitress to tell him I'm single. Well throughout the meal we kept making eye contact and he smiled at me and I smiled back. So anway I finished my meal, paid my portion and left the restaurant. This waiter is so cute and he looks my age. What would you of done? What do you think I should do now? I don't know his name but he sure is cute.I need Women's advice please?
What a Cute Story!!.......Well if you are the type of girl that feels comfortable walking up and talking to people then I say go for it!! Other than that I think you did the right thing, you paid for your meal and left (that's what I would have done). I mean what more should have happen?? Your relative is there working with him so your already going to get first hand information...right?? The both of you (you and the cute waiter) are just trying to remain calm, yet anxious to meet each other. Be patient, you already know he likes you and your relative (the waitress) the ';middle man'; has done all the ';leg work';, so at least your past that....';do we like each other stage';. Personally I would let him come to me, he is the one that saw you and suggested this whole thing, so there should be no fear of rejection. This might lead into something wonderful, but just go with the flow and act on what feels right. Let things happen don't get rushed or feel pressured to make a move. If he really likes you allow him to be the man and approach you!!
Be Blessed!!I need Women's advice please?
Girl, since he works with your relative you can just have her hook the whole thing up! Just have her give him your number, but tell her to act (towards him) that you didn't tell her to do it. When he calls, agree to go out (when he asks you, which he will!).
If you really like him, then I will take a chance and go back to the resturant and talk to him. It couldn't hurt to talk to him and if things work out and might end up being much more.
give him ur number and name and see what he does with it
Well I would go back to that restaurant for another meal, but on my own or with another friend, so he has the chance of making his move, or maybe you would like to make the first move, thats great, doesnt matter who makes it first, although I am old fashion and I think the gentleman should ask the lady, but that only my opinion. If you want to talk to him, go for it. There are many ways you can attract his attention, like walking past him to go to the ladies, or ordering your meal from him, or just an odd smile occasionally, or when you order a drink, either order it from him, or walk by him on the way to order your drink, etc etc Go for it and Good Luck.
i would have said yes, you should go back to the restabraunt and talk to him go get him tiger lol
i would of walked over to him talked a little asked 4 his name and number
Um, go out with him.
its ok... you just go on... theres nothing wrong to be friend someone. just be yourself.
First, if I was you, I would ask the waitress who is related to what she thinks of the guy. Kind of get a little back ground check on him. Next, if you think you might be interested, try to sit in his section to wait on. Leave him a little note on a napkin. If he shows any more interest, he'll look for something like that. On the napkin just right your name and call me with your number. If he calls, talk to him on a personal level and if you think you like him, try to set up a group date on the town and go from there where ever your heart takes you. Hope this helps. And trust me, that happened to me, I did what I am telling you and me and my man have been together now for 5 months.
Ask him for a date.
Ok.... well if you want a womans advice if you like him then get ur but out there i mean meet him have lunch with him.. and talk get to know him then judge him and see if you like him then take it frum there
I would have been too imbaressed to do anything with my family around but you should deffinatly go back on your own and get his number
i think thats great go for it. introduce yourself, and get to knowhim, and then whatever happens happens.... you never know what will happen. good luck
to make a long answer short just go for it what is it gonna hurt.
If you are under age-- shame on him. If you are not, he finds you attractive; but how many other Customers does this Waiter find attractive?Did he not have Customers he should have paid attetion to, or is this his normal Behavior? Be careful he might be a Casanova.
Hey this is what life is all about. So have fun with it!! In the next couple days go back to the restaurant and see if he is working. You need to get set up on a date with him. You did exactly what you should of done at the restaurant. Good Luck!!
Before I had a chance to say anything, the other family members starting laughing but not laughing at me, you know? My mother of all people told our waitress to tell him I'm single. Well throughout the meal we kept making eye contact and he smiled at me and I smiled back. So anway I finished my meal, paid my portion and left the restaurant. This waiter is so cute and he looks my age. What would you of done? What do you think I should do now? I don't know his name but he sure is cute.I need Women's advice please?
What a Cute Story!!.......Well if you are the type of girl that feels comfortable walking up and talking to people then I say go for it!! Other than that I think you did the right thing, you paid for your meal and left (that's what I would have done). I mean what more should have happen?? Your relative is there working with him so your already going to get first hand information...right?? The both of you (you and the cute waiter) are just trying to remain calm, yet anxious to meet each other. Be patient, you already know he likes you and your relative (the waitress) the ';middle man'; has done all the ';leg work';, so at least your past that....';do we like each other stage';. Personally I would let him come to me, he is the one that saw you and suggested this whole thing, so there should be no fear of rejection. This might lead into something wonderful, but just go with the flow and act on what feels right. Let things happen don't get rushed or feel pressured to make a move. If he really likes you allow him to be the man and approach you!!
Be Blessed!!I need Women's advice please?
Girl, since he works with your relative you can just have her hook the whole thing up! Just have her give him your number, but tell her to act (towards him) that you didn't tell her to do it. When he calls, agree to go out (when he asks you, which he will!).
If you really like him, then I will take a chance and go back to the resturant and talk to him. It couldn't hurt to talk to him and if things work out and might end up being much more.
give him ur number and name and see what he does with it
Well I would go back to that restaurant for another meal, but on my own or with another friend, so he has the chance of making his move, or maybe you would like to make the first move, thats great, doesnt matter who makes it first, although I am old fashion and I think the gentleman should ask the lady, but that only my opinion. If you want to talk to him, go for it. There are many ways you can attract his attention, like walking past him to go to the ladies, or ordering your meal from him, or just an odd smile occasionally, or when you order a drink, either order it from him, or walk by him on the way to order your drink, etc etc Go for it and Good Luck.
i would have said yes, you should go back to the restabraunt and talk to him go get him tiger lol
i would of walked over to him talked a little asked 4 his name and number
Um, go out with him.
its ok... you just go on... theres nothing wrong to be friend someone. just be yourself.
First, if I was you, I would ask the waitress who is related to what she thinks of the guy. Kind of get a little back ground check on him. Next, if you think you might be interested, try to sit in his section to wait on. Leave him a little note on a napkin. If he shows any more interest, he'll look for something like that. On the napkin just right your name and call me with your number. If he calls, talk to him on a personal level and if you think you like him, try to set up a group date on the town and go from there where ever your heart takes you. Hope this helps. And trust me, that happened to me, I did what I am telling you and me and my man have been together now for 5 months.
Ask him for a date.
Ok.... well if you want a womans advice if you like him then get ur but out there i mean meet him have lunch with him.. and talk get to know him then judge him and see if you like him then take it frum there
I would have been too imbaressed to do anything with my family around but you should deffinatly go back on your own and get his number
i think thats great go for it. introduce yourself, and get to knowhim, and then whatever happens happens.... you never know what will happen. good luck
to make a long answer short just go for it what is it gonna hurt.
If you are under age-- shame on him. If you are not, he finds you attractive; but how many other Customers does this Waiter find attractive?Did he not have Customers he should have paid attetion to, or is this his normal Behavior? Be careful he might be a Casanova.
Hey this is what life is all about. So have fun with it!! In the next couple days go back to the restaurant and see if he is working. You need to get set up on a date with him. You did exactly what you should of done at the restaurant. Good Luck!!
He has curiosities about other women please advice!!!?
My long term boyfriend told me that it should be time to make a decision about our relationship and that he loves me but that he has doubts since he hasn't been before with othe women in a relationship like ours, therefore he has doubts about us and whether wich the next step should be. I love him and I don't know what to do right now, I know is a matter of time but in a way the conversation ended that we don't have to take a decision right now at least he doesn't want to. I've been avoiding him first because it hurt me what he sayd and second beacuse I'm not sure what to do. In a way i would like to take some time apart from him...any advice???He has curiosities about other women please advice!!!?
It sounds like both of you need a break from eachother to see other people. You could take a few weeks or months apart and see how you two feel at the end, see whether or not you want to get back together. Otherwise, you could just be patient with him and see if he gets over it, but if you also want time apart, maybe it's the best thing.
It sounds like both of you need a break from eachother to see other people. You could take a few weeks or months apart and see how you two feel at the end, see whether or not you want to get back together. Otherwise, you could just be patient with him and see if he gets over it, but if you also want time apart, maybe it's the best thing.
Serious question now... Why do women always ask for ';Women only'; advice...?
when they know that most women will simply agree with what they have to say and not really give them the advice they need? Agreed, most men aren't good about discussing feelings however men's minds are TOTALLY different that women's minds. You need advice from someone who speaks the language of men to offer a point of view you hadn't thought of. For example, I have seen COUNTLESS questions from women who's husband or boyfriend flirted with another woman and the woman asks other women's opinions. What do you think another woman would say? duh. Now from a guy, I would tell you that men by societies standards are only allowed 2 emotions, happy and mad. Men get low self esteem JUST as easily as women however are not allowed to discuss it. Other women provide an instant boost of confidence and self esteem that make guys feel 10ft tall and bullet proof. Half of the time guys are just looking for this boost, not necessarily concerned with trying to cheat on you. That was just an example...Serious question now... Why do women always ask for ';Women only'; advice...?
Awesome question ,Bro. But i think that the way men like to flirt with women for that little extra piece of confidence, women do the same. Not necessary that there lesbians but i think both men and females seek that boost from a female for one reason, there honest to men and can relate to women.
Example 1: ';You might be going bald on top but you can always shave your head and be sexy as hell!'; Talk about 10 foot tall, eh?
Example 2: ';Girlfriend, you deserve somebody better than that loser man you got!'; Clearly some women are lucky to have the men they already have, but the idea that they are superior being to there man makes them 10 foot high.Serious question now... Why do women always ask for ';Women only'; advice...?
dude you should know that women only hear the bad things we tell them so why ask us, they already think we are simple minded let then deal with it. like we can say he likes you they will take it as he likes you but he doesn't love you that's how there mind work also they think other women will answer there questions right and that would be the end of it, its just there way of thinking Also Good Question good job matey
or maybe they just no other women are going to tell them what they want to hear
Sir,
Would you like you to discuss your penis with a woman, unless it were phone sex? Think about it!
because guys just say, ';you're retarded, it's all your fault.'; so we can choose between mostly good feedback and mostly bad feedback.
You have made a great point. Maybe some of the people asking the questions do not want to bore the men so they ask ';women only.'; Again, that is a great point!
ha thats a good one because men would tell you why they would do that and women would tell what they would do if that has happened 2 them before.
women only discuss things to have their feelings heard in order to get sypathy or empathy from other women. Men are wired to look for solutions to solve problems. thats why we like to give advice. Have you ever noticed that when you give some women advice they don't follow through? They just want to be heard without having to recieve any advice. That is why most of them are emotionally all over the freakin place!!! Google men and women relationships. Men are more logical and women are more emotional.
because we trust other womens opinions
because guy are to stupid to answer it right they hardly ever really know what advice the should give!
women don't always ask for ';Women only'; advice...
You are right...kinda sorta. We ask advice from women only BECAUSE men can't feel on the level that a woman can.Women need to talk to someone who can totally FEEL where she is coming from.A man can HEAR her ,but not feel her in depth.Women are creatures of emotion,men are creatures of habit.Of course a man(referring to your example)would give this type of advice,because this is what HE thinks.But to a woman its all a bunch of crap.Because if the woman he flirts with were willing.......most men WOULD cheat! Why? Because they can hardly contain themselves when a willing female is around.
I think your gemeralizing a bit much. Not ALL women are one way or another, just like not ALL men are a certain way. I can only speak for myself when I say, I always give my honest opinion. Even if that means I disagree with the writer of the question. I think men think differently than woman, but are not at all hard to figure out.
And by the way, the comment about men only having 2 emotions...happy and mad? Thats not true, those are the only 2 theya re willing to share for the most part.
You really have a good point. Take a bow.
i understand what your saying.. i guess someone women ask for other women's advice due to feeling like its the same sex..they feel comfy about it. most women believe guys are dumb ( sorry to say). its sterotyping it and i think its wrong. i believe you should go to both ways to get advices or not. i always go to my guy friends for advice cus i want it from a different prospective. sometimes i go to my gal friends too.. jus varies on problems i guess. :)
So women should ask men the questions to get answers like we want our ego boosted ? Duh, we already knew that. When women ask men serious questions in wanting to know the male mind better we usually get no answers or answers like do you think were going to give up the man code.
Most of the time, women look to other women for comfort and confidence boosters. Because we're so driven on emotional roller coasters, by our biological make up, that we do this.
Probably so they don't have to hear crap about ';ditch him and date me';. That, or answers that won't make any sense to them from a dude that calls himself Mike Hunt- they may have seen through your subtle code...
Even though a woman, I agree with you, you have a point. They ask these Qs when they think the guy did them wrong and don't wanna admit they had their share in that matter, so by asking ';women only'; they make sure there's gonna be few other men-angry women to support them and tell them how bad and stupid guys are. Because that't what they're looking for, not wanna hear the truth from a guy ..... you know, it is almost impossible for woman to admit she's been wrong ( although we reqire that from guys)..... gosh, I'm gonna be lynched for saying this.......:-)
coz we r wise.. no no... wiser! :) gud luk!
I agree 100%......men CAN and DO give a different perspective. I like to see both sides of the coin, myself.....
In every country, there is an unseen society that really is knitted and that is the Women Society . Women share similar experiences despite of what part of the world the come from they may not even speak the same language but faces similar challenges like child rearing just to name one so women know this and feel so much more comfortable because they know that either that woman have passed that same road or know of someone who did so they understand through their personal experience or those of others and women are not ashamed to cry with each other when it's needed or to just sit is a language women understand because it means she undersatnds beter than the men would
because men are smart alecs
Awesome question ,Bro. But i think that the way men like to flirt with women for that little extra piece of confidence, women do the same. Not necessary that there lesbians but i think both men and females seek that boost from a female for one reason, there honest to men and can relate to women.
Example 1: ';You might be going bald on top but you can always shave your head and be sexy as hell!'; Talk about 10 foot tall, eh?
Example 2: ';Girlfriend, you deserve somebody better than that loser man you got!'; Clearly some women are lucky to have the men they already have, but the idea that they are superior being to there man makes them 10 foot high.Serious question now... Why do women always ask for ';Women only'; advice...?
dude you should know that women only hear the bad things we tell them so why ask us, they already think we are simple minded let then deal with it. like we can say he likes you they will take it as he likes you but he doesn't love you that's how there mind work also they think other women will answer there questions right and that would be the end of it, its just there way of thinking Also Good Question good job matey
or maybe they just no other women are going to tell them what they want to hear
Sir,
Would you like you to discuss your penis with a woman, unless it were phone sex? Think about it!
because guys just say, ';you're retarded, it's all your fault.'; so we can choose between mostly good feedback and mostly bad feedback.
You have made a great point. Maybe some of the people asking the questions do not want to bore the men so they ask ';women only.'; Again, that is a great point!
ha thats a good one because men would tell you why they would do that and women would tell what they would do if that has happened 2 them before.
women only discuss things to have their feelings heard in order to get sypathy or empathy from other women. Men are wired to look for solutions to solve problems. thats why we like to give advice. Have you ever noticed that when you give some women advice they don't follow through? They just want to be heard without having to recieve any advice. That is why most of them are emotionally all over the freakin place!!! Google men and women relationships. Men are more logical and women are more emotional.
because we trust other womens opinions
because guy are to stupid to answer it right they hardly ever really know what advice the should give!
women don't always ask for ';Women only'; advice...
You are right...kinda sorta. We ask advice from women only BECAUSE men can't feel on the level that a woman can.Women need to talk to someone who can totally FEEL where she is coming from.A man can HEAR her ,but not feel her in depth.Women are creatures of emotion,men are creatures of habit.Of course a man(referring to your example)would give this type of advice,because this is what HE thinks.But to a woman its all a bunch of crap.Because if the woman he flirts with were willing.......most men WOULD cheat! Why? Because they can hardly contain themselves when a willing female is around.
I think your gemeralizing a bit much. Not ALL women are one way or another, just like not ALL men are a certain way. I can only speak for myself when I say, I always give my honest opinion. Even if that means I disagree with the writer of the question. I think men think differently than woman, but are not at all hard to figure out.
And by the way, the comment about men only having 2 emotions...happy and mad? Thats not true, those are the only 2 theya re willing to share for the most part.
You really have a good point. Take a bow.
i understand what your saying.. i guess someone women ask for other women's advice due to feeling like its the same sex..they feel comfy about it. most women believe guys are dumb ( sorry to say). its sterotyping it and i think its wrong. i believe you should go to both ways to get advices or not. i always go to my guy friends for advice cus i want it from a different prospective. sometimes i go to my gal friends too.. jus varies on problems i guess. :)
So women should ask men the questions to get answers like we want our ego boosted ? Duh, we already knew that. When women ask men serious questions in wanting to know the male mind better we usually get no answers or answers like do you think were going to give up the man code.
Most of the time, women look to other women for comfort and confidence boosters. Because we're so driven on emotional roller coasters, by our biological make up, that we do this.
Probably so they don't have to hear crap about ';ditch him and date me';. That, or answers that won't make any sense to them from a dude that calls himself Mike Hunt- they may have seen through your subtle code...
Even though a woman, I agree with you, you have a point. They ask these Qs when they think the guy did them wrong and don't wanna admit they had their share in that matter, so by asking ';women only'; they make sure there's gonna be few other men-angry women to support them and tell them how bad and stupid guys are. Because that't what they're looking for, not wanna hear the truth from a guy ..... you know, it is almost impossible for woman to admit she's been wrong ( although we reqire that from guys)..... gosh, I'm gonna be lynched for saying this.......:-)
coz we r wise.. no no... wiser! :) gud luk!
I agree 100%......men CAN and DO give a different perspective. I like to see both sides of the coin, myself.....
In every country, there is an unseen society that really is knitted and that is the Women Society . Women share similar experiences despite of what part of the world the come from they may not even speak the same language but faces similar challenges like child rearing just to name one so women know this and feel so much more comfortable because they know that either that woman have passed that same road or know of someone who did so they understand through their personal experience or those of others and women are not ashamed to cry with each other when it's needed or to just sit is a language women understand because it means she undersatnds beter than the men would
because men are smart alecs
Marriage over now Insecure in dating & talking to women鈥?.any advice girls?
I鈥檓 not trying to sound conceited or arrogant so with that set a side here is my question. I鈥檓 a very good looking man, better then normal i would say. 23, tall, blue eyes etc鈥ow can I over come insecurities with trying to date or just even talking to women? I can鈥檛 seem to meet anyone out there and if I do see someone I end up just being shy or even worse looking standoffish. Any recommendations? Girls鈥?any ideas for me?Marriage over now Insecure in dating %26amp; talking to women鈥?.any advice girls?
Practice building friendships first. Hold your head high, look people in the eye, introduce yourself, take a communications class at your local college, join Toastmasters.Marriage over now Insecure in dating %26amp; talking to women鈥?.any advice girls?
You are sooooo YOUNG. Enjoy your life. At 23, there is absolutely NOTHING to be insecure about. Have a great time, live to your fullest everyday. Be proud. Hold your chin up high! Just because your marriage did not work out, it's nothing to be insecure about at all. The problem is you got married WAY too young. Don't get married again for five years, and enjoy yourself.
Practice building friendships first. Hold your head high, look people in the eye, introduce yourself, take a communications class at your local college, join Toastmasters.Marriage over now Insecure in dating %26amp; talking to women鈥?.any advice girls?
You are sooooo YOUNG. Enjoy your life. At 23, there is absolutely NOTHING to be insecure about. Have a great time, live to your fullest everyday. Be proud. Hold your chin up high! Just because your marriage did not work out, it's nothing to be insecure about at all. The problem is you got married WAY too young. Don't get married again for five years, and enjoy yourself.
Working with all women can be stressful please give me advice to help make it through?
I work in the hosptial with all women.You would think that because everyone is older that the stress will be lower NO NO NO I am the youngeset there and I don't start a thing these women are vicous and sneaky how do I try to stay positive and have a good attitude with all the mess that they keep up! Please give me some advice iam losing my mindWorking with all women can be stressful please give me advice to help make it through?
Well ! maybe you're too dam quit to be working with. Maybe you're burgers and fries just want to be eaten up. (yummy)
GOOD LUCK (sweetheart)Working with all women can be stressful please give me advice to help make it through?
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Well ! maybe you're too dam quit to be working with. Maybe you're burgers and fries just want to be eaten up. (yummy)
GOOD LUCK (sweetheart)Working with all women can be stressful please give me advice to help make it through?
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Fashion advice for women?
I work in a large office and the other day noticed something odd when my co-worker removed his jacket. Showing through his shirt noticeably was the outline of a white bra. How do I tell him I am aware of it and that it is probably noticeable to others.Fashion advice for women?
Don't do or say a thing!! Let it go. Why? Because it's not hurting you or affecting your ability to do your job - or affecting his ability to do his job. Remember, you're at work, not at a club or a bar or something like that. If you give it any attention whatsoever you could inadvertently cause a big stir and embarrass everyone involved. What would you do if you said something and then later found out it wasn't a bra at all but something else?
I know it's difficult, but let it go. So he's wearing a bra... it's not hampering his ability to do his job.Fashion advice for women?
So, let me understand this. A guy you work with has a bra on that can be seen through his shirt. Why do you think he doesn't realize it shows? Maybe he doesn't care if it shows. After all, he revealed his shirt in your presence and didn't seem to be concerned. I don't think I would say anything. It really isn't anyone's business what he wears under his clothes, including you. Don't mean to sound abrupt, but you might want to mind your own business.
lol. if you are close to him ask him whats the deals with the bra and tell him you can see it. if you are just sociable then just write him a note letting him know that you don't wanna make him feel uncomfortable but you can see his bra line. either way, it's still weird. don't tell him that last part.
You don't. It's none of your business.
Don't do or say a thing!! Let it go. Why? Because it's not hurting you or affecting your ability to do your job - or affecting his ability to do his job. Remember, you're at work, not at a club or a bar or something like that. If you give it any attention whatsoever you could inadvertently cause a big stir and embarrass everyone involved. What would you do if you said something and then later found out it wasn't a bra at all but something else?
I know it's difficult, but let it go. So he's wearing a bra... it's not hampering his ability to do his job.Fashion advice for women?
So, let me understand this. A guy you work with has a bra on that can be seen through his shirt. Why do you think he doesn't realize it shows? Maybe he doesn't care if it shows. After all, he revealed his shirt in your presence and didn't seem to be concerned. I don't think I would say anything. It really isn't anyone's business what he wears under his clothes, including you. Don't mean to sound abrupt, but you might want to mind your own business.
lol. if you are close to him ask him whats the deals with the bra and tell him you can see it. if you are just sociable then just write him a note letting him know that you don't wanna make him feel uncomfortable but you can see his bra line. either way, it's still weird. don't tell him that last part.
You don't. It's none of your business.
Advice on bringing a pregnant women(I am not the father) home to meet strict Catholic parents?
The girl I am dating (for 2 months) is 7 months pregnant (had a one night stand with some guy and got pregnant) I am bringing her home to meet my parents(they do not know she is pregnant) any advice, I don't want to cause scene? There is also an age difference, I am 19, she is 33
BTW-my parents are very strict Catholics and do not beleive in sex before marriageAdvice on bringing a pregnant women(I am not the father) home to meet strict Catholic parents?
I don't think your parents what ever religion they are would be so thrilled about such a LOSER! Why the heck are you with this woman?Advice on bringing a pregnant women(I am not the father) home to meet strict Catholic parents?
Don't just spring this on your parents and show up with the lady.
Call them ahead of time. Tell them that this is a woman you care about deeply. Explain to them that she is experiencing a crisis pregnancy right now, and ask for their support of her for choosing life instead of abortion. If you think her skin color is going to be an issue for your parents, then bring that up, too.
You don't have to go into how she got pregnant. You can just say, ';It's a crisis pregnancy, and the father of the child is not in the picture and is not going to be in the picture. Honestly, the details don't matter. What matters is that she gets the love and support she needs to choose life for this child.';
Honestly you have to prep your parents for this ahead of time. They are not going to like her though. You've only been dating 2 months as well so I think it might be a bit too early.
Either way work on that story. Obviously tell your parents she's pregnant and don't work out someway that her spouse died in combat....but feel free to completely avoid that bit about a one night stand. That automatically tells most parents that she's immature, irresponsible, and many other negative things.
Do tell them that you are dating her. She is pregnant but you would really like them to meet the girl you are dating and see her for who she is not just as a pregnant woman. Ask them to be open minded and show her the love of Christ. They are going to judge her but the best you can hope for is that they are polite and try to get to know her while you are there.
My 2 cents is that this is a bad idea. I wouldn't do it unti you guys had been together 6 months-10 months. If it's still working out then, with the baby and all that, introduce her to the family.
Well, I'm going to be very honest and you're not going to like this. You're parents would flip even if she wasn't pregnant, due to the age difference and probably race difference (most strict Catholic parents don't like crossing races either). I honestly think you're just going have to swallow, buckle your feet in, and get ready for a storm of wrath. If you two truly want to be together you're going to have to stand together and be willing to show it.
It would show maturity to prewarn your parents. They probably won't be happy with the situation since you are only 19 and the child is not yours. Be prepared for a negative reaction. Your parents love you and are only looking out for you and your happiness in the long run. It would be smart to take this relationship really slow and see how it develops. You are both young and have plenty of time.
Not to bash the catholic religion but it does have alot of skeletons in its closet. But anyway at least she is not getting an abortion. You must be a pretty good person because it would take one to take on the caring and raising of a child that is not yours. Your parents should realize that. In the bible Jesus states ';the one without sin cast the first stone';
I would like to be there to see your parents if they are strict catholics, you are bringing someone almost twice your age, pregnant, and does she have dark roots to go along with that? You must have some vendetta against your parents to do that to them. Good luck.
I would not introduce someone to my parents after two months of dating. Parents do not need to meet every person that you date. I would wait till you have established the nature of your relationship before adding my family to the equation.
Only thing you can do is let them know ahead of time so they dont cause a scene the day they see her. Respect what your parents say, but the relationship is entirely up to you two.
Way to old for you bro. Assess your future and ask yourself,'; Is there a future with someone as old as my mom?';. Question, do you love her?
wow, you like to stack the deck huh? This has a smell of a troll, but if not, GOOD LUCK, you are going to need it.
My question to you is why are you doing this to yourself?
My suggestion to your question is give your parents a heads up. No one likes an unpleasant surprise such as this one.
I agree with gabe
BTW-my parents are very strict Catholics and do not beleive in sex before marriageAdvice on bringing a pregnant women(I am not the father) home to meet strict Catholic parents?
I don't think your parents what ever religion they are would be so thrilled about such a LOSER! Why the heck are you with this woman?Advice on bringing a pregnant women(I am not the father) home to meet strict Catholic parents?
Don't just spring this on your parents and show up with the lady.
Call them ahead of time. Tell them that this is a woman you care about deeply. Explain to them that she is experiencing a crisis pregnancy right now, and ask for their support of her for choosing life instead of abortion. If you think her skin color is going to be an issue for your parents, then bring that up, too.
You don't have to go into how she got pregnant. You can just say, ';It's a crisis pregnancy, and the father of the child is not in the picture and is not going to be in the picture. Honestly, the details don't matter. What matters is that she gets the love and support she needs to choose life for this child.';
Honestly you have to prep your parents for this ahead of time. They are not going to like her though. You've only been dating 2 months as well so I think it might be a bit too early.
Either way work on that story. Obviously tell your parents she's pregnant and don't work out someway that her spouse died in combat....but feel free to completely avoid that bit about a one night stand. That automatically tells most parents that she's immature, irresponsible, and many other negative things.
Do tell them that you are dating her. She is pregnant but you would really like them to meet the girl you are dating and see her for who she is not just as a pregnant woman. Ask them to be open minded and show her the love of Christ. They are going to judge her but the best you can hope for is that they are polite and try to get to know her while you are there.
My 2 cents is that this is a bad idea. I wouldn't do it unti you guys had been together 6 months-10 months. If it's still working out then, with the baby and all that, introduce her to the family.
Well, I'm going to be very honest and you're not going to like this. You're parents would flip even if she wasn't pregnant, due to the age difference and probably race difference (most strict Catholic parents don't like crossing races either). I honestly think you're just going have to swallow, buckle your feet in, and get ready for a storm of wrath. If you two truly want to be together you're going to have to stand together and be willing to show it.
It would show maturity to prewarn your parents. They probably won't be happy with the situation since you are only 19 and the child is not yours. Be prepared for a negative reaction. Your parents love you and are only looking out for you and your happiness in the long run. It would be smart to take this relationship really slow and see how it develops. You are both young and have plenty of time.
Not to bash the catholic religion but it does have alot of skeletons in its closet. But anyway at least she is not getting an abortion. You must be a pretty good person because it would take one to take on the caring and raising of a child that is not yours. Your parents should realize that. In the bible Jesus states ';the one without sin cast the first stone';
I would like to be there to see your parents if they are strict catholics, you are bringing someone almost twice your age, pregnant, and does she have dark roots to go along with that? You must have some vendetta against your parents to do that to them. Good luck.
I would not introduce someone to my parents after two months of dating. Parents do not need to meet every person that you date. I would wait till you have established the nature of your relationship before adding my family to the equation.
Only thing you can do is let them know ahead of time so they dont cause a scene the day they see her. Respect what your parents say, but the relationship is entirely up to you two.
Way to old for you bro. Assess your future and ask yourself,'; Is there a future with someone as old as my mom?';. Question, do you love her?
wow, you like to stack the deck huh? This has a smell of a troll, but if not, GOOD LUCK, you are going to need it.
My question to you is why are you doing this to yourself?
My suggestion to your question is give your parents a heads up. No one likes an unpleasant surprise such as this one.
I agree with gabe
He has curiosities about other women please advice!!!?
My long term boyfriend told me that it should be time to make a decision about our relationship and that he loves me but that he has doubts since he hasn't been before with othe women in a relationship like ours, therefore he has doubts about us and whether wich the next step should be. I love him and I don't know what to do right now, I know is a matter of time but in a way the conversation ended that we don't have to take a decision right now at least he doesn't want to. I've been avoiding him first because it hurt me what he sayd and second beacuse I'm not sure what to do. In a way i would like to take some time apart from him...any advice???He has curiosities about other women please advice!!!?
It sounds like both of you need a break from eachother to see other people. You could take a few weeks or months apart and see how you two feel at the end, see whether or not you want to get back together. Otherwise, you could just be patient with him and see if he gets over it, but if you also want time apart, maybe it's the best thing.
It sounds like both of you need a break from eachother to see other people. You could take a few weeks or months apart and see how you two feel at the end, see whether or not you want to get back together. Otherwise, you could just be patient with him and see if he gets over it, but if you also want time apart, maybe it's the best thing.
Serious question now... Why do women always ask for ';Women only'; advice...?
when they know that most women will simply agree with what they have to say and not really give them the advice they need? Agreed, most men aren't good about discussing feelings however men's minds are TOTALLY different that women's minds. You need advice from someone who speaks the language of men to offer a point of view you hadn't thought of. For example, I have seen COUNTLESS questions from women who's husband or boyfriend flirted with another woman and the woman asks other women's opinions. What do you think another woman would say? duh. Now from a guy, I would tell you that men by societies standards are only allowed 2 emotions, happy and mad. Men get low self esteem JUST as easily as women however are not allowed to discuss it. Other women provide an instant boost of confidence and self esteem that make guys feel 10ft tall and bullet proof. Half of the time guys are just looking for this boost, not necessarily concerned with trying to cheat on you. That was just an example...Serious question now... Why do women always ask for ';Women only'; advice...?
Awesome question ,Bro. But i think that the way men like to flirt with women for that little extra piece of confidence, women do the same. Not necessary that there lesbians but i think both men and females seek that boost from a female for one reason, there honest to men and can relate to women.
Example 1: ';You might be going bald on top but you can always shave your head and be sexy as hell!'; Talk about 10 foot tall, eh?
Example 2: ';Girlfriend, you deserve somebody better than that loser man you got!'; Clearly some women are lucky to have the men they already have, but the idea that they are superior being to there man makes them 10 foot high.Serious question now... Why do women always ask for ';Women only'; advice...?
dude you should know that women only hear the bad things we tell them so why ask us, they already think we are simple minded let then deal with it. like we can say he likes you they will take it as he likes you but he doesn't love you that's how there mind work also they think other women will answer there questions right and that would be the end of it, its just there way of thinking Also Good Question good job matey
or maybe they just no other women are going to tell them what they want to hear
Sir,
Would you like you to discuss your penis with a woman, unless it were phone sex? Think about it!
because guys just say, ';you're retarded, it's all your fault.'; so we can choose between mostly good feedback and mostly bad feedback.
You have made a great point. Maybe some of the people asking the questions do not want to bore the men so they ask ';women only.'; Again, that is a great point!
ha thats a good one because men would tell you why they would do that and women would tell what they would do if that has happened 2 them before.
women only discuss things to have their feelings heard in order to get sypathy or empathy from other women. Men are wired to look for solutions to solve problems. thats why we like to give advice. Have you ever noticed that when you give some women advice they don't follow through? They just want to be heard without having to recieve any advice. That is why most of them are emotionally all over the freakin place!!! Google men and women relationships. Men are more logical and women are more emotional.
because we trust other womens opinions
because guy are to stupid to answer it right they hardly ever really know what advice the should give!
women don't always ask for ';Women only'; advice...
You are right...kinda sorta. We ask advice from women only BECAUSE men can't feel on the level that a woman can.Women need to talk to someone who can totally FEEL where she is coming from.A man can HEAR her ,but not feel her in depth.Women are creatures of emotion,men are creatures of habit.Of course a man(referring to your example)would give this type of advice,because this is what HE thinks.But to a woman its all a bunch of crap.Because if the woman he flirts with were willing.......most men WOULD cheat! Why? Because they can hardly contain themselves when a willing female is around.
I think your gemeralizing a bit much. Not ALL women are one way or another, just like not ALL men are a certain way. I can only speak for myself when I say, I always give my honest opinion. Even if that means I disagree with the writer of the question. I think men think differently than woman, but are not at all hard to figure out.
And by the way, the comment about men only having 2 emotions...happy and mad? Thats not true, those are the only 2 theya re willing to share for the most part.
You really have a good point. Take a bow.
i understand what your saying.. i guess someone women ask for other women's advice due to feeling like its the same sex..they feel comfy about it. most women believe guys are dumb ( sorry to say). its sterotyping it and i think its wrong. i believe you should go to both ways to get advices or not. i always go to my guy friends for advice cus i want it from a different prospective. sometimes i go to my gal friends too.. jus varies on problems i guess. :)
So women should ask men the questions to get answers like we want our ego boosted ? Duh, we already knew that. When women ask men serious questions in wanting to know the male mind better we usually get no answers or answers like do you think were going to give up the man code.
Most of the time, women look to other women for comfort and confidence boosters. Because we're so driven on emotional roller coasters, by our biological make up, that we do this.
Probably so they don't have to hear crap about ';ditch him and date me';. That, or answers that won't make any sense to them from a dude that calls himself Mike Hunt- they may have seen through your subtle code...
Even though a woman, I agree with you, you have a point. They ask these Qs when they think the guy did them wrong and don't wanna admit they had their share in that matter, so by asking ';women only'; they make sure there's gonna be few other men-angry women to support them and tell them how bad and stupid guys are. Because that't what they're looking for, not wanna hear the truth from a guy ..... you know, it is almost impossible for woman to admit she's been wrong ( although we reqire that from guys)..... gosh, I'm gonna be lynched for saying this.......:-)
coz we r wise.. no no... wiser! :) gud luk!
I agree 100%......men CAN and DO give a different perspective. I like to see both sides of the coin, myself.....
In every country, there is an unseen society that really is knitted and that is the Women Society . Women share similar experiences despite of what part of the world the come from they may not even speak the same language but faces similar challenges like child rearing just to name one so women know this and feel so much more comfortable because they know that either that woman have passed that same road or know of someone who did so they understand through their personal experience or those of others and women are not ashamed to cry with each other when it's needed or to just sit is a language women understand because it means she undersatnds beter than the men would
because men are smart alecs
Awesome question ,Bro. But i think that the way men like to flirt with women for that little extra piece of confidence, women do the same. Not necessary that there lesbians but i think both men and females seek that boost from a female for one reason, there honest to men and can relate to women.
Example 1: ';You might be going bald on top but you can always shave your head and be sexy as hell!'; Talk about 10 foot tall, eh?
Example 2: ';Girlfriend, you deserve somebody better than that loser man you got!'; Clearly some women are lucky to have the men they already have, but the idea that they are superior being to there man makes them 10 foot high.Serious question now... Why do women always ask for ';Women only'; advice...?
dude you should know that women only hear the bad things we tell them so why ask us, they already think we are simple minded let then deal with it. like we can say he likes you they will take it as he likes you but he doesn't love you that's how there mind work also they think other women will answer there questions right and that would be the end of it, its just there way of thinking Also Good Question good job matey
or maybe they just no other women are going to tell them what they want to hear
Sir,
Would you like you to discuss your penis with a woman, unless it were phone sex? Think about it!
because guys just say, ';you're retarded, it's all your fault.'; so we can choose between mostly good feedback and mostly bad feedback.
You have made a great point. Maybe some of the people asking the questions do not want to bore the men so they ask ';women only.'; Again, that is a great point!
ha thats a good one because men would tell you why they would do that and women would tell what they would do if that has happened 2 them before.
women only discuss things to have their feelings heard in order to get sypathy or empathy from other women. Men are wired to look for solutions to solve problems. thats why we like to give advice. Have you ever noticed that when you give some women advice they don't follow through? They just want to be heard without having to recieve any advice. That is why most of them are emotionally all over the freakin place!!! Google men and women relationships. Men are more logical and women are more emotional.
because we trust other womens opinions
because guy are to stupid to answer it right they hardly ever really know what advice the should give!
women don't always ask for ';Women only'; advice...
You are right...kinda sorta. We ask advice from women only BECAUSE men can't feel on the level that a woman can.Women need to talk to someone who can totally FEEL where she is coming from.A man can HEAR her ,but not feel her in depth.Women are creatures of emotion,men are creatures of habit.Of course a man(referring to your example)would give this type of advice,because this is what HE thinks.But to a woman its all a bunch of crap.Because if the woman he flirts with were willing.......most men WOULD cheat! Why? Because they can hardly contain themselves when a willing female is around.
I think your gemeralizing a bit much. Not ALL women are one way or another, just like not ALL men are a certain way. I can only speak for myself when I say, I always give my honest opinion. Even if that means I disagree with the writer of the question. I think men think differently than woman, but are not at all hard to figure out.
And by the way, the comment about men only having 2 emotions...happy and mad? Thats not true, those are the only 2 theya re willing to share for the most part.
You really have a good point. Take a bow.
i understand what your saying.. i guess someone women ask for other women's advice due to feeling like its the same sex..they feel comfy about it. most women believe guys are dumb ( sorry to say). its sterotyping it and i think its wrong. i believe you should go to both ways to get advices or not. i always go to my guy friends for advice cus i want it from a different prospective. sometimes i go to my gal friends too.. jus varies on problems i guess. :)
So women should ask men the questions to get answers like we want our ego boosted ? Duh, we already knew that. When women ask men serious questions in wanting to know the male mind better we usually get no answers or answers like do you think were going to give up the man code.
Most of the time, women look to other women for comfort and confidence boosters. Because we're so driven on emotional roller coasters, by our biological make up, that we do this.
Probably so they don't have to hear crap about ';ditch him and date me';. That, or answers that won't make any sense to them from a dude that calls himself Mike Hunt- they may have seen through your subtle code...
Even though a woman, I agree with you, you have a point. They ask these Qs when they think the guy did them wrong and don't wanna admit they had their share in that matter, so by asking ';women only'; they make sure there's gonna be few other men-angry women to support them and tell them how bad and stupid guys are. Because that't what they're looking for, not wanna hear the truth from a guy ..... you know, it is almost impossible for woman to admit she's been wrong ( although we reqire that from guys)..... gosh, I'm gonna be lynched for saying this.......:-)
coz we r wise.. no no... wiser! :) gud luk!
I agree 100%......men CAN and DO give a different perspective. I like to see both sides of the coin, myself.....
In every country, there is an unseen society that really is knitted and that is the Women Society . Women share similar experiences despite of what part of the world the come from they may not even speak the same language but faces similar challenges like child rearing just to name one so women know this and feel so much more comfortable because they know that either that woman have passed that same road or know of someone who did so they understand through their personal experience or those of others and women are not ashamed to cry with each other when it's needed or to just sit is a language women understand because it means she undersatnds beter than the men would
because men are smart alecs
Marriage over now Insecure in dating & talking to women鈥?.any advice girls?
I鈥檓 not trying to sound conceited or arrogant so with that set a side here is my question. I鈥檓 a very good looking man, better then normal i would say. 23, tall, blue eyes etc鈥ow can I over come insecurities with trying to date or just even talking to women? I can鈥檛 seem to meet anyone out there and if I do see someone I end up just being shy or even worse looking standoffish. Any recommendations? Girls鈥?any ideas for me?Marriage over now Insecure in dating %26amp; talking to women鈥?.any advice girls?
Practice building friendships first. Hold your head high, look people in the eye, introduce yourself, take a communications class at your local college, join Toastmasters.Marriage over now Insecure in dating %26amp; talking to women鈥?.any advice girls?
You are sooooo YOUNG. Enjoy your life. At 23, there is absolutely NOTHING to be insecure about. Have a great time, live to your fullest everyday. Be proud. Hold your chin up high! Just because your marriage did not work out, it's nothing to be insecure about at all. The problem is you got married WAY too young. Don't get married again for five years, and enjoy yourself.
Practice building friendships first. Hold your head high, look people in the eye, introduce yourself, take a communications class at your local college, join Toastmasters.Marriage over now Insecure in dating %26amp; talking to women鈥?.any advice girls?
You are sooooo YOUNG. Enjoy your life. At 23, there is absolutely NOTHING to be insecure about. Have a great time, live to your fullest everyday. Be proud. Hold your chin up high! Just because your marriage did not work out, it's nothing to be insecure about at all. The problem is you got married WAY too young. Don't get married again for five years, and enjoy yourself.
Men against feminism, what advice would you give young girls and women today?
What advice would you give women today besides ';stay away from feminism.';Men against feminism, what advice would you give young girls and women today?
Lots to say:
- Use common sense, and think for yourself. Don't trust anything people say.
- Respect those who earn respect, not everyone who demands it.
- You're not 'entitled' to anything, no matter what feminists say, or what Cosmo tells you. You earn everything.
- You'll only contribute to the Domestic Violence rates and/or rape statistics by choosing a bad guy because he's 'exciting' rather than going for a 'boring' good guy. Only in movies can women make the bad guy a perfect husband. In real life, you'll end up as sh*t if you try something like that.
- Women aren't prohibited from making the first move, or paying the bill.
- You have the choice to do anything with your life. Just don't blame others if your choices screw up your life.
- Stay away from friends who tell you men are bad and aren't to be trusted. Make friends as sensible as you want to be yourself.
- Men aren't there for you to compete against, and nor are they inferior to you. They're there to complement women, and women are there to complement men.
- And last, no matter what feminists say, it's perfectly normal to love a man, be a stay at home wife/mother and want to have children.Men against feminism, what advice would you give young girls and women today?
Just to be themselves, be what they want and that they don't need feminism to get on in life.
Id warn them that the feminist economy doesn't really have a place for stay at home women or women that want lots of children unless they choose a life on the dole.
Id tell her that if another woman tries to tell her that average men are responsible for wars, slavery and sexism to respond with, ';isn't it the ruling class that are responsible for those things?';
As a feminist, I am delighted with the sage advice imparted to young girls by such anti-feminist luminaries, if this does not galvanise some into the realisation that 'feminisms' are more relevant today than ever then I will wear a Fathers4 Justice Tshirt and dangle of a major UK landmark...from paternal concern to rank sexism...there is something in there for everyone! pmsl!
The ruling elite? Sexless, faceless entities eh?
1. If you want marriage and children, it's not a good idea to wait until you're 35 or so. The vast majority of women reach their prime with respect to attracting men much earlier.
2. Consider trying to make a Nice Guy less boring instead of trying to make a Bad Boy nice.
3. The Big Government that does stuff on your behalf now can turn on you or run out of other people's money, so don't be so quick to be a liberal.
4. MTV is bad for you. Lifetime is bad for you, as is television in general.
I will warn them that feminism often manipulates facts and statistics to convince you that you are discriminated against, and if you have the skill, you are equal to men in the workplace if you work as hard as they do.
Be as willing to accept the risks, effort and responsibility that men accept if you want all of the privileges men enjoy. Then everything will work out well. You don't need feminism to do that.
My advice is to study feminism using your common sense and an open mind http://www.freewebs.com/feminism-evaluat鈥?/a> Take nothing at face value from pro- or anti-feminists.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=68l4XUeJY鈥?/a>
Unless you are ready to face abuse, torment and depression, DON'T date a bad boy or you will end up saying the following-
';All men are pigs, all men are assholes.';
Men are with different opinions about feminism but for sure generaly they woud agree if modern women still do proper conduct be a role models for the youth.
Grow up. Research the terms ';responsibility'; ';integrity'; ';respect';.
I'd say to them be strong and self confident and don't let feminists tell you that women can't make it in the world without affirmative action.
use more brain and think realistically
stop getting deceived with too much makeups, love %26amp;boys fantasies.
for women it's too late,but I would say to girls to learn to respect men and boys.
feminists don't you dare give me thumbs down.
As a woman against feminism, I am curious to see what answers you get here.
The pill will please your man : )cheap cosmetics
Lots to say:
- Use common sense, and think for yourself. Don't trust anything people say.
- Respect those who earn respect, not everyone who demands it.
- You're not 'entitled' to anything, no matter what feminists say, or what Cosmo tells you. You earn everything.
- You'll only contribute to the Domestic Violence rates and/or rape statistics by choosing a bad guy because he's 'exciting' rather than going for a 'boring' good guy. Only in movies can women make the bad guy a perfect husband. In real life, you'll end up as sh*t if you try something like that.
- Women aren't prohibited from making the first move, or paying the bill.
- You have the choice to do anything with your life. Just don't blame others if your choices screw up your life.
- Stay away from friends who tell you men are bad and aren't to be trusted. Make friends as sensible as you want to be yourself.
- Men aren't there for you to compete against, and nor are they inferior to you. They're there to complement women, and women are there to complement men.
- And last, no matter what feminists say, it's perfectly normal to love a man, be a stay at home wife/mother and want to have children.Men against feminism, what advice would you give young girls and women today?
Just to be themselves, be what they want and that they don't need feminism to get on in life.
Id warn them that the feminist economy doesn't really have a place for stay at home women or women that want lots of children unless they choose a life on the dole.
Id tell her that if another woman tries to tell her that average men are responsible for wars, slavery and sexism to respond with, ';isn't it the ruling class that are responsible for those things?';
As a feminist, I am delighted with the sage advice imparted to young girls by such anti-feminist luminaries, if this does not galvanise some into the realisation that 'feminisms' are more relevant today than ever then I will wear a Fathers4 Justice Tshirt and dangle of a major UK landmark...from paternal concern to rank sexism...there is something in there for everyone! pmsl!
The ruling elite? Sexless, faceless entities eh?
1. If you want marriage and children, it's not a good idea to wait until you're 35 or so. The vast majority of women reach their prime with respect to attracting men much earlier.
2. Consider trying to make a Nice Guy less boring instead of trying to make a Bad Boy nice.
3. The Big Government that does stuff on your behalf now can turn on you or run out of other people's money, so don't be so quick to be a liberal.
4. MTV is bad for you. Lifetime is bad for you, as is television in general.
I will warn them that feminism often manipulates facts and statistics to convince you that you are discriminated against, and if you have the skill, you are equal to men in the workplace if you work as hard as they do.
Be as willing to accept the risks, effort and responsibility that men accept if you want all of the privileges men enjoy. Then everything will work out well. You don't need feminism to do that.
My advice is to study feminism using your common sense and an open mind http://www.freewebs.com/feminism-evaluat鈥?/a> Take nothing at face value from pro- or anti-feminists.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=68l4XUeJY鈥?/a>
Unless you are ready to face abuse, torment and depression, DON'T date a bad boy or you will end up saying the following-
';All men are pigs, all men are assholes.';
Men are with different opinions about feminism but for sure generaly they woud agree if modern women still do proper conduct be a role models for the youth.
Grow up. Research the terms ';responsibility'; ';integrity'; ';respect';.
I'd say to them be strong and self confident and don't let feminists tell you that women can't make it in the world without affirmative action.
use more brain and think realistically
stop getting deceived with too much makeups, love %26amp;boys fantasies.
for women it's too late,but I would say to girls to learn to respect men and boys.
feminists don't you dare give me thumbs down.
As a woman against feminism, I am curious to see what answers you get here.
The pill will please your man : )
Working with all women can be stressful please give me advice to help make it through?
I work in the hosptial with all women.You would think that because everyone is older that the stress will be lower NO NO NO I am the youngeset there and I don't start a thing these women are vicous and sneaky how do I try to stay positive and have a good attitude with all the mess that they keep up! Please give me some advice iam losing my mindWorking with all women can be stressful please give me advice to help make it through?
Well ! maybe you're too dam quit to be working with. Maybe you're burgers and fries just want to be eaten up. (yummy)
GOOD LUCK (sweetheart)Working with all women can be stressful please give me advice to help make it through?
Sex Change!
Well ! maybe you're too dam quit to be working with. Maybe you're burgers and fries just want to be eaten up. (yummy)
GOOD LUCK (sweetheart)Working with all women can be stressful please give me advice to help make it through?
Sex Change!
I am attracted to women.. any advice! NO FREAKS PLEASE?
Ok.. here it is. I have been w/women before and I am still very much attracted to them.. However, I am very shy when it comes to things like this, I would never approach someone. How do I approach someone I am interested in? See for me being with a woman is not just a because thing, because it is a whats happening thing. I love the companionship, sensualness, intimacy, the sexiness that a woman can bring to a relationship. Now I am not lesbian or curious. I know I am bisexual, but how do I get the attention that I want and so much crave???/
Considering I work in the coporate world.. its not like I can just go out and be like, Im bi.. wanna sleep with me, but at the same time, I am who I am and I have secret desires and needs!I am attracted to women.. any advice! NO FREAKS PLEASE?
HEY GIRL!
FIRST OF ALL BEING A LESBIAN IS NOTHING TO BE SHY ABOUT OR ASHAMED! IF YOU HAVE FEELINGS FOR A WOMAN THAT GO FAR FROM JUST SEX THEN ACT ON IT! LOVE IS LOVE NO MATTER WHAT SEX, RACE OR RELIGION! LET ME TELL YOU THAT IF THE PERSON YOU HAVE FEELINGS FOR LIKES TO BE WITH WOMAN TOO, YOU CAN TELL! THE CONVERSATION AND BODY LANGUAGE WILL LET YOU NO RIGHT AWAY! GOOD LUCK! FOLLOW YOUR HEART!I am attracted to women.. any advice! NO FREAKS PLEASE?
talk to them and find out about them. if they are good to go, go for them.
Considering I work in the coporate world.. its not like I can just go out and be like, Im bi.. wanna sleep with me, but at the same time, I am who I am and I have secret desires and needs!I am attracted to women.. any advice! NO FREAKS PLEASE?
HEY GIRL!
FIRST OF ALL BEING A LESBIAN IS NOTHING TO BE SHY ABOUT OR ASHAMED! IF YOU HAVE FEELINGS FOR A WOMAN THAT GO FAR FROM JUST SEX THEN ACT ON IT! LOVE IS LOVE NO MATTER WHAT SEX, RACE OR RELIGION! LET ME TELL YOU THAT IF THE PERSON YOU HAVE FEELINGS FOR LIKES TO BE WITH WOMAN TOO, YOU CAN TELL! THE CONVERSATION AND BODY LANGUAGE WILL LET YOU NO RIGHT AWAY! GOOD LUCK! FOLLOW YOUR HEART!I am attracted to women.. any advice! NO FREAKS PLEASE?
talk to them and find out about them. if they are good to go, go for them.
Women's advice please! I've met this girl...and...?
Well I'm 20 and she's 18 and I really want to meet her. She is smart and perfect in every sense of the imagination, and she's local. But I'm kinda low on cash and transportation right now...what should I do...I mean we clicked right away but we have yet to meet in person...can this e-love work out into a full physical relationship...do women really mind if a guy doesn't have all the material things!Women's advice please! I've met this girl...and...?
Soemdo, but I really don''t care! As long as I'm in love. If she says something about that, then she doesn't love you.Women's advice please! I've met this girl...and...?
doesn't matter as long as you show her that you care....you can always make things for her, means alot more anyways, shows you spent time on her. I think it could work out, can't she come see you?
some do. some don't. idea: why don't you ask her to meet you in a public place like a McDonalds or something that's within walking distance of your place. most women, and with just cause, prefer to meet online friends for the first time in very public surrounding. $5 and you two can have two cokes and two big fries and sit and talk. good luck.
btw, get a job or get a loan and go to college. you can't be poor forever. most women understand a hard working guy who doesn't have much, but a guy that still lives with mom and pop... eww.
Excuse me.... she's perfect in every sense of the imagination,but you only know her through email? you have no money or transportation and want a full physical relationship with a stranger? You are very young and I'm sure you will be a wonderful man, but your thinking is ridiculous. You are spending too much time on the computer(as am I) ';imagining '; things. why don't you get a job for spending money so you do something productive with y our life and have money to date someone you like. And if she is ';perfect'; why are you thinking of a physical relationship rather than thinking of her as someone who is wonderful as a person and feels that you are wonderful too? and yes, normal women mind if a man has no money ,transportation and self confidence.( But that does come with time and experience so don't be too hard on yourself- you're only 20)
we don't mind. you have a good heart, that's all that maters
Well - you haven't met her. You've had minimal contact with her. If you have no money and no car - why would you ask her out? And how can you 'click' right away if you've never met her.
Dating services are not all they're cracked up to be. People lie - a lot. And I would really resent a guy asking me out if he had no money and no transportation. I wouldn't think that I had much of a future with someone who can't even afford to pay for a date.
it depends on the woman but personally I do not care if a man has money or not. there are many romantic fun things 2 do with little cash needed, u just need 2 use ur imagination.
long walks, museums, picnics in the park or beach or boardwalk whatever, things like that can be fun an not expensive in the least. cook 4 her woman love that (as long as u can cook lol)
use ur imagination n have fun
how ya gonna know if you don't put forth any EFFORT! gee why do you all think everything can be handed to you??!!! UGH kids!
It depends on the girl. Some girls are after guys who have money, and some girls just don't care as long as he has enough money to have fun with her. It also depends on what she is used to. I think as the woman gets older, she wants someone who is equivalent and or better off financially than she is. She thinks he should be the one who supports the family, and her money is the play money
Get a job be somebody .
Soemdo, but I really don''t care! As long as I'm in love. If she says something about that, then she doesn't love you.Women's advice please! I've met this girl...and...?
doesn't matter as long as you show her that you care....you can always make things for her, means alot more anyways, shows you spent time on her. I think it could work out, can't she come see you?
some do. some don't. idea: why don't you ask her to meet you in a public place like a McDonalds or something that's within walking distance of your place. most women, and with just cause, prefer to meet online friends for the first time in very public surrounding. $5 and you two can have two cokes and two big fries and sit and talk. good luck.
btw, get a job or get a loan and go to college. you can't be poor forever. most women understand a hard working guy who doesn't have much, but a guy that still lives with mom and pop... eww.
Excuse me.... she's perfect in every sense of the imagination,but you only know her through email? you have no money or transportation and want a full physical relationship with a stranger? You are very young and I'm sure you will be a wonderful man, but your thinking is ridiculous. You are spending too much time on the computer(as am I) ';imagining '; things. why don't you get a job for spending money so you do something productive with y our life and have money to date someone you like. And if she is ';perfect'; why are you thinking of a physical relationship rather than thinking of her as someone who is wonderful as a person and feels that you are wonderful too? and yes, normal women mind if a man has no money ,transportation and self confidence.( But that does come with time and experience so don't be too hard on yourself- you're only 20)
we don't mind. you have a good heart, that's all that maters
Well - you haven't met her. You've had minimal contact with her. If you have no money and no car - why would you ask her out? And how can you 'click' right away if you've never met her.
Dating services are not all they're cracked up to be. People lie - a lot. And I would really resent a guy asking me out if he had no money and no transportation. I wouldn't think that I had much of a future with someone who can't even afford to pay for a date.
it depends on the woman but personally I do not care if a man has money or not. there are many romantic fun things 2 do with little cash needed, u just need 2 use ur imagination.
long walks, museums, picnics in the park or beach or boardwalk whatever, things like that can be fun an not expensive in the least. cook 4 her woman love that (as long as u can cook lol)
use ur imagination n have fun
how ya gonna know if you don't put forth any EFFORT! gee why do you all think everything can be handed to you??!!! UGH kids!
It depends on the girl. Some girls are after guys who have money, and some girls just don't care as long as he has enough money to have fun with her. It also depends on what she is used to. I think as the woman gets older, she wants someone who is equivalent and or better off financially than she is. She thinks he should be the one who supports the family, and her money is the play money
Get a job be somebody .
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