okay.. i really don't think i'm pregnant.. but i went to the potty room and noticed only a little bit of blood. My period is due to come anywhere from not until the ninth.. usually it comes on fast at first though. Has anyone ever experienced a period that came on sort of slow, then picked up in amount?Need women's advice?
that is normal. mine usually start off slow then kick in. it's frustrating because you just want to get it over with already. plus, periods vary from month to month so sometimes they start right away then taper off or vice versa. just wear a panty liner when you start bleeding to be on the safe side.Need women's advice?
Yes i have. Lots of things can change the way your period comes. I wouldn't worry about it.
mine are always like that....little bit of spotting the first couple of days....then lots for a couple of days....then spot for a couple of days.
I have the same problem. However, my older sister had her period for the first 3 months of her pregnancy, and it was a regular period each month. I start off spotting for a day or two and then it begins to flow heavily around day three.
Monday, August 23, 2010
Women: Flirting Advice?
I Like This Girl, and I Freeze up When I start talking to her, I need some serious help =\Women: Flirting Advice?
haha, that's cute in a strange way.
Just relax! Take a deep breath before you talk to her. Before you talk to her just remember she's just another human. And she's probably nervous too. Just relax and take it easy and you don't have to flirt, just get to know her at first, then when you get more comfortable you can start flirting.Women: Flirting Advice?
just be calm and relaxed just go up to her and talk to her and out of nowhere just say umm any chance u wanna go out the girls r more nervous then boys they never kno how to ask they feel scared the boy will say no just ask her be brave!
haha, that's cute in a strange way.
Just relax! Take a deep breath before you talk to her. Before you talk to her just remember she's just another human. And she's probably nervous too. Just relax and take it easy and you don't have to flirt, just get to know her at first, then when you get more comfortable you can start flirting.Women: Flirting Advice?
just be calm and relaxed just go up to her and talk to her and out of nowhere just say umm any chance u wanna go out the girls r more nervous then boys they never kno how to ask they feel scared the boy will say no just ask her be brave!
Women's advice?
I am a male who loves victoria' secret, not only because they make sexy items for women, but the comfort for a man. I am interested in buying a few more v-strings and was wondering if you think the one in my pic in coral blush, aloe gree, and lime citron are nice. Also, what bikins are comfy, and other thongs do u suggest. Please appreciate your assistance.Women's advice?
I personally don't like v strings...because they make my love handles stick out :P But I love their boyshorts and thongs. I usually go for the Pink brand with the 5 for $25 deal. They're really comfy and come in all the different styles! Here's a link: http://www2.victoriassecret.com/collecti鈥?/a>
I've also bought a few mesh thongs from VS and they've held up for years....you wouldn't even know they are that old! They still look brand new.
Good luck finding what you want! They have so many choices! And don't let those negative nancy's get you down! :DWomen's advice?
are you saying you want the v-strings!?
Buy men underwear. Not women's please.
oh my god.
are you gay by any chance?
NICE GROIN on that picture there. Is that yours? It looks like a real vagina.
i suggest you buy some briefs, there just as sexy as bikinis but made for men. you will be ten times more comfortable! try American apparel they have them in every color imaginable. but if you must go for the coral blush.
Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww鈥?would a guy want a v string ?
I can't imagine a ';v-string'; or thong being comfortable for a man.
If you must go with the coral blush,
but seriously you would be way more comfortable with either something made for men, or at the very least a ';full bottomed'; pantie, or boyshort, something that stretches.
Anyway I don't think you are going to find to many girls that like your personal taste in underwear.
THATS SICK.....
My advice
Buy boxers that are actually made for men Xo
I personally don't like v strings...because they make my love handles stick out :P But I love their boyshorts and thongs. I usually go for the Pink brand with the 5 for $25 deal. They're really comfy and come in all the different styles! Here's a link: http://www2.victoriassecret.com/collecti鈥?/a>
I've also bought a few mesh thongs from VS and they've held up for years....you wouldn't even know they are that old! They still look brand new.
Good luck finding what you want! They have so many choices! And don't let those negative nancy's get you down! :DWomen's advice?
are you saying you want the v-strings!?
Buy men underwear. Not women's please.
oh my god.
are you gay by any chance?
NICE GROIN on that picture there. Is that yours? It looks like a real vagina.
i suggest you buy some briefs, there just as sexy as bikinis but made for men. you will be ten times more comfortable! try American apparel they have them in every color imaginable. but if you must go for the coral blush.
Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww鈥?would a guy want a v string ?
I can't imagine a ';v-string'; or thong being comfortable for a man.
If you must go with the coral blush,
but seriously you would be way more comfortable with either something made for men, or at the very least a ';full bottomed'; pantie, or boyshort, something that stretches.
Anyway I don't think you are going to find to many girls that like your personal taste in underwear.
THATS SICK.....
My advice
Buy boxers that are actually made for men Xo
Women please advice on this.
I had a date with a woman. Its been bout 2 weeks since the date. Other things have came up so we have not been able to get together. I was a little worried she did not have much interest. However, I text her the other day and asked if she like to do something. She said she not sure since she has a black eye and yes its true I seen it, she fell or something. I said I understand that we can still have dinner at my house. She said we can see. So I ask if she still wanted to hang because I do not want to bother her if she don't. She said no that she still wants to hang with me if I still do. So the question is that I gave her a way out if she wanted out. All this was through text and she could have said lets just be friends or no I don't think it would work. So what do you make of her interest level.Women please advice on this.
sounds like she just wants to be friends nothing wrong with having another friend and ya never know in time it might turn in to more Women please advice on this.
she could very well be embarrased by her eye and not want to go anywhere. once her eye gets better, if she still turns away plans with you, then i would say she is not interested. then leave it alone.
she sounds interested but doesn't want you to see her on an intimate level with that black eye! lol...
sounds like she just wants to be friends nothing wrong with having another friend and ya never know in time it might turn in to more Women please advice on this.
she could very well be embarrased by her eye and not want to go anywhere. once her eye gets better, if she still turns away plans with you, then i would say she is not interested. then leave it alone.
she sounds interested but doesn't want you to see her on an intimate level with that black eye! lol...
Women only advice plz?
i experianced violence from my partner several times in the 7 years we were together! we no longer live together as i reported it to the police! we have a child together so i still have to see him but he still plays mind games and does every thing he can to hurt me! he leaves me struggling for money by not paying his half of morgage ect!! its getting me down and cant really talk to my family about it! should i use womens aid? not sure what to do and feel i need some sort of help now as its affecting me and i dont want it to affect my childWomen only advice plz?
It has already effected your child. Children are not blind nor deaf. Most children are extremely sensitive to the feelings of their parents. Yes, use every resource available to you.Women only advice plz?
i hate those mind games...if you can manage on your own, dont get any thing from him,ignore him..........or take hime to court so that he can be ordered to pay..why do men hurt us so much?
woman's aid are amazing at helping with this sort of thing
Why don`t u get a divorce if u were married to this man, let the court decide what he will pay. Don`t allow these mind games. If u feel he is unfit as a father and can prove it, u will rec. full custody of ur child. U r enabling him to treat u the way he is, there r laws to protect u, but u must take the initiative and get the ball rolling.
You definitely need to heed the advice here of seeking professional help from Citizen's Advice or Women's support groups who are adept at dealing with issues like yours.
Don't try to suffer this and put on a brave face.
You need to act and will come out feeling so much better, both for you and your child.
you can use the refuse to take a break from it all and chill out.you would probably be far more able to deal with your ex after a break
How I hate controlling idiots like this guy. His problem is that he can't stand to see that you can cope without him, I am sure he's not happy, if he was he wouldn't behave in this manner. Have you tried having a chat with your GP to see what kind of help is out there for you ? Please don't give up, you sound as if you're a strong, lovely lady and I wish you all the best.
Men somtimes are stupid, they thik that they have right to do anything, somebody should stop them, when you are facing with these men you should fight, and you have many supports, try to use all these supports.
Hey guys can help too you know!. we're not all bast##ds ..
My advice to you is , if you know off of someone or some organisation that might offer help - then don't waste time in here , go get the help.
Dont let this bloke win, you are better than that! You can get help with making him pay his half for your child and the house! He is just a bully once you get tough which you are doing by wanting help, he will back down! Blokes like this make me sick, he doesn't even deserve to see your child, go through the courts to sort out set days when he can see your child, then you shouldn't have much contact with him! If he doesn't follow these rules then he risks losing his child! He cant hurt you anymore just don't let him see he can still affect you in anyway! Stay tough and don't let this bully win! Take care x
Your partner is a despot dictator, who gets his kicks from making you and your child suffer, the best thing to do with a dictator is to overthrow him, you need to get as independent of him as possible, maybe take a second job, or take in students to help pay the mortgage,do something help yourself don't look to him to help you, it gives him power in your life, and reason for living. your going to get through this and when you do you'll look back and wonder what all the fuss was about.
You should try a womens aid. If he's a bad guy he shouldn't be near the child. If it's a boy, he'll think it's ok to treat women like that and if it's a girl, she'll think it's ok to be treated like that.
Call a local help service, and see what they can do for you.
I hope things work out for you. I feel very strongely about these kinds of issues. If you need someone to talk you can e-mail me anytime you want - litattitude@yahoo.com
First of all you sound like your self esteem has taken a direct hit...lift your head up and strut...don't meander...and stop relying on your ex to pay your bills (sorry if this sounds harsh)...want to use woman's aid?...see if they can provide a sitter or child care services if that is what you need so you can work to pay the mortgage payment on your own...then if he pays like he is supposed to, you can use the money to indulge your child...turn the tables on him...mess with his head...can you tell I'm divorced? nothing ticks my ex off more than I strut without his assistance...no child support (2 children), no alimony...but no doubt I do work like a beaver...sometimes 60+ hours a week...but the boost to one's self esteem is incredible when you are no longer someone's emotional puppet...most of all, if you need the extra emotional help up from a counselor, by all means, get it...then stand up, brush yourself off and prepare to take your life by the short hairs and show it who's boss!!
have u been to a lawyer?
most will give a free first consultation
I have been close to your situation myself and this is what I did.
First, you have to get yourself in a position where you don't NEED his money. Become self-sufficient.
Get every kind of aid you can for you and your child.
Don't let his comments affect you. The more he knows it bothers you, the more he will do it. He is not a nice man and he doesn't want to see you succeed.
It already has affected you and your child. Don't let it anymore. If he is not paying what the court ordered then you can have him arrested and should do so. If you are getting aid then they pay you what you are supposed to get and he has to pay them. Go through the county and they will take it up with him when he doesn't pay.
I know this is emotionally stressing you out,so...once in a while get a family member to watch the baby for you and take a day for yourself and do the things you can't do normally. I didn't do this part, but wish I had. Stress can do a number on you. It's a good thing to take care of yourself...for your child if no one else. You'll be happier and nicer and maybe better able to handle the jerk when he messes with you.
You might also want to get a family member to be there when he takes and brings back the baby ...if that's what he does.
He is resenting you now and to him you are taking his money. He isn't thinking that he is helping raise the child. You have to make sure you do your part in making yourself independent from him if you ever want to get from under his thumb and nastiness.
Good luck sweetie and God bless. It's hard out there and you have a wonderful child to raise. Make sure you give that child the best of opportunities in life.
Take the control OUT of your partners hands.. you're allowing him to continue to abuse you, only this time financially. Establish paternity if you haven't already done so. Then leave it to your State's Support Enforcement Agency to collect the money from him. You've given him waaaayyyy too much power over you and your child. Take it back!
women we have the power to control men. that includes on how we want them to treat us. u get hurt when u allow a man to hurt u. dont give him that chance. try to show him that u dont really need him. that will reduce him and u win cos men dont like to be reduced. dont gv hm the chance to play with ur mind. use ur power as a woman.
You need to seek help straight away. Use anybody that can help you. Womens aid, Citizen's advice. These people are well trained and can offer you great advice. Your child will know whats going on because they are great at picking up on feelings and behaviour etc. Try not to listen to your ex. Mind games are the best way to mess with someone's head and you need to be strong for both you and your child. If he thinks that he's not affecting you then maybe he'll stop. The more he know's he's getting to you the more he'll carry on.
firstly if you need to then contact me direct, i have the ex from hell, and have been through your'e situation, if it is just the money that is getting you down then look for a really tough solicitor, i didn't have one at first but i do now, the nastier the better and be prepared to fight everything he says and does, fight fire with fire, if he doesn't pay get in the solicitor, if he plays mind games with you get an injunction and deal only with your'e solicitor who will then deal with his, my ex husband played so many games in the end he ended up looking like a fool so stay strong, what you have to remember is that the strength comes from inside you, people like me can share our experiences with you, listen and give advice, but you need to know that he can't touch you either physically or emotionaly, womens aid will give you some advice, but because you don't need a shelter they are not the best people to go to, i suggest that you go to a local solictor and ask for the name of a solictor that has a lot of experience in family matters, above all you have to be tough, the courts will protect you but only if you are tough and take a stand, as far as your'e child is concerned, i have 4 children with my ex husband, 2 of them have blocked out the abuse and deny it ever happened, the other 2 remember and are now quite well adjusted, do not let your'e husbands behavier affect your'e child, but above all you must resist the temptation to slag off your'e ex to your'e child, trust me i know its hard, but you must separate them, unless you're ex is or has been violent to the child then they have an entitlement to visitation, but make sure your'e ex does not use this as a way of getting to you, if necessary use a contact centre or family or friends for drop off points, as i said if you want more personal advice please email me
You have been a very brave woman so far!
Get legal counsel, go to a woman's support group, get counseling, get some good friends, go for prayer meetings and try to think about the brave person in you. Not everyone is brave like you.
A person who resorts to violence against a weaker or more vulnerable person is a bully and is weaker than the person he/she affects.
You are so brave... Do not suffer momentary lapses into weakness and confusion by ';mind games';.
Be an inspiration to yourself and to your child. Good luck!
hi email me at trouble_lm2003@yahoo.comcheap cosmetics
It has already effected your child. Children are not blind nor deaf. Most children are extremely sensitive to the feelings of their parents. Yes, use every resource available to you.Women only advice plz?
i hate those mind games...if you can manage on your own, dont get any thing from him,ignore him..........or take hime to court so that he can be ordered to pay..why do men hurt us so much?
woman's aid are amazing at helping with this sort of thing
Why don`t u get a divorce if u were married to this man, let the court decide what he will pay. Don`t allow these mind games. If u feel he is unfit as a father and can prove it, u will rec. full custody of ur child. U r enabling him to treat u the way he is, there r laws to protect u, but u must take the initiative and get the ball rolling.
You definitely need to heed the advice here of seeking professional help from Citizen's Advice or Women's support groups who are adept at dealing with issues like yours.
Don't try to suffer this and put on a brave face.
You need to act and will come out feeling so much better, both for you and your child.
you can use the refuse to take a break from it all and chill out.you would probably be far more able to deal with your ex after a break
How I hate controlling idiots like this guy. His problem is that he can't stand to see that you can cope without him, I am sure he's not happy, if he was he wouldn't behave in this manner. Have you tried having a chat with your GP to see what kind of help is out there for you ? Please don't give up, you sound as if you're a strong, lovely lady and I wish you all the best.
Men somtimes are stupid, they thik that they have right to do anything, somebody should stop them, when you are facing with these men you should fight, and you have many supports, try to use all these supports.
Hey guys can help too you know!. we're not all bast##ds ..
My advice to you is , if you know off of someone or some organisation that might offer help - then don't waste time in here , go get the help.
Dont let this bloke win, you are better than that! You can get help with making him pay his half for your child and the house! He is just a bully once you get tough which you are doing by wanting help, he will back down! Blokes like this make me sick, he doesn't even deserve to see your child, go through the courts to sort out set days when he can see your child, then you shouldn't have much contact with him! If he doesn't follow these rules then he risks losing his child! He cant hurt you anymore just don't let him see he can still affect you in anyway! Stay tough and don't let this bully win! Take care x
Your partner is a despot dictator, who gets his kicks from making you and your child suffer, the best thing to do with a dictator is to overthrow him, you need to get as independent of him as possible, maybe take a second job, or take in students to help pay the mortgage,do something help yourself don't look to him to help you, it gives him power in your life, and reason for living. your going to get through this and when you do you'll look back and wonder what all the fuss was about.
You should try a womens aid. If he's a bad guy he shouldn't be near the child. If it's a boy, he'll think it's ok to treat women like that and if it's a girl, she'll think it's ok to be treated like that.
Call a local help service, and see what they can do for you.
I hope things work out for you. I feel very strongely about these kinds of issues. If you need someone to talk you can e-mail me anytime you want - litattitude@yahoo.com
First of all you sound like your self esteem has taken a direct hit...lift your head up and strut...don't meander...and stop relying on your ex to pay your bills (sorry if this sounds harsh)...want to use woman's aid?...see if they can provide a sitter or child care services if that is what you need so you can work to pay the mortgage payment on your own...then if he pays like he is supposed to, you can use the money to indulge your child...turn the tables on him...mess with his head...can you tell I'm divorced? nothing ticks my ex off more than I strut without his assistance...no child support (2 children), no alimony...but no doubt I do work like a beaver...sometimes 60+ hours a week...but the boost to one's self esteem is incredible when you are no longer someone's emotional puppet...most of all, if you need the extra emotional help up from a counselor, by all means, get it...then stand up, brush yourself off and prepare to take your life by the short hairs and show it who's boss!!
have u been to a lawyer?
most will give a free first consultation
I have been close to your situation myself and this is what I did.
First, you have to get yourself in a position where you don't NEED his money. Become self-sufficient.
Get every kind of aid you can for you and your child.
Don't let his comments affect you. The more he knows it bothers you, the more he will do it. He is not a nice man and he doesn't want to see you succeed.
It already has affected you and your child. Don't let it anymore. If he is not paying what the court ordered then you can have him arrested and should do so. If you are getting aid then they pay you what you are supposed to get and he has to pay them. Go through the county and they will take it up with him when he doesn't pay.
I know this is emotionally stressing you out,so...once in a while get a family member to watch the baby for you and take a day for yourself and do the things you can't do normally. I didn't do this part, but wish I had. Stress can do a number on you. It's a good thing to take care of yourself...for your child if no one else. You'll be happier and nicer and maybe better able to handle the jerk when he messes with you.
You might also want to get a family member to be there when he takes and brings back the baby ...if that's what he does.
He is resenting you now and to him you are taking his money. He isn't thinking that he is helping raise the child. You have to make sure you do your part in making yourself independent from him if you ever want to get from under his thumb and nastiness.
Good luck sweetie and God bless. It's hard out there and you have a wonderful child to raise. Make sure you give that child the best of opportunities in life.
Take the control OUT of your partners hands.. you're allowing him to continue to abuse you, only this time financially. Establish paternity if you haven't already done so. Then leave it to your State's Support Enforcement Agency to collect the money from him. You've given him waaaayyyy too much power over you and your child. Take it back!
women we have the power to control men. that includes on how we want them to treat us. u get hurt when u allow a man to hurt u. dont give him that chance. try to show him that u dont really need him. that will reduce him and u win cos men dont like to be reduced. dont gv hm the chance to play with ur mind. use ur power as a woman.
You need to seek help straight away. Use anybody that can help you. Womens aid, Citizen's advice. These people are well trained and can offer you great advice. Your child will know whats going on because they are great at picking up on feelings and behaviour etc. Try not to listen to your ex. Mind games are the best way to mess with someone's head and you need to be strong for both you and your child. If he thinks that he's not affecting you then maybe he'll stop. The more he know's he's getting to you the more he'll carry on.
firstly if you need to then contact me direct, i have the ex from hell, and have been through your'e situation, if it is just the money that is getting you down then look for a really tough solicitor, i didn't have one at first but i do now, the nastier the better and be prepared to fight everything he says and does, fight fire with fire, if he doesn't pay get in the solicitor, if he plays mind games with you get an injunction and deal only with your'e solicitor who will then deal with his, my ex husband played so many games in the end he ended up looking like a fool so stay strong, what you have to remember is that the strength comes from inside you, people like me can share our experiences with you, listen and give advice, but you need to know that he can't touch you either physically or emotionaly, womens aid will give you some advice, but because you don't need a shelter they are not the best people to go to, i suggest that you go to a local solictor and ask for the name of a solictor that has a lot of experience in family matters, above all you have to be tough, the courts will protect you but only if you are tough and take a stand, as far as your'e child is concerned, i have 4 children with my ex husband, 2 of them have blocked out the abuse and deny it ever happened, the other 2 remember and are now quite well adjusted, do not let your'e husbands behavier affect your'e child, but above all you must resist the temptation to slag off your'e ex to your'e child, trust me i know its hard, but you must separate them, unless you're ex is or has been violent to the child then they have an entitlement to visitation, but make sure your'e ex does not use this as a way of getting to you, if necessary use a contact centre or family or friends for drop off points, as i said if you want more personal advice please email me
You have been a very brave woman so far!
Get legal counsel, go to a woman's support group, get counseling, get some good friends, go for prayer meetings and try to think about the brave person in you. Not everyone is brave like you.
A person who resorts to violence against a weaker or more vulnerable person is a bully and is weaker than the person he/she affects.
You are so brave... Do not suffer momentary lapses into weakness and confusion by ';mind games';.
Be an inspiration to yourself and to your child. Good luck!
hi email me at trouble_lm2003@yahoo.com
Need help or advice sex drive women? Both men and women opinions/advice or tips.?
Hello...just seeking some advice. I am a 28-year-old married woman and I am a stay-at-home mom. I have had a history of severe depression but currently I am ';stable'; so some of this might play into my problem but I am usure of.
I do know I love my husband and child but my sex drive is soooo lowwwww and I feel guilt turning my husband down but I just have no desire for sex whatsoever. I have tried romantic evenings...erotic literature...and even adult entertainment...ie porn I guess to see if it would help out a little bit.
I was curious if any one had any tips on how to help in sex drive dept. Sorry this question is so graphic but just seeking some advice.
Thankyou very much.Need help or advice sex drive women? Both men and women opinions/advice or tips.?
You should join a gym and get your cardio up every day. Will make you feel more in touch with your body and make you feel more into physicality. A good flow of endorphins is also a great anti-depressant. Just try it.Need help or advice sex drive women? Both men and women opinions/advice or tips.?
Girl, stop thinking that there is something wrong with you! That's the depression talking! We all have different characteristics. Some are more athletic than others, some more creative, some more guarded, some more joyous. The list goes on and on. If we all were cookie cutter people that were the same, then why find that special one? You are unique! Not about the sexual drive thing, my wife is like that too. However, you must accept yourself as you are. You understand you have a low sexual drive. That's great! You are far ahead of most women still trying to find themselves! What I am saying is just look at yourself in the mirror. That is the person you are. Once you accept that why should you be depressed. Let others not accept you. Cling to those who do! My wife is the same way. I dropped this concept on her 10 years ago. Not one episode of depression since. She gets blue, sure! We all do. But, she has never dropped into that dark funk that she did way back when! The sexual thing for me isn't a big problem even though I classify myself as a horndog! I look at her other characteristics that I fell in love with 20 years ago! I've never been disappointed in her character, well, she spend too much, but other than that, I can live with the small differences. I don't want some one just like me! As Paula Abdul sang ';opposites attract!';
I do know I love my husband and child but my sex drive is soooo lowwwww and I feel guilt turning my husband down but I just have no desire for sex whatsoever. I have tried romantic evenings...erotic literature...and even adult entertainment...ie porn I guess to see if it would help out a little bit.
I was curious if any one had any tips on how to help in sex drive dept. Sorry this question is so graphic but just seeking some advice.
Thankyou very much.Need help or advice sex drive women? Both men and women opinions/advice or tips.?
You should join a gym and get your cardio up every day. Will make you feel more in touch with your body and make you feel more into physicality. A good flow of endorphins is also a great anti-depressant. Just try it.Need help or advice sex drive women? Both men and women opinions/advice or tips.?
Girl, stop thinking that there is something wrong with you! That's the depression talking! We all have different characteristics. Some are more athletic than others, some more creative, some more guarded, some more joyous. The list goes on and on. If we all were cookie cutter people that were the same, then why find that special one? You are unique! Not about the sexual drive thing, my wife is like that too. However, you must accept yourself as you are. You understand you have a low sexual drive. That's great! You are far ahead of most women still trying to find themselves! What I am saying is just look at yourself in the mirror. That is the person you are. Once you accept that why should you be depressed. Let others not accept you. Cling to those who do! My wife is the same way. I dropped this concept on her 10 years ago. Not one episode of depression since. She gets blue, sure! We all do. But, she has never dropped into that dark funk that she did way back when! The sexual thing for me isn't a big problem even though I classify myself as a horndog! I look at her other characteristics that I fell in love with 20 years ago! I've never been disappointed in her character, well, she spend too much, but other than that, I can live with the small differences. I don't want some one just like me! As Paula Abdul sang ';opposites attract!';
What do you think i need some advice women only please?
ok i have not had my period in about 4-5 days and i have had no signs of it either no cramping or any of that wonderful pms we get before hand which is very unusual for me im always regular. i have also been having some white thin discharge here and there has anyone had this when they were late and still got there period. i am not asking if you think im pregnant it is a possibility but i want to rule out anything else before i test. how much longer should i wait till i see my doctor?
thanks in advanced anything will help
What do you think i need some advice women only please?
I had no symptoms either until I hit 9 weeks... I'd take a test. You're late enough that a HPT would tell you. Good luck. :)What do you think i need some advice women only please?
u need to go to the doctore cause that happend to me and i went to see the doctore and they had to give me pills so i can get my period and they said if i would i would of waited longer i would of had cancer cause if u dont have ur period u can get cancer so i advice u to go tsewe the doctore today....gigglez9178@yaho.com thats my email if u have any more questions
You can test now, even a faint line will mean you are pregnant. If you are really concerned, I'd go ahead and call the doctor. Good luck.
I think you should take a test in the morning! A missed period is the biggest symptom of pregnancy.
thanks in advanced anything will help
What do you think i need some advice women only please?
I had no symptoms either until I hit 9 weeks... I'd take a test. You're late enough that a HPT would tell you. Good luck. :)What do you think i need some advice women only please?
u need to go to the doctore cause that happend to me and i went to see the doctore and they had to give me pills so i can get my period and they said if i would i would of waited longer i would of had cancer cause if u dont have ur period u can get cancer so i advice u to go tsewe the doctore today....gigglez9178@yaho.com thats my email if u have any more questions
You can test now, even a faint line will mean you are pregnant. If you are really concerned, I'd go ahead and call the doctor. Good luck.
I think you should take a test in the morning! A missed period is the biggest symptom of pregnancy.
I asked this once already, but still looking for new ideas. Married men or women....good advice on a gift?
Ok, me and my hubby have been together for about 10 years already and his birthday is coming up in early June. I have to say there isnt much that we havent gotten each other as gifts. Im out of ideas. I want this to be romantic but yet cheap. We are going through a rough time with money right now and this makes it even harder. Weve been down this road before and Ive done the homemade cards, food, special ';him'; days, ect. Now Im just stumped to say the least. He is such a wonderful man, hubby, and father and nothing I can think of stacks up to what he means to me. He is not picky and probably wouldnt care if he didnt get anything, but I do care. So any married men...what do you like that your wife has done for you or what would you want. Married women...can you tell me what youve done in this situation. Any ideas will be greatly appriciated. We have a VERY close relationship and we have been dating since 15 %26amp; are 25 now. Dont know if that helps any for our situation.Thanks in advance.I asked this once already, but still looking for new ideas. Married men or women....good advice on a gift?
an unconventional idea : make a beautiful wish for him and for your love! http://www.themostexpensivewish.com/
It's new, it's free, it would be a romantic gift from the heart...I asked this once already, but still looking for new ideas. Married men or women....good advice on a gift?
Hi,
If you been together for 10 years, you must have a photo and even more than one. This idea starts at $99.
You create a painting of both of you together, or just him to be cheap. You simple pick a photo you like, and the artists at http://www.paintyourlife.com/ do the rest.
They will deliver the painting as well.
Karl Sultana
hi
i think you can give them oil painting from their photo means turn their photo in oil painting it will create nice impression on them.
Capture that special moment.turn it into a masterpiece that will last forever!
i suggest u to look at this site i think it will help u,
A great idea for a personal and unique gift is a handmade painting made from a photo that you send.
Check out this site: http://www.portrait2000.com
The prices are reasonable and the outcome is amazing.
an unconventional idea : make a beautiful wish for him and for your love! http://www.themostexpensivewish.com/
It's new, it's free, it would be a romantic gift from the heart...I asked this once already, but still looking for new ideas. Married men or women....good advice on a gift?
Hi,
If you been together for 10 years, you must have a photo and even more than one. This idea starts at $99.
You create a painting of both of you together, or just him to be cheap. You simple pick a photo you like, and the artists at http://www.paintyourlife.com/ do the rest.
They will deliver the painting as well.
Karl Sultana
hi
i think you can give them oil painting from their photo means turn their photo in oil painting it will create nice impression on them.
Capture that special moment.turn it into a masterpiece that will last forever!
i suggest u to look at this site i think it will help u,
A great idea for a personal and unique gift is a handmade painting made from a photo that you send.
Check out this site: http://www.portrait2000.com
The prices are reasonable and the outcome is amazing.
Women's shoes advice for a short girl.?
I am short so I don't wear flat shoes or try to avoid it. I want to but a pair of nice shoes but I don't know where to buy it from.
Especially as it is Summer it is even more difficult. The problem is, most summer footwear seems to be totally flat shoes or absurdly high strappy shoes or flip flops.
All I want is a shoes or sandals or something that are about an inch high. Through Winter I have been wearing a pair of boots I bought from Samana everyday or trainers. But now it is too hot to do that. Or at least the boots make me feel hot because of the lining and trainers are just warm anyway.
Dolcis shoes don't seem to fit me at all and I but all my shoes from Barratts. But I dont like it anymore I can only choose between REALLY high adult shoes or children's shoes.Women's shoes advice for a short girl.?
'faith' usually do quite a good selection of shoes, thats where i get most of my shoes from as there are kitten heels, dolly shoes, and sandals. Have a look in river island aswell.Women's shoes advice for a short girl.?
Sometimes the shoes don't matter.
The clothes you wear can also give you the effect of looking short or tall.
Like giving you that ';long'; look.
Sometimes in the ';search'; bar, (on the page of your favorite store) you type in ';1 inch'; and you can find shoes.
Espadrilles! theyre like high, summery mules
i have the same problem! my soloution is wedges becasue they are really comfy and if you wear them with skinny jeans your legs look super long! But if you dont want to wear them then i suggest the inch high wedges they have in topshop now. They would look nice with anything (for a cheaper option you can get the exact pair in peacocks if you can find one)
Try Payless Shoes I am also short. They have many to choose from that are right in between.
Wedges are really comfy so you can get high ones, they are out all over the place. Also, show your legs when your wearing heels as this adds lots of height. As long as you are happy with what you are wearing and are comfortable, it doesn't really matter anyway.
-Freckles
Especially as it is Summer it is even more difficult. The problem is, most summer footwear seems to be totally flat shoes or absurdly high strappy shoes or flip flops.
All I want is a shoes or sandals or something that are about an inch high. Through Winter I have been wearing a pair of boots I bought from Samana everyday or trainers. But now it is too hot to do that. Or at least the boots make me feel hot because of the lining and trainers are just warm anyway.
Dolcis shoes don't seem to fit me at all and I but all my shoes from Barratts. But I dont like it anymore I can only choose between REALLY high adult shoes or children's shoes.Women's shoes advice for a short girl.?
'faith' usually do quite a good selection of shoes, thats where i get most of my shoes from as there are kitten heels, dolly shoes, and sandals. Have a look in river island aswell.Women's shoes advice for a short girl.?
Sometimes the shoes don't matter.
The clothes you wear can also give you the effect of looking short or tall.
Like giving you that ';long'; look.
Sometimes in the ';search'; bar, (on the page of your favorite store) you type in ';1 inch'; and you can find shoes.
Espadrilles! theyre like high, summery mules
i have the same problem! my soloution is wedges becasue they are really comfy and if you wear them with skinny jeans your legs look super long! But if you dont want to wear them then i suggest the inch high wedges they have in topshop now. They would look nice with anything (for a cheaper option you can get the exact pair in peacocks if you can find one)
Try Payless Shoes I am also short. They have many to choose from that are right in between.
Wedges are really comfy so you can get high ones, they are out all over the place. Also, show your legs when your wearing heels as this adds lots of height. As long as you are happy with what you are wearing and are comfortable, it doesn't really matter anyway.
-Freckles
The guy i am dating need advice-women pls?
Ive been seeing him for like a little over a month he live's an hour away and comes to see me every weekend..He says he wants to wait for sex till marriage,what confuse's me is that he always talk's about messing around..ive respected myself.I like him..but i am thinking about ending thing's because i don't trust him just thing's he say's and the time's he calls at time's and this week he said he wasnt feeling good to come see me...us women have that gut feeling when someone especially a guy is lying.Ive just been dissapointed i got my hopes u thinking i found love again and it's not even close.I think he just has lust for me and i don't need that..The guy i am dating need advice-women pls?
He sounds like he's playin you.. and he doesnt sound worth it..
He sounds like he's playin you.. and he doesnt sound worth it..
Dating older women...tips, advice?
ok so im 22 years old. at my job, there is a really attractive and awesome lady i like to talk with...she is 38 and single. i have always been attracted to older women so im very excited. she can be very flirty with me at times, and i am totally wanting to ask her to do something sometime. i am great with girls my age...no problem...., but i am clueless about how to treat a 38 year old woman. how can i be flirty with her??? how can i ask her out???Dating older women...tips, advice?
Well, if you want to test the waters to see if she is interested in something more, why not take a safe route first...ask her if she would like to go for coffee after work..or at lunch time. JUst to chat.
If she says sure..you know you might be ok with asking her out after
if she hesitates..looks surprised and says..no thanks..well..no harm done.cheap cosmetics
Well, if you want to test the waters to see if she is interested in something more, why not take a safe route first...ask her if she would like to go for coffee after work..or at lunch time. JUst to chat.
If she says sure..you know you might be ok with asking her out after
if she hesitates..looks surprised and says..no thanks..well..no harm done.
I need some closure advice. women help!?
ok so me and this girl were talking for like 1 month and a half we liked eachother alot she liked me more then i liked her we talked on the phone everyday till like 3 am we hungout and there was a really good connection when we hungout she told me things that she never told anyone before not even her bestfriends she would always text call me and we felt really comfortable with eachother we talked about anything she said she never met a guy like me before and would never want to talk to talk to any other guy everything just seemed so perfect until i text her one day she doesnt w/b next day doesnt w/b then after 3 days trying to contact her she finally sends me a text saying ';icant talk to you im sorry.';i said why she doesnt w/b i message her friend she doesnt w/b. so she never ever told me why and that eats my heart out and breaks it : ( its like everything was so good then this happens its like a mystery so idk what happened..I need some closure advice. women help!?
to be honest i'd just leave it, she must have good reasons i know its sad but u have to move on and just forget her :) there are plenty of more fish in the sea and at the end of the day she told you things she never told anyone else, she trusted you for that and well it must mean your quite a nice guy and you should be happy for that. ^^I need some closure advice. women help!?
the same thing happened to me with a boy from spain, it was more tan 3 months of chatting, and he just stop one day and he had never text me again and i know he is alive because he had put new pictures in his msn. after that I had never had hopes in anyone that i meet by internet. it was so painful, for me he was so perfect, well you better forget her and keep moving forward .good luck
She's married.
And whats the question here?
Leave her, obviously she's trying to avoid you for whatever reason.
sweety u r a guy and ur question don belong to this category...come on boy this is womens health and your are not even a girl flagged
Why is this in Women's Health?
to be honest i'd just leave it, she must have good reasons i know its sad but u have to move on and just forget her :) there are plenty of more fish in the sea and at the end of the day she told you things she never told anyone else, she trusted you for that and well it must mean your quite a nice guy and you should be happy for that. ^^I need some closure advice. women help!?
the same thing happened to me with a boy from spain, it was more tan 3 months of chatting, and he just stop one day and he had never text me again and i know he is alive because he had put new pictures in his msn. after that I had never had hopes in anyone that i meet by internet. it was so painful, for me he was so perfect, well you better forget her and keep moving forward .good luck
She's married.
And whats the question here?
Leave her, obviously she's trying to avoid you for whatever reason.
sweety u r a guy and ur question don belong to this category...come on boy this is womens health and your are not even a girl flagged
Why is this in Women's Health?
HELP! OK NOW I NEED SOME ADVICE!!!!!!!! WOMEN ONLY! BE ADVISED!?
Ok so I had my period for 17 days granted the last two were lighter than the rest but the other days were heavy or regular. So my period went off for 2 count them 2 days! And now its back on!!!!!!!! I made a doc appointment for today because of blood lose was making me very light headed weak and a list of other things! What could be wrong! My first cousin just got diagnosed with diabetes could this be the problem. What should I ask when I go in? I have never had a period to last for more than 4 days and that is tops. Even after having my kids my bleeding was light only lasted for a very short amount of time. Please help I am out of guess as to what this could be. Oh and fyi I was very anemic with my four pregnancies and I think I am supposed to take iron but have a serious problem being able to get the pills down and keep them down. Iron make me deathly sick. I usually throw up for like two days after taking one pill. Any advice would be appreciated thanks.HELP! OK NOW I NEED SOME ADVICE!!!!!!!! WOMEN ONLY! BE ADVISED!?
When you go to see your doctor don't ask specific things. But tell him/her exactly what you have written on here and they should be able to draw their own conclusions. That's what they're there for. :)
Um... when I took iron tablets at one point I had a very sudden, very heavy period. Perhaps that has something to do with it?HELP! OK NOW I NEED SOME ADVICE!!!!!!!! WOMEN ONLY! BE ADVISED!?
I'm not totally sure, but I think that anemia can cause this. Is it the iron tablets you have a problem with? You could try a liquid version, or just make a really big effort to eat lots of iron rich food along with food with vitamin c (which helps you absorb iron). Still best to see Dr tho, as there are other things it could be... what contraception are you using? I had the implant and was basically on and off my period weekly, sometimes fortnightly and they lasted that long too.
When you go in, just tell the Dr the symptoms you are getting and he/she will probably ask you the questions, so just try not to worry, If it helps you to remember, make a list of the symptoms you are getting and take it with you to the appointment. Hope it all works out ok xXx
When you go to see your doctor don't ask specific things. But tell him/her exactly what you have written on here and they should be able to draw their own conclusions. That's what they're there for. :)
Um... when I took iron tablets at one point I had a very sudden, very heavy period. Perhaps that has something to do with it?HELP! OK NOW I NEED SOME ADVICE!!!!!!!! WOMEN ONLY! BE ADVISED!?
I'm not totally sure, but I think that anemia can cause this. Is it the iron tablets you have a problem with? You could try a liquid version, or just make a really big effort to eat lots of iron rich food along with food with vitamin c (which helps you absorb iron). Still best to see Dr tho, as there are other things it could be... what contraception are you using? I had the implant and was basically on and off my period weekly, sometimes fortnightly and they lasted that long too.
When you go in, just tell the Dr the symptoms you are getting and he/she will probably ask you the questions, so just try not to worry, If it helps you to remember, make a list of the symptoms you are getting and take it with you to the appointment. Hope it all works out ok xXx
Problems getting into a relationship. Some Advice (Women need some input please as well as the guys)?
Ya as the title suggests I have not been in a relationship for a while. About like 5 or 6 years which i can't understand why. I mean I feel sometimes as if I can't find her and I am blinded by the light or something. Seriously I need some advice about how to sway my love life in other direction and eventually find her. I feel in my heart I will find her but sometimes I feel doubtful cause nothing is even happening. If you guys could give me some pointers I would greatly appreciate it.Problems getting into a relationship. Some Advice (Women need some input please as well as the guys)?
My advice is to accept people for who they are and not try to place mental or emotional restrictions (on your part) on their personalities. You're not perfect, so don't expect them to be. I've never understood how people can be so alone when there are so many people out there who want to be with someone. I've never been alone because there's no reason for it.
Drop your expectations and you will have a blast sorting through all the available women. And despite what you see on the surface as physical beauty, you'll find that once you get to know someone their physical beauty changes. That means that a gal that isn't all that the instant you lay eyes on her could turn out to be Miss America, and the other way around.
I'm not all that to look at, but I have a beauty of a wife. For some reason she sees something in me that I or others don't see. And I am constantly amazed, especially when I look at her, that I am lucky enough to own her love. It could work that way for you too.Problems getting into a relationship. Some Advice (Women need some input please as well as the guys)?
1st - don't look for ';her';. It's like trying to find a unicorn. Just let it happen. That's probably your problem, you're trying to find your ideal mate right off the bat and sometimes you have to have ';auditions'; first. Just start seeing people and try out different types of women, you never know who might turn into your soul mate.
aite man...this is what i do...im flirty with almost every girl. and when i do that...one of them will fall for it...and then you got her. another thing is be yourself. and definately keep your appearance good. I mean dont go walkin into somewhere lookin rough. just keep your head high and keep trying. you'll find her
it is your Selestina you need to feel good about your self if you fill about your self go for it but the lord dose things for a reason it just might no be your time to be in a relationship some times you are better off being by your self
you will find some one everyone needs time to just wait for the right person to come along never dough your self just wait and start going out with your friends to places and you will see girls or even over the internet ask girls for there numbers xxxx just dont hide away just make an effort
Just start talking to ladys.
The more you open yourself the more opportunities well get handed to you.
( :
There's plenty out there you just have to give a look. : P
You can email me I would be glad to help you out in anyway I possibly can. trinimendoza@gmail.com or allalonesinceuleft@yahoo.com
My advice is to accept people for who they are and not try to place mental or emotional restrictions (on your part) on their personalities. You're not perfect, so don't expect them to be. I've never understood how people can be so alone when there are so many people out there who want to be with someone. I've never been alone because there's no reason for it.
Drop your expectations and you will have a blast sorting through all the available women. And despite what you see on the surface as physical beauty, you'll find that once you get to know someone their physical beauty changes. That means that a gal that isn't all that the instant you lay eyes on her could turn out to be Miss America, and the other way around.
I'm not all that to look at, but I have a beauty of a wife. For some reason she sees something in me that I or others don't see. And I am constantly amazed, especially when I look at her, that I am lucky enough to own her love. It could work that way for you too.Problems getting into a relationship. Some Advice (Women need some input please as well as the guys)?
1st - don't look for ';her';. It's like trying to find a unicorn. Just let it happen. That's probably your problem, you're trying to find your ideal mate right off the bat and sometimes you have to have ';auditions'; first. Just start seeing people and try out different types of women, you never know who might turn into your soul mate.
aite man...this is what i do...im flirty with almost every girl. and when i do that...one of them will fall for it...and then you got her. another thing is be yourself. and definately keep your appearance good. I mean dont go walkin into somewhere lookin rough. just keep your head high and keep trying. you'll find her
it is your Selestina you need to feel good about your self if you fill about your self go for it but the lord dose things for a reason it just might no be your time to be in a relationship some times you are better off being by your self
you will find some one everyone needs time to just wait for the right person to come along never dough your self just wait and start going out with your friends to places and you will see girls or even over the internet ask girls for there numbers xxxx just dont hide away just make an effort
Just start talking to ladys.
The more you open yourself the more opportunities well get handed to you.
( :
There's plenty out there you just have to give a look. : P
You can email me I would be glad to help you out in anyway I possibly can. trinimendoza@gmail.com or allalonesinceuleft@yahoo.com
Need experienced women's advice?
Good morning Ladies!
I just had a general question. I am awaiting the results from a Blood test. I am certain that I am pregnant and that is why I am going to ask all of you who have been pregnant this question. I noticed today while taking a shower that my vaginal canal has moved down a bit. The anterior wall of my Vagina is lower and I can feel my Gspot closer to the vaginal opening. My cervix is in the same position though. I am in no pain and have no bleeding or other symptoms (except the obvious pregnancy symptoms). Has this happened to you? Please let me know what you think. Thanks and Merry ChristmasNeed experienced women's advice?
I noticed that cervix moved. Sex was painful all of a sudden one night because my husband hit my cervix in a way that has never happened to me before. I called my Dr. and she said that Yes, your cervix moves as well as the wall of your vagina which can begin to feel different. Everyone's body goes through extreme changes during pregnancy, so I wouldn't think anything of it, except it's another sign. Congrats!! Merry x~mas%26lt;3Need experienced women's advice?
I'm not really sure but if you are concerned you should ask your doctor.I know it may be embarrising but he knows whats up.
why are you checking your self thats sick... wait till you find out your results of the pregnancy test and then get a doc appointment which he/she will check you down there so stop feeling inside you you can get an infection
hi' when i was pregnant;the things that really changed;was my breasts got fuller;and they got way tenderer;and the oreala's got larger;;;when the time comes close ;to the birth ;the cervix starts getting bigger ;as the months get close to that time...... get yourself' checked; so you can have a piece of mind ,,,lol,
i cant say i have ever examined myself that thoroughly in the shower! i am pregnant for the 2ND time, but have to say that i have never noticed a physical change to my vagina, i suggest you get it checked out, especially if you are pregnant.
happy showering!
never heard of that and i have been pregnant 4 times. by the way those things cant move and you shouldnt be putting your fingers in there you get an infection from your fingernails
you sure know your body very well to be sure about all that you are telling. Your cervix is supposed to feel a little up and closed ....just wait for the resuls to come in.
It never happend to me, but maybe your body is just adjusting to the pregnancy
It didn't happen to me but every ones body is different. ask the doc if you are concerned
I just had a general question. I am awaiting the results from a Blood test. I am certain that I am pregnant and that is why I am going to ask all of you who have been pregnant this question. I noticed today while taking a shower that my vaginal canal has moved down a bit. The anterior wall of my Vagina is lower and I can feel my Gspot closer to the vaginal opening. My cervix is in the same position though. I am in no pain and have no bleeding or other symptoms (except the obvious pregnancy symptoms). Has this happened to you? Please let me know what you think. Thanks and Merry ChristmasNeed experienced women's advice?
I noticed that cervix moved. Sex was painful all of a sudden one night because my husband hit my cervix in a way that has never happened to me before. I called my Dr. and she said that Yes, your cervix moves as well as the wall of your vagina which can begin to feel different. Everyone's body goes through extreme changes during pregnancy, so I wouldn't think anything of it, except it's another sign. Congrats!! Merry x~mas%26lt;3Need experienced women's advice?
I'm not really sure but if you are concerned you should ask your doctor.I know it may be embarrising but he knows whats up.
why are you checking your self thats sick... wait till you find out your results of the pregnancy test and then get a doc appointment which he/she will check you down there so stop feeling inside you you can get an infection
hi' when i was pregnant;the things that really changed;was my breasts got fuller;and they got way tenderer;and the oreala's got larger;;;when the time comes close ;to the birth ;the cervix starts getting bigger ;as the months get close to that time...... get yourself' checked; so you can have a piece of mind ,,,lol,
i cant say i have ever examined myself that thoroughly in the shower! i am pregnant for the 2ND time, but have to say that i have never noticed a physical change to my vagina, i suggest you get it checked out, especially if you are pregnant.
happy showering!
never heard of that and i have been pregnant 4 times. by the way those things cant move and you shouldnt be putting your fingers in there you get an infection from your fingernails
you sure know your body very well to be sure about all that you are telling. Your cervix is supposed to feel a little up and closed ....just wait for the resuls to come in.
It never happend to me, but maybe your body is just adjusting to the pregnancy
It didn't happen to me but every ones body is different. ask the doc if you are concerned
Please help me need your advice!! women!!?
I was on the pill dianette for 6 years solid, i came off in march 09 after my last pill packet to which i had my normal bleed at the end and did not go back on to give my body a break, i have had no sort of bleed since, not 1 period since i stopped taking it, the doctor said it can be normal for some women, i have had 3 pregnancy tests and all are negetive. could i still get pregnant seens that my body hormones are all over the place? ive been off 4 months now...Please help me need your advice!! women!!?
You're more likely not pregnant. Your body is having an adjustment period right now from coming off not having an ovulation for 6 years. It'll come, too soon I might addPlease help me need your advice!! women!!?
It can take you up to a year for your body to get back into it's routine. The hormonal balance in our body is very delicate and once we make a huge change like stopping our pill, your body needs to recover. It has been used to getting the hormones from your dianette pill for 6 years, in a way your body is in shock.
You're doctor is right and you have no need to worry!
It takes awhile for some bodies to get back to a normal hormone level, relax and listen to your Dr.. If you don't start back on a regular cycle soon then I would have he Dr. run some tests to maybe check and see why you are still out of whack. Oh yeah, you can still be pregnant even with a negative on the test.
Yes you can get pregnanat. Be careful.
I would not worry, 6 years is a lot of time, check in with another doctor for second opinion. I think you're fine.
sounds like it has killed your insides
you maybe pregnant but doubt it your docters prob right
You're more likely not pregnant. Your body is having an adjustment period right now from coming off not having an ovulation for 6 years. It'll come, too soon I might addPlease help me need your advice!! women!!?
It can take you up to a year for your body to get back into it's routine. The hormonal balance in our body is very delicate and once we make a huge change like stopping our pill, your body needs to recover. It has been used to getting the hormones from your dianette pill for 6 years, in a way your body is in shock.
You're doctor is right and you have no need to worry!
It takes awhile for some bodies to get back to a normal hormone level, relax and listen to your Dr.. If you don't start back on a regular cycle soon then I would have he Dr. run some tests to maybe check and see why you are still out of whack. Oh yeah, you can still be pregnant even with a negative on the test.
Yes you can get pregnanat. Be careful.
I would not worry, 6 years is a lot of time, check in with another doctor for second opinion. I think you're fine.
sounds like it has killed your insides
you maybe pregnant but doubt it your docters prob right
HPV question please give informed advice (women only)?
I have been diagnosed with HPV (the high risk type that doesn't cause warts) and I am just so afraid that it will lead to cancer. So I am wanting to hear from women who have HPV and their experience with it- whether it caused cancer or not, various procedures they have had done to them and whether or not they have ever recovered from HPV, and if the HPV has caused them not to be able to have children of their own.HPV question please give informed advice (women only)?
Hey gal, sorry you are going through this.
My HPV was diagnosed after a total hysterectomy. I have HPV of the vaginal cuff and the vulva. Did I acquire the virus after the hysterectomy...or did I acquite it before...no one can tell me specifices here. I do know that I had no abnormal Pap before the hysterectomy and my no cancer or abnormal cells on the speciems taken at surgery. The hysterectomy was for non cervical issues, endo, fibroids and ovarian cysts...My high risk HPV of the vulva has been CIS...as this time it is not progressing neither is my vaginal cuff VIN 2/3. Probably more info than you wanted just my experiences. My experiences have lead me to some great information. Most of this info is at our Gyn-Gals HPV info yahoo group.
I joined the Gyn-Gals several years ago. www.gyn-gals.org I know many of our gals have had health babies...many after two cones...and some after a trachlectomy which treats early cervical cancer but allows you your fertility.
Preserving fertility in early cervical Ca with radical trachelectomy
Childbearing is no longer precluded for eligible women with stage IB cervical cancer who undergo this procedure. At some institutions, this alternative has already become standard of care.
http://www.modernmedicine.com/modernmedi鈥?/a>
You are your own best health advocate...regular Pap with HPV test....demand HPV with every Pap smear...because a Pap smear can miss abnormal cell changes. The www.digene.com site can give you more information on getting the HPV with every Pap. Knowledge is power...
Understanding cell changes
www.nci.nih.gov/cancertopics/understan鈥?br>
I wish you well.HPV question please give informed advice (women only)?
My sister was also diagnosed with HPV. Her GYN performed the ';LEEP'; procedure to rid her cervix of the warts. Well, he burned off too much of her cervix and she was unable to carry her two kids to term. One was born at 26 weeks and the second at 29 weeks. She should have sued him! Be careful of what procedures you have done prior to having kids. You can always have a c-section if you are concerned about passing the virus on to your kids through the birth canal! Good luck to you...find a good GYN and get second opinions! P.S. Both of her kids are healthy (they spent about a month in the hospital after they were born)...they are 10 %26amp; 11 years old now and beautiful!
Human Paploma Virus may cause cervical cancer which mean you would have to remove your reproductive system. Good luck and take care!
Hello, I have HPV for warts, cervical cancer, and throat cancers. Its not pretty in fact its downright embarassing. Many people have this, but if you do have it, you can never stop contemplating where you went wrong. In any event, I was diagnosed with the virus in spring 06. I have been in and out of my new docs office ever since. I had a coloscopy and biopsy done a few months back , in which the biopsy was a slight annoyance. Regardless of the situation, I am concerned that people say there are no symptoms for the virus, but I always get a sharp pain in my cervix, or a throbbing there that feels slightly painful. My biopsy came back negative but on one side it had low grade. But they told me they wouldnt address it since it was minor. Also they took a scraping of the end of the uterus in which that was negative, but honestly its a little annoying, and I wish It never happened. Oh well, DARE TO DREAM!!! LOL...cheap cosmetics
Hey gal, sorry you are going through this.
My HPV was diagnosed after a total hysterectomy. I have HPV of the vaginal cuff and the vulva. Did I acquire the virus after the hysterectomy...or did I acquite it before...no one can tell me specifices here. I do know that I had no abnormal Pap before the hysterectomy and my no cancer or abnormal cells on the speciems taken at surgery. The hysterectomy was for non cervical issues, endo, fibroids and ovarian cysts...My high risk HPV of the vulva has been CIS...as this time it is not progressing neither is my vaginal cuff VIN 2/3. Probably more info than you wanted just my experiences. My experiences have lead me to some great information. Most of this info is at our Gyn-Gals HPV info yahoo group.
I joined the Gyn-Gals several years ago. www.gyn-gals.org I know many of our gals have had health babies...many after two cones...and some after a trachlectomy which treats early cervical cancer but allows you your fertility.
Preserving fertility in early cervical Ca with radical trachelectomy
Childbearing is no longer precluded for eligible women with stage IB cervical cancer who undergo this procedure. At some institutions, this alternative has already become standard of care.
http://www.modernmedicine.com/modernmedi鈥?/a>
You are your own best health advocate...regular Pap with HPV test....demand HPV with every Pap smear...because a Pap smear can miss abnormal cell changes. The www.digene.com site can give you more information on getting the HPV with every Pap. Knowledge is power...
Understanding cell changes
www.nci.nih.gov/cancertopics/understan鈥?br>
I wish you well.HPV question please give informed advice (women only)?
My sister was also diagnosed with HPV. Her GYN performed the ';LEEP'; procedure to rid her cervix of the warts. Well, he burned off too much of her cervix and she was unable to carry her two kids to term. One was born at 26 weeks and the second at 29 weeks. She should have sued him! Be careful of what procedures you have done prior to having kids. You can always have a c-section if you are concerned about passing the virus on to your kids through the birth canal! Good luck to you...find a good GYN and get second opinions! P.S. Both of her kids are healthy (they spent about a month in the hospital after they were born)...they are 10 %26amp; 11 years old now and beautiful!
Human Paploma Virus may cause cervical cancer which mean you would have to remove your reproductive system. Good luck and take care!
Hello, I have HPV for warts, cervical cancer, and throat cancers. Its not pretty in fact its downright embarassing. Many people have this, but if you do have it, you can never stop contemplating where you went wrong. In any event, I was diagnosed with the virus in spring 06. I have been in and out of my new docs office ever since. I had a coloscopy and biopsy done a few months back , in which the biopsy was a slight annoyance. Regardless of the situation, I am concerned that people say there are no symptoms for the virus, but I always get a sharp pain in my cervix, or a throbbing there that feels slightly painful. My biopsy came back negative but on one side it had low grade. But they told me they wouldnt address it since it was minor. Also they took a scraping of the end of the uterus in which that was negative, but honestly its a little annoying, and I wish It never happened. Oh well, DARE TO DREAM!!! LOL...
Approaching women (conversation starters)? A woman's advice?
I was curious to know what are some good conversational openers when you are interested in approaching a woman you are interested in?
1) Please don't answer with ';Hi, my name is _____';. That is so boring and it doesn't really engage into a conversation. I would just like to hear something clever or creative that a guy has used on you.
2) Please do not tell me to compliment her on her hair and clothes. I am smart enough to know that women have heard this a million times and that it is a clear indiactor that she is being hit on.
3) I don't want to ask questions like ';What do you do for a living'; or ';Do you live around here';...Again boring conversation!
Anyways any advice would help. After I exchange names with someone, I always seem to have trouble finding somethinng to talk about. Do you know of any creative conversation openers ladies?
Thanks!Approaching women (conversation starters)? A woman's advice?
I would like it if men would approach a woman without blatantly hitting on her. It makes it awkward whether I am interested or not. For example, say I am, oh I dunno, waiting for a bus. Instead of a man coming out and asking for my name (I get a bit creeped out by that) it would be nice if he said something casual like, ';This bus is always late.'; Then based on my reaction he should decide on whether or not to continue the conversation. If I say ';Yep,'; or something short, I obviously am not interested in talking to this person. If I say something like ';I know, I hate standing here after working all day. I just want to get home, not wait for a bus,'; obviously I am interested in talking to the man. From there he can continue the conversation and if/when he asks for my name/number, he will already know I am interested. I think its a great way for men to ward off rejection because getting a short answer when commenting on the lateness of a bus is not nearly as bad as a woman telling you she is not interested in dating you. I hope that made sense and helps a little. Good luck :)Approaching women (conversation starters)? A woman's advice?
''what nice weather it is?''
READ ASKMEN.COM
Ask:';what are my chances with you?';Be blunt.
i think u should be funny ,that helps alot and and dont just feed off of her ,i like it when boys know how to hold a conversation
not just listen to u and not say a word
Just be naturally friendly!! If you go and plan something out ahead of time, she'll know and it'll totally sound like it. Plus, that'll make her nervous, because she'll think she has to sound as good as your opener! Talk to her naturally-- making her laugh is always a plus! Forget asking about her life and talking about your own life-- chat about something that's going on right then, so you can both relate to it!
start with hi (if your at a club offer her a drink, tacky i know but it shows your considerate girls love that)
then ask if shes having a good time etc, just be yourself.
dont bombard her with questions just casually chat, listen to what shes saying, woman will love you.
and be funny but dont tell tacky jokes!
Hey! Well be friendly at first you don't wanna come on too strong that makes a girl weary of you! But when you see a girl you want to talk to just casually bump into her or if shes looking at something just go up to her and say something about it. And you can just look in the eyes and smile. That will let her know you like her and if she does the same back or something similer to it then you know she likes you. And you can just walk to her and be like hey hows it going and you'll get a good conversation going and towards the end you can just be like oh and my name is...and she'll do the same trust me it will work cuz I've had tons of guys do it to me and I find it sweet! Best of luck and hope this helps! =)
Oh and don't try any come on lines! Thats lame and she will lose interest right away!
Maby start out with a joke. Or say something like Hey have you ever seen such en such movie? Or instead of asking a real quetion just be totaly silly about and say something very random and stupid like Hey have you ever seen a fish flying in a space ship?
As women we have heard it all, but if you are confident and sweet, the right girl will respond.
Yes, a compliment on her clothes or hair or perfume may indicate you're interested, but so what? We still love to hear it and if she doesn't shoot you down then you have the opportunity to make real conversation.
Observe her if you can if you are at a bar or public place. You may overhear something that would be of interest like a movie she just saw or her favorite sports team. Think of something funny to say associated with that and see how she responds.
If you're in a place with a jukebox maybe ask if she has a song she'd like to hear or ask anyone in her group. It will put you on her radar and you'll seem sweet. Or maybe you could say, ';don't you hate when guys just come up to you and start talking...'; Maybe she'll find the humor in your honesty.
But, it really depends on the place and situation..
';nice shoes, wanna ****?';
Actually seriously the most effective thing anyone has ever used on me, is walking up and introducing themselves. Being confident, interesting, charming, and funny. Is the best combo. Dont be nervous, dont be overly weird.
Just talk to her like a person, forget that you think she's attractive, just be normal and civil, like make an observation about wherever you're at for an icebreaker. Women just want to be treated as a friend, and if she trusts you a little bit you've broken the ice. (If she's not a stuck-up jerk and if she is then it's not worth it anyway! )
1) Please don't answer with ';Hi, my name is _____';. That is so boring and it doesn't really engage into a conversation. I would just like to hear something clever or creative that a guy has used on you.
2) Please do not tell me to compliment her on her hair and clothes. I am smart enough to know that women have heard this a million times and that it is a clear indiactor that she is being hit on.
3) I don't want to ask questions like ';What do you do for a living'; or ';Do you live around here';...Again boring conversation!
Anyways any advice would help. After I exchange names with someone, I always seem to have trouble finding somethinng to talk about. Do you know of any creative conversation openers ladies?
Thanks!Approaching women (conversation starters)? A woman's advice?
I would like it if men would approach a woman without blatantly hitting on her. It makes it awkward whether I am interested or not. For example, say I am, oh I dunno, waiting for a bus. Instead of a man coming out and asking for my name (I get a bit creeped out by that) it would be nice if he said something casual like, ';This bus is always late.'; Then based on my reaction he should decide on whether or not to continue the conversation. If I say ';Yep,'; or something short, I obviously am not interested in talking to this person. If I say something like ';I know, I hate standing here after working all day. I just want to get home, not wait for a bus,'; obviously I am interested in talking to the man. From there he can continue the conversation and if/when he asks for my name/number, he will already know I am interested. I think its a great way for men to ward off rejection because getting a short answer when commenting on the lateness of a bus is not nearly as bad as a woman telling you she is not interested in dating you. I hope that made sense and helps a little. Good luck :)Approaching women (conversation starters)? A woman's advice?
''what nice weather it is?''
READ ASKMEN.COM
Ask:';what are my chances with you?';Be blunt.
i think u should be funny ,that helps alot and and dont just feed off of her ,i like it when boys know how to hold a conversation
not just listen to u and not say a word
Just be naturally friendly!! If you go and plan something out ahead of time, she'll know and it'll totally sound like it. Plus, that'll make her nervous, because she'll think she has to sound as good as your opener! Talk to her naturally-- making her laugh is always a plus! Forget asking about her life and talking about your own life-- chat about something that's going on right then, so you can both relate to it!
start with hi (if your at a club offer her a drink, tacky i know but it shows your considerate girls love that)
then ask if shes having a good time etc, just be yourself.
dont bombard her with questions just casually chat, listen to what shes saying, woman will love you.
and be funny but dont tell tacky jokes!
Hey! Well be friendly at first you don't wanna come on too strong that makes a girl weary of you! But when you see a girl you want to talk to just casually bump into her or if shes looking at something just go up to her and say something about it. And you can just look in the eyes and smile. That will let her know you like her and if she does the same back or something similer to it then you know she likes you. And you can just walk to her and be like hey hows it going and you'll get a good conversation going and towards the end you can just be like oh and my name is...and she'll do the same trust me it will work cuz I've had tons of guys do it to me and I find it sweet! Best of luck and hope this helps! =)
Oh and don't try any come on lines! Thats lame and she will lose interest right away!
Maby start out with a joke. Or say something like Hey have you ever seen such en such movie? Or instead of asking a real quetion just be totaly silly about and say something very random and stupid like Hey have you ever seen a fish flying in a space ship?
As women we have heard it all, but if you are confident and sweet, the right girl will respond.
Yes, a compliment on her clothes or hair or perfume may indicate you're interested, but so what? We still love to hear it and if she doesn't shoot you down then you have the opportunity to make real conversation.
Observe her if you can if you are at a bar or public place. You may overhear something that would be of interest like a movie she just saw or her favorite sports team. Think of something funny to say associated with that and see how she responds.
If you're in a place with a jukebox maybe ask if she has a song she'd like to hear or ask anyone in her group. It will put you on her radar and you'll seem sweet. Or maybe you could say, ';don't you hate when guys just come up to you and start talking...'; Maybe she'll find the humor in your honesty.
But, it really depends on the place and situation..
';nice shoes, wanna ****?';
Actually seriously the most effective thing anyone has ever used on me, is walking up and introducing themselves. Being confident, interesting, charming, and funny. Is the best combo. Dont be nervous, dont be overly weird.
Just talk to her like a person, forget that you think she's attractive, just be normal and civil, like make an observation about wherever you're at for an icebreaker. Women just want to be treated as a friend, and if she trusts you a little bit you've broken the ice. (If she's not a stuck-up jerk and if she is then it's not worth it anyway! )
I need some closure advice. women help!?
ok so me and this girl were talking for like 1 month and a half we liked eachother alot she liked me more then i liked her we talked on the phone everyday till like 3 am we hungout and there was a really good connection when we hungout she told me things that she never told anyone before not even her bestfriends she would always text call me and we felt really comfortable with eachother we talked about anything she said she never met a guy like me before and would never want to talk to talk to any other guy everything just seemed so perfect until i text her one day she doesnt w/b next day doesnt w/b then after 3 days trying to contact her she finally sends me a text saying ';icant talk to you im sorry.';i said why she doesnt w/b i message her friend she doesnt w/b. so she never ever told me why and that eats my heart out and breaks it : ( its like everything was so good then this happens its like a mystery so idk what happened..I need some closure advice. women help!?
Do you ever have opportunities to see her in person? If you do, try to talk to her about it then.
That really is bizarre but you never know with girls, we're pretty illogical.
However, she did say ';I can't'; not '; I don't want to'; so it doesn't seem really like it's anything that's your fault.I need some closure advice. women help!?
she might just be scared of commitment or didn't want to ruin your friendship
Do you ever have opportunities to see her in person? If you do, try to talk to her about it then.
That really is bizarre but you never know with girls, we're pretty illogical.
However, she did say ';I can't'; not '; I don't want to'; so it doesn't seem really like it's anything that's your fault.I need some closure advice. women help!?
she might just be scared of commitment or didn't want to ruin your friendship
Women unwinding advice please?
Hi Ladies, My wife complains that when she has had a hectic day and she is all tense I always fail in helping her unwind. What does she want to hear from me? Please don't answer things like make her hot cocoa or giver her a back rub. I am referring to soothing words that she needs that I am not supplying. Thanks!Women unwinding advice please?
All she wants is your full, undivided attention...
just talk to her about what was so horriable that day or just let her talk.....and PAY ATTENTION!
and trying to make her laugh and smile wouldn't hurt either.Women unwinding advice please?
I know that when I need time to unwind all I want is a little quiet time alone. Maybe ten minutes to recharge and then I can move on with the rest of the evening.
OK - my husband is no good at this. First thing, if she looks run down, don't tell her that, ask her IMMEDIATELY, hey hun, can I get anything for you! THAT IS KEY!
Don't ask her to make decisions if she doesn't want to. Have some options for dinner ready, plan at least one where you cook, and some places she might like to eat. But if she says you decide, then decide and offer her a veto.
If she wants to talk about her day, let her, if not, talk about whateverthehell she want to talk about.
This is what I wish my husband did when I get home from work.
All she wants is your full, undivided attention...
just talk to her about what was so horriable that day or just let her talk.....and PAY ATTENTION!
and trying to make her laugh and smile wouldn't hurt either.Women unwinding advice please?
I know that when I need time to unwind all I want is a little quiet time alone. Maybe ten minutes to recharge and then I can move on with the rest of the evening.
OK - my husband is no good at this. First thing, if she looks run down, don't tell her that, ask her IMMEDIATELY, hey hun, can I get anything for you! THAT IS KEY!
Don't ask her to make decisions if she doesn't want to. Have some options for dinner ready, plan at least one where you cook, and some places she might like to eat. But if she says you decide, then decide and offer her a veto.
If she wants to talk about her day, let her, if not, talk about whateverthehell she want to talk about.
This is what I wish my husband did when I get home from work.
Need a man's advice. women can answer too?
I have a problem trying to get a serious relationship. This always happens to me. I went out on a date last night. The man was very nice and we got along great. We never ran out of things to talk about. We cooked and watched movies. Thing is we are both shy and I thought we would be uncomfortable around each other but we weren't. However, when he was taking me home last night he told me he still had feelings for another woman who dumped him back in Janurary. Yes I knew this was a red flag. I got a note from hom on my messenger this morning saying he had some things within his soul that he needed to figure out and he needed some time. I am an attractive person. I am a good cook and I am a good listener and conversationist. My question is why does this keep happening to me? What am I doing wrong? No smart alleck answers please cuz I really could use some advice. ThanksNeed a man's advice. women can answer too?
Because you're too good of a cook, listener and conversationalist.
Especially, you're too attractive for them
Don't worry, you'll find someone who can handle you.
Will not feel insecure around you.
You will find someone worthy of you.Need a man's advice. women can answer too?
kiddo dating sucks big time and sometimes you have to just keep at it until you get the right one..its like a freaking lottery. my ex mother in law says that '; you sometimes keep going out with the same kinda people'; i think i'm doing the same thing too.
relationships.....they are true only when its both side.... so doesnt matter he has interest in you or not.... if you feel that you have to leave him just do it.... n dont ever think of him.... coz its your life.... if you have good soul all ll come towards you....you dont need to search for serious relationships....just go on.... taste everything...all kinda relationships have some excitements.....feel it.... hav fun....
Maybe it is not you and really the guys you are picking.... Maybe you should try some one different some one that you would not usually date! That use to kinda happen to me so I went out side my box and totally dropped all things that I looked for in a guy and started dating a country farm boy and usually I went for the tough city boys...... Try something new!
Let me honesty with you. You have not done anything wrong. In real life, things will happen the way you did not expect it to be, so I suggest you to give him time to reconsider the fact he is dealing now and see what will happen.
idk what ur doin wong..lol
jus keep lookin and dont fall for anyone to quick...
where are you meeting these men? i have always made a rule that i only go out with people that i know or have got to know through friends who will say ';yeah, hes uright'; or whatever, im not saying thats fool proof but it gives you a bit more insite into the person your with. Also are you bearing your sole to these men? I think you would be better not having them back to your house or cooking for them i think you should meet someone out for a meal or drink and then part your ways at the end, at a coutship should not be rushed and i suspect this is what your doing. But whatever happens do not allow this man back into your life because if you do you will end up with heart ache. you find a man that gives you 100% take no less you deserve the best and good luck. Also i might just add that if you were to go on this site www.seducemen.co.uk you will get some great ideas, theres a forum and an expert that you can put this question to. good luck
Give it time....you just haven't met the right person yet. Obviously this guy is still not over an ex and at least he was honest and told you that. You are not doing anything wrong at all. It is all part of the dating process...sometimes it works out other times it doesn't.
MAYBE E THOUGH YOUR WERE TO PERFECT FOR HIM. OR HE WANTED MORE FROM YOU BUT HE PROBLEM KNEW YOU WERENT GOING TO GIVE IT TO HIM.... ITS ONE OF THOSE PHASES YOU WILL GO THRU LIFE THAT YOU FEEL LIKE NO1 WANTS YOU OR YOU THINK SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH YOU...TRUST ME I KNOW HOW IT FEELS IM IN THE SAME PERDICAMENT
It sounds like you've been in similar situations in the past. But for this particular case, I wonder if you should worry about something being wrong with YOU. From what you said, i think you're just fine. As he told you, he might just feel hurt from his previous relationship and is scared of being hurt again-this happen to men too. Don't despair; just give him some time. Stay around him and show him that you're different. If you can get him to trust again and to believe in love, it can work. My guess is all you need is time and a lot of care. Now it's yours to make it work. love's a fight; don't give up.
what did you cook?
Maybe it's where your meeting these people?
You need to start acting a little like ';You are lucky to be with me'; Don't make yourself so available. Play hard to get. Tease him. Talk a little dirty, not ugly dirty, but things with a double meaning. Lick your lips. Gently touch your cleavage, get sexy Girl!!! Make him WANT you!
Kathryn: Sounds to me like you look for the wrong type of men (shy like you). The old saying goes opposites attract try a more outgoing fellow and see what develops. Also if this was a 1st date dinner OUT and a MOVIE OUT would have been better than cooking and watching at his or your home. It's better to be on neutral turf early on in a budding/developing relationship. PEACE!
It's just coincidence. you'll find someone eventually, just make sure to dump them if they have feelings for someone else. Please Email me what the heck is smart alleck i hear it too much. Why won't they say smart @ss?
He's not over the last one.
I'm having the same problem with my girlfriend and its about to break us up.
Take Care
I think your going wrong when you say...your trying to get a serious relationship.
Are you perhaps ';trying'; too hard? Could you be giving off the notion that your looking for serious with the guys you meet too soon?
I would say serious is a natural progression in relationships when all things are right for both parties.
Try just concentrating on the fun aspects first of all.
The guy from lastnight....maybe he was telling the truth and he realised he was still in love with someone else....but he didnt realise it fully until lastnight....so thats not your fault, its just one of these things, however not nice it is for you. I broke with my girl, 9 weeks ago, beginning of January, i have spoken to a few people over that time, and I did once consider going on a date, but in the end I couldnt go ahead with it because I still have my heart with her, and it would be wrong of me to lead someone on when ultimately im not interested in anyone else. I think you may need to repsect that and understand that it wasnt necessarily personal against you.
I honestly can't see what you did wrong maybe you shouldn't try to get into a relationship just date around go on a lot of dates with different guys and you'll find one that will think the world of you. just keep playing the field cause you seem to have done everything right.
You do not do anything wrong. And nothing is wrong with you. Well, he still had feelings for another girl and that is more than enough not to have a realtionship with him.
You just need to be yourself and I am sure that right guy comes to you. At least this is what I think about my self (of course I am waiting for right girl)
just ease up ..... first dates are not time to discuss relationships
they are time to enjoy or at least look into the other person
sit back and let the relationship come to you
he's probably trying to prove that he's an emotional type of guy in front of you
You're finding the wrong men. This isn't your fault, but the men you are attracted to who are attracted to you have a lot of excess baggage. You don't need that in your life, and you certainly don't want to be the rebound girl.
If you have a lot to offer, keep flaunting it. Remain positive. The right guy will be attracted to your confidence, and you'll finally find someone. But these things don't happen overnight. You may have to wait a long time. I had two long term relationships, both of them which ended in me being cheated on, so I know where you're coming from. You wonder what you did wrong when in reality, it's not you, it's them. But there's hope -- I have a great guy now who is completely devoted to me. Keep positive, and good things will come.
get a dog they would use and abuse your conversations
are you fat?
Because you're too good of a cook, listener and conversationalist.
Especially, you're too attractive for them
Don't worry, you'll find someone who can handle you.
Will not feel insecure around you.
You will find someone worthy of you.Need a man's advice. women can answer too?
kiddo dating sucks big time and sometimes you have to just keep at it until you get the right one..its like a freaking lottery. my ex mother in law says that '; you sometimes keep going out with the same kinda people'; i think i'm doing the same thing too.
relationships.....they are true only when its both side.... so doesnt matter he has interest in you or not.... if you feel that you have to leave him just do it.... n dont ever think of him.... coz its your life.... if you have good soul all ll come towards you....you dont need to search for serious relationships....just go on.... taste everything...all kinda relationships have some excitements.....feel it.... hav fun....
Maybe it is not you and really the guys you are picking.... Maybe you should try some one different some one that you would not usually date! That use to kinda happen to me so I went out side my box and totally dropped all things that I looked for in a guy and started dating a country farm boy and usually I went for the tough city boys...... Try something new!
Let me honesty with you. You have not done anything wrong. In real life, things will happen the way you did not expect it to be, so I suggest you to give him time to reconsider the fact he is dealing now and see what will happen.
idk what ur doin wong..lol
jus keep lookin and dont fall for anyone to quick...
where are you meeting these men? i have always made a rule that i only go out with people that i know or have got to know through friends who will say ';yeah, hes uright'; or whatever, im not saying thats fool proof but it gives you a bit more insite into the person your with. Also are you bearing your sole to these men? I think you would be better not having them back to your house or cooking for them i think you should meet someone out for a meal or drink and then part your ways at the end, at a coutship should not be rushed and i suspect this is what your doing. But whatever happens do not allow this man back into your life because if you do you will end up with heart ache. you find a man that gives you 100% take no less you deserve the best and good luck. Also i might just add that if you were to go on this site www.seducemen.co.uk you will get some great ideas, theres a forum and an expert that you can put this question to. good luck
Give it time....you just haven't met the right person yet. Obviously this guy is still not over an ex and at least he was honest and told you that. You are not doing anything wrong at all. It is all part of the dating process...sometimes it works out other times it doesn't.
MAYBE E THOUGH YOUR WERE TO PERFECT FOR HIM. OR HE WANTED MORE FROM YOU BUT HE PROBLEM KNEW YOU WERENT GOING TO GIVE IT TO HIM.... ITS ONE OF THOSE PHASES YOU WILL GO THRU LIFE THAT YOU FEEL LIKE NO1 WANTS YOU OR YOU THINK SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH YOU...TRUST ME I KNOW HOW IT FEELS IM IN THE SAME PERDICAMENT
It sounds like you've been in similar situations in the past. But for this particular case, I wonder if you should worry about something being wrong with YOU. From what you said, i think you're just fine. As he told you, he might just feel hurt from his previous relationship and is scared of being hurt again-this happen to men too. Don't despair; just give him some time. Stay around him and show him that you're different. If you can get him to trust again and to believe in love, it can work. My guess is all you need is time and a lot of care. Now it's yours to make it work. love's a fight; don't give up.
what did you cook?
Maybe it's where your meeting these people?
You need to start acting a little like ';You are lucky to be with me'; Don't make yourself so available. Play hard to get. Tease him. Talk a little dirty, not ugly dirty, but things with a double meaning. Lick your lips. Gently touch your cleavage, get sexy Girl!!! Make him WANT you!
Kathryn: Sounds to me like you look for the wrong type of men (shy like you). The old saying goes opposites attract try a more outgoing fellow and see what develops. Also if this was a 1st date dinner OUT and a MOVIE OUT would have been better than cooking and watching at his or your home. It's better to be on neutral turf early on in a budding/developing relationship. PEACE!
It's just coincidence. you'll find someone eventually, just make sure to dump them if they have feelings for someone else. Please Email me what the heck is smart alleck i hear it too much. Why won't they say smart @ss?
He's not over the last one.
I'm having the same problem with my girlfriend and its about to break us up.
Take Care
I think your going wrong when you say...your trying to get a serious relationship.
Are you perhaps ';trying'; too hard? Could you be giving off the notion that your looking for serious with the guys you meet too soon?
I would say serious is a natural progression in relationships when all things are right for both parties.
Try just concentrating on the fun aspects first of all.
The guy from lastnight....maybe he was telling the truth and he realised he was still in love with someone else....but he didnt realise it fully until lastnight....so thats not your fault, its just one of these things, however not nice it is for you. I broke with my girl, 9 weeks ago, beginning of January, i have spoken to a few people over that time, and I did once consider going on a date, but in the end I couldnt go ahead with it because I still have my heart with her, and it would be wrong of me to lead someone on when ultimately im not interested in anyone else. I think you may need to repsect that and understand that it wasnt necessarily personal against you.
I honestly can't see what you did wrong maybe you shouldn't try to get into a relationship just date around go on a lot of dates with different guys and you'll find one that will think the world of you. just keep playing the field cause you seem to have done everything right.
You do not do anything wrong. And nothing is wrong with you. Well, he still had feelings for another girl and that is more than enough not to have a realtionship with him.
You just need to be yourself and I am sure that right guy comes to you. At least this is what I think about my self (of course I am waiting for right girl)
just ease up ..... first dates are not time to discuss relationships
they are time to enjoy or at least look into the other person
sit back and let the relationship come to you
he's probably trying to prove that he's an emotional type of guy in front of you
You're finding the wrong men. This isn't your fault, but the men you are attracted to who are attracted to you have a lot of excess baggage. You don't need that in your life, and you certainly don't want to be the rebound girl.
If you have a lot to offer, keep flaunting it. Remain positive. The right guy will be attracted to your confidence, and you'll finally find someone. But these things don't happen overnight. You may have to wait a long time. I had two long term relationships, both of them which ended in me being cheated on, so I know where you're coming from. You wonder what you did wrong when in reality, it's not you, it's them. But there's hope -- I have a great guy now who is completely devoted to me. Keep positive, and good things will come.
get a dog they would use and abuse your conversations
are you fat?
What should i do? advice on women please ?
my friend (female) comes to my house most nites but im not sure if she just wants to be friends or if she wants something more. were so alike each other its scary! lol. we sleep in same bed wen shes over but i hav been 2 nervous 2 try anything incase she does just want to be friends, what should i do?What should i do? advice on women please ?
Go for it man! If she's coming over to your house at night she obviously wants something out of you. Make your move before it's too late.What should i do? advice on women please ?
It is easier when they melt in your arms.
u should give her a kiss on the mouth and then whatever way she responds that is ur answer but u shouldn't try anything when you guys are sleeping b-cuz if she does not want u like that well you would seem stupid
Wot shud u doo? Get an education and eventually employment.
You need to take care not to miss read her signals she may just need a very special male friend that she can trust and it sounds like she trust you a lot, If she's not after sex. Just ask her if she want to be friends or more. Take care and treat her good.
tell her u r confused about it and ask her.
Go for it man! If she's coming over to your house at night she obviously wants something out of you. Make your move before it's too late.What should i do? advice on women please ?
It is easier when they melt in your arms.
u should give her a kiss on the mouth and then whatever way she responds that is ur answer but u shouldn't try anything when you guys are sleeping b-cuz if she does not want u like that well you would seem stupid
Wot shud u doo? Get an education and eventually employment.
You need to take care not to miss read her signals she may just need a very special male friend that she can trust and it sounds like she trust you a lot, If she's not after sex. Just ask her if she want to be friends or more. Take care and treat her good.
tell her u r confused about it and ask her.
Can you please give me advice on how to talk to girls/women to create attraction properly & successfully? THX?
I'm a college age guy in my mid-20s. Best, most helpful, genuine advice= 10 pts.Can you please give me advice on how to talk to girls/women to create attraction properly %26amp; successfully? THX?
be yourself. try to find out about her and what she likes, just dont get too personal that can be creepy. lol. you need to find the line between being too keen and coming across as being uninterested, if that makes sense. just act natural and go with the flow....cheap cosmetics
be yourself. try to find out about her and what she likes, just dont get too personal that can be creepy. lol. you need to find the line between being too keen and coming across as being uninterested, if that makes sense. just act natural and go with the flow....
Please help I need advice from women
What is wrong with a little casual sex? If I am old enough and she is then why cant two people get busy off the net? IF my fizzle meets your jizzle what is it to anybody else?Please help I need advice from women
Sounds good to me.Please help I need advice from women
There's nothing really wrong with it in my eyes. Sometimes people just want a little action as opposed to a relationship.
Internet 'dating' is a minefield..you can't be sure you'll always get 'exactly what it says on the tin',he describes himself as brad pitt and when you meet,he looks more Like cess pit :D
But if two (or more) people want to get it on and have some safe fun,then what the hell,ain't nobodies business but theirs!
What is the problem here? Who said it was wrong? Give'r
Sounds good to me.Please help I need advice from women
There's nothing really wrong with it in my eyes. Sometimes people just want a little action as opposed to a relationship.
Internet 'dating' is a minefield..you can't be sure you'll always get 'exactly what it says on the tin',he describes himself as brad pitt and when you meet,he looks more Like cess pit :D
But if two (or more) people want to get it on and have some safe fun,then what the hell,ain't nobodies business but theirs!
What is the problem here? Who said it was wrong? Give'r
Any younger guys dating older women? - some advice needed?
My boyfriend is 20, I'm 35. Obviously the sex is awesome as we are both in our sexual primes. I love him and I believe he loves me. People think I'm crazy to have such a young boyfriend but he's great to and for me. He's there when I need him, he was helpful to me when my daughter broke her ankle, going to appointments, etc. He cooked me (and my mother) breakfast and dinner for mother's day. And I never feel like I'm playing the ';mother'; role. He's a man in everyway, and he makes me feel very much like a woman. He's only young in number. But sometimes the age difference does show. He does or says silly things, but also I'm a little jealous of a female friend he has. She's 21, cute and addorable but he swears they are just good friends. He did like her but she ended up going with his best friend so now they all just hang out together. I guess I'm threatened because I wonder why he'd want me at 35 (though I'm hot!) instead of some hot girl his own age. What do you think?Any younger guys dating older women? - some advice needed?
hey dear , u know i'm 20 , i had a 40-year-old gf that i really loved , but the problem was that she couldn't belive in my love , she couolsn't belive how a 20 -year old boy could love a girl with 2 kids , and there the problem occured , just relax and be what u could be to a man like 35 or older , let him be what he wants to be and be what a lady aged 35 can be , let ur life get a great one as i think it is now , don't wander around , just make ......Any younger guys dating older women? - some advice needed?
Nobody under 23 knows what the heck they are doing, so I predict he goes bye-bye soon.
I am 24 and dating a 29 year old. That age difference scares me enough. Yeah once you get to 45 you're no good to him at 30. Be realistic, its just temporary and may cause you to be alone in your middle age to senior years. I have seen this before when my friends mom got dropped at 50 by a 40 year old. And she was a sex icon in her prime (I don't want to drop the name.) So no matter how hot, you will get dropped. Thats mostly why you with him too I assume, cause He is hot and good looking.
Money probably doesn't have that much to do with it. It's the constant sex that I am in it for.
Where did you find him?!
Sorry, I'm not a younger guy...just an older woman...couldn't resist to ask...where did you find him?
id b scared to!! lol!
look at demi moore and ashton kutcher
dont worry its fine..
In my experience alot of younger guys get involved with older women because they feel it's exciting and strokes their ego a little because they can satisfy an older woman. Also older women are more experienced so you can probably show him some tricks a younger woman can't. Also look back at when you were 20 and compared to now and compare the type of person you are and if you really knew what you wanted out of life at that age. I would bet that if he wants to really get serious with someone and have a family he will do it with someone closer to his age. Just my 2 cents....
You're probably financially stable.
Well I am also a older woman dating a younger guy. I am 38 and he is turning 30 this month. We have been dating for 3 years (living together for the past year)and have an awesome relationship. The only concern I have with your guy being 20 is has he had enough experience to really know what he wants at this age? That is almost a 15 year age difference with the 2 of you, and I wonder how mature/stable he can really be at 20.
hey dear , u know i'm 20 , i had a 40-year-old gf that i really loved , but the problem was that she couldn't belive in my love , she couolsn't belive how a 20 -year old boy could love a girl with 2 kids , and there the problem occured , just relax and be what u could be to a man like 35 or older , let him be what he wants to be and be what a lady aged 35 can be , let ur life get a great one as i think it is now , don't wander around , just make ......Any younger guys dating older women? - some advice needed?
Nobody under 23 knows what the heck they are doing, so I predict he goes bye-bye soon.
I am 24 and dating a 29 year old. That age difference scares me enough. Yeah once you get to 45 you're no good to him at 30. Be realistic, its just temporary and may cause you to be alone in your middle age to senior years. I have seen this before when my friends mom got dropped at 50 by a 40 year old. And she was a sex icon in her prime (I don't want to drop the name.) So no matter how hot, you will get dropped. Thats mostly why you with him too I assume, cause He is hot and good looking.
Money probably doesn't have that much to do with it. It's the constant sex that I am in it for.
Where did you find him?!
Sorry, I'm not a younger guy...just an older woman...couldn't resist to ask...where did you find him?
id b scared to!! lol!
look at demi moore and ashton kutcher
dont worry its fine..
In my experience alot of younger guys get involved with older women because they feel it's exciting and strokes their ego a little because they can satisfy an older woman. Also older women are more experienced so you can probably show him some tricks a younger woman can't. Also look back at when you were 20 and compared to now and compare the type of person you are and if you really knew what you wanted out of life at that age. I would bet that if he wants to really get serious with someone and have a family he will do it with someone closer to his age. Just my 2 cents....
You're probably financially stable.
Well I am also a older woman dating a younger guy. I am 38 and he is turning 30 this month. We have been dating for 3 years (living together for the past year)and have an awesome relationship. The only concern I have with your guy being 20 is has he had enough experience to really know what he wants at this age? That is almost a 15 year age difference with the 2 of you, and I wonder how mature/stable he can really be at 20.
Why doesn't the Bible give more advice to women about how to deal with men?
get a catholic bible and read wisdomWhy doesn't the Bible give more advice to women about how to deal with men?
Because it was written my men as was the Muslim religion. This is just one reason I am no longer a Christian. I believe in Christ and I don't think Christ would have wanted women to be treated in a bad way. He shows this when they try to stone the woman that was found committing adultery (what about the guy),
';HE WHO HAS NO SIN LET HIM THROW THE FIRST STONE.';Why doesn't the Bible give more advice to women about how to deal with men?
Because in the buy-bull women are second class citizens, are to learn from and serve men. That's why there's no punishment for rape.
Because the Bible is misogynist, written by men and therefore ignored women
Because in Biblical days, women did what they were told. They did not ';deal'; with men.
Because the Bible isn't a textbook on how to live your life.
It's in there!
Because it was written my men as was the Muslim religion. This is just one reason I am no longer a Christian. I believe in Christ and I don't think Christ would have wanted women to be treated in a bad way. He shows this when they try to stone the woman that was found committing adultery (what about the guy),
';HE WHO HAS NO SIN LET HIM THROW THE FIRST STONE.';Why doesn't the Bible give more advice to women about how to deal with men?
Because in the buy-bull women are second class citizens, are to learn from and serve men. That's why there's no punishment for rape.
Because the Bible is misogynist, written by men and therefore ignored women
Because in Biblical days, women did what they were told. They did not ';deal'; with men.
Because the Bible isn't a textbook on how to live your life.
It's in there!
Women who have boob Jobs, Please Advice?
I want to get a boob job...I know that there can be problems with them, and eventually they have to be replaced, there can be side effects, etc. If you have had a boob job please tell me you opinin and you experiences. Thank you very much!Women who have boob Jobs, Please Advice?
I haven't had one but i know someone who did. She said that the pain isn't worth it. She went from a B cup to a C Cup and the pain for her was unbearable.
She could move at time. Couldn't even walk. Had to sleep on her back for 6 weeks.. couldn't run.. couldn't lift.. nothing. She developed depression from the pain
She said she would never go through that againWomen who have boob Jobs, Please Advice?
just accept what you got not all men go for boobs babe dont worry about it id rather be safet han sorry like although id like a boob job my boyfriend loves me for who i am not for my body like and trust me babe just accept you for who you are ya will save money to and you will not put your self under any unnessacary stress with efffects after etc x
natural beauty is always the best!
i didnt have it
yes, there is problem with breast implants. If you want get breast implant. Just be careful, after surgery. You could get serious problems, if you get bleeding or anykinds. This mean, will re-do again. I don't think worthy as all. If I were you to leave your breast as it. You should be glad what you have now.
I haven't had one but i know someone who did. She said that the pain isn't worth it. She went from a B cup to a C Cup and the pain for her was unbearable.
She could move at time. Couldn't even walk. Had to sleep on her back for 6 weeks.. couldn't run.. couldn't lift.. nothing. She developed depression from the pain
She said she would never go through that againWomen who have boob Jobs, Please Advice?
just accept what you got not all men go for boobs babe dont worry about it id rather be safet han sorry like although id like a boob job my boyfriend loves me for who i am not for my body like and trust me babe just accept you for who you are ya will save money to and you will not put your self under any unnessacary stress with efffects after etc x
natural beauty is always the best!
i didnt have it
yes, there is problem with breast implants. If you want get breast implant. Just be careful, after surgery. You could get serious problems, if you get bleeding or anykinds. This mean, will re-do again. I don't think worthy as all. If I were you to leave your breast as it. You should be glad what you have now.
Girls, Women, need advice. I'm so embarrassed...?
Holy crap I'm so embarrassed.
Ok so here's the story,
I'm at summer school taking a class for geometry because I've had a hard time with math and want to get ahead.
During class all of a sudden I really had to take a piss. I asked if I could get up and go to the bathroom but my teacher said I had to wait 5 or so mins because somebody was already using it.
SO, as you could imagine when I was finally able to go I had to go REALLY BAD right?
So I bust out the class and go into the nearest restroom.
But then I think...hey...why aren't there any urinals in here?
OH SH*T!!
I accidently went into the girls bathroom!
(thankfully nobody was in there)
I feel so embarrassed.
What if there was a girl changing in there? I could have been called a perv or gotten sued for sexual harrasment or something.
Something's telling me that it's really not a big deal but I keep feeling bad about it.
Is it really that big of a deal?Girls, Women, need advice. I'm so embarrassed...?
its not a big deal at all.you are way over reactingGirls, Women, need advice. I'm so embarrassed...?
This is not a big deal , and you would not get sued for sexual harrassment, do'n't worry, If you have to go, you just go. Like you said there was noone in there. If there had been, I am sure you would have turned around, apolgized and left with a somewhat red face, and relieved bladder.
I am a mother of two and I have gone into the men's restroom before. I was eating at a local all you can eat buffet on a busy Saturday lunchtime. Well, I allways like to use the bathroom before I eat, and usually afterwards, so I am comfortable. The mens and womens bathrooms are opposite eachother. and I didn't look closely at the signs, and just walked into the bathroom, only to suddenly hear male voices and realize I was in the Men's bathroom. They were standing at urinals and talking. Lucklily they didn't see me and I certainly didn't say anything.
I felt a tinge embarrased, but mostly just chuckled to myself. I told my husband what happened when I returned to our table. He just laughed and took it all in stride. Now I could have been sued, but of course I wasn't . In order to be sued, it would have to be a case of intent, and I would have had to be charged with something by one of the customers, and of course no one is going to say anything.It happened so fast, nothing could happen. Just forget about it, and remember, we all make mistakes and it is just one of those stories that you can share with others, and it will just as qucikly be forgotten about as quickly as it happened.
Is your math any better? Math was my poorest subject, and even in College I had a hard time with it. Good luck!
no body was in there ok, but why did you wait until then, henceforth see that you dont wait till you are tight, women can hold to some extent but men shoulnt or they cant,
but, it should not have happened the way it has happened.
you should be sorry for what you have done.
I hope that your screen name was created with the band Prodigy in mind. If so - kudos.
And no, it's not bad. Yes, you could have gotten in trouble. I've gone to the restroom in a boys bathroom a few times when the girls was unavailable. It's whatevers to me.
not really, a bathroom is a bathroom.
dont spaz over it!
relax completely its nothing if you have to go you have to go it doesnt matter what anyone says relax there are bigger issues in life
No its not..its ok and fine my friend once pissed on wash tub at hotel cos the latrine was occupied...no worries! u were not able to stop it so you did! and you didint go purposely go inside to see any of you classmates pissing...don worry kiddo!
over
reaction
Wow...you need to not take things so seriously. Im a girl and I peed in a urinal once...long story but that was definetly more embarrasing that just entering a girls bathroom.
No don't worry.. u didn't run into a girl.. u should stop thinking about what could of happened then what really did
Aww it's nothing to be embarrassed about. God we've all walked into the wrong toilet from time to time. At least no other girls were there! Don't worry you'll forget about this soon, i have.
i dont think it is i use the guys all the time when we are out and the girls is busy no biggy in my eyes
not really
cause girls will just change in the stalls
and if they change out in the open for other people too see, they probably won't care if a guy see's either.
it happens all the time, its a mistake.
no big deal
Don't worry...
Ok so here's the story,
I'm at summer school taking a class for geometry because I've had a hard time with math and want to get ahead.
During class all of a sudden I really had to take a piss. I asked if I could get up and go to the bathroom but my teacher said I had to wait 5 or so mins because somebody was already using it.
SO, as you could imagine when I was finally able to go I had to go REALLY BAD right?
So I bust out the class and go into the nearest restroom.
But then I think...hey...why aren't there any urinals in here?
OH SH*T!!
I accidently went into the girls bathroom!
(thankfully nobody was in there)
I feel so embarrassed.
What if there was a girl changing in there? I could have been called a perv or gotten sued for sexual harrasment or something.
Something's telling me that it's really not a big deal but I keep feeling bad about it.
Is it really that big of a deal?Girls, Women, need advice. I'm so embarrassed...?
its not a big deal at all.you are way over reactingGirls, Women, need advice. I'm so embarrassed...?
This is not a big deal , and you would not get sued for sexual harrassment, do'n't worry, If you have to go, you just go. Like you said there was noone in there. If there had been, I am sure you would have turned around, apolgized and left with a somewhat red face, and relieved bladder.
I am a mother of two and I have gone into the men's restroom before. I was eating at a local all you can eat buffet on a busy Saturday lunchtime. Well, I allways like to use the bathroom before I eat, and usually afterwards, so I am comfortable. The mens and womens bathrooms are opposite eachother. and I didn't look closely at the signs, and just walked into the bathroom, only to suddenly hear male voices and realize I was in the Men's bathroom. They were standing at urinals and talking. Lucklily they didn't see me and I certainly didn't say anything.
I felt a tinge embarrased, but mostly just chuckled to myself. I told my husband what happened when I returned to our table. He just laughed and took it all in stride. Now I could have been sued, but of course I wasn't . In order to be sued, it would have to be a case of intent, and I would have had to be charged with something by one of the customers, and of course no one is going to say anything.It happened so fast, nothing could happen. Just forget about it, and remember, we all make mistakes and it is just one of those stories that you can share with others, and it will just as qucikly be forgotten about as quickly as it happened.
Is your math any better? Math was my poorest subject, and even in College I had a hard time with it. Good luck!
no body was in there ok, but why did you wait until then, henceforth see that you dont wait till you are tight, women can hold to some extent but men shoulnt or they cant,
but, it should not have happened the way it has happened.
you should be sorry for what you have done.
I hope that your screen name was created with the band Prodigy in mind. If so - kudos.
And no, it's not bad. Yes, you could have gotten in trouble. I've gone to the restroom in a boys bathroom a few times when the girls was unavailable. It's whatevers to me.
not really, a bathroom is a bathroom.
dont spaz over it!
relax completely its nothing if you have to go you have to go it doesnt matter what anyone says relax there are bigger issues in life
No its not..its ok and fine my friend once pissed on wash tub at hotel cos the latrine was occupied...no worries! u were not able to stop it so you did! and you didint go purposely go inside to see any of you classmates pissing...don worry kiddo!
over
reaction
Wow...you need to not take things so seriously. Im a girl and I peed in a urinal once...long story but that was definetly more embarrasing that just entering a girls bathroom.
No don't worry.. u didn't run into a girl.. u should stop thinking about what could of happened then what really did
Aww it's nothing to be embarrassed about. God we've all walked into the wrong toilet from time to time. At least no other girls were there! Don't worry you'll forget about this soon, i have.
i dont think it is i use the guys all the time when we are out and the girls is busy no biggy in my eyes
not really
cause girls will just change in the stalls
and if they change out in the open for other people too see, they probably won't care if a guy see's either.
it happens all the time, its a mistake.
no big deal
Don't worry...
I a right mong and need some advice from women?
Can you tell me what 5 things i need to get a women. and don't be clever and tell me a new hat. I have one on order it will be here next week.I a right mong and need some advice from women?
a personality
sense of humour
hygene
money
mannersI a right mong and need some advice from women?
vitamin A,vitamin B,vitamin C, vitamin D and vitamin M (money)
first the fact that you call yourself gay bear is a little troubling....
but a women wants sence of humor, good guy, loving, caring, supportive, must be good to her friends and family (even if she does not like them much) attentive and above all a gr8 kisser, you can tell alot from a kiss..... good luck.
to be funny
to have some money (just to pay for the odd night out)
lovely eyes
a great smile
to dress reasonably good inc a good hat :D
no such thing as 5 things, just be yourself and honest and then when the right girl comes along she will love you for you and then it will work between you both and you will be happy
regards x kitti x
sence of humor
honesty
be trustworthy
be able to listen
and be able to pay for the odd night out together
1. good sense of humor
2. good personal hygiene
3. nice car
4. good dress sense
5. the most impotant thing is that you can be trusted
1- Be clean and smell nice
2- Smile- If they smile back it's a good sign
3- Be generous women can't stand tight men
4- Dress to impress make sure your clothes match and fit
properly women like men who look smart!
5- As long as you have a good personality then be yourself
women can't stand it when they can tell men are putting on
an act!
Good luck xx
alll women love,
1. a cute box of chocolates
2.along wit a bunch of her fav flowers
3..if u can afford 1, a diamond ring
4.a cute 'T' or shoes(please take her wit u 4 this)
5.but the most important of all is love trust n understanding(they all go hand in hand)
well I'm still not sure of the hat but I'll try the rest of it; Find out where the bar's are in your area and go, Smile and chat to anyone you fancy - keep it light and see what the reaction is, Check out the singles section in your local newspaper, Be your own sweet self. Good luck - and i have to say I wouldn't fancy the hat bit.
1. love
2. honesty
3. a nice expencive ring
4. some new beautiful and expensive outfits
5. a holiday
:)
1-love
2-loyalty
3-honesty
4-compassion
5-sense of humorcheap cosmetics
a personality
sense of humour
hygene
money
mannersI a right mong and need some advice from women?
vitamin A,vitamin B,vitamin C, vitamin D and vitamin M (money)
first the fact that you call yourself gay bear is a little troubling....
but a women wants sence of humor, good guy, loving, caring, supportive, must be good to her friends and family (even if she does not like them much) attentive and above all a gr8 kisser, you can tell alot from a kiss..... good luck.
to be funny
to have some money (just to pay for the odd night out)
lovely eyes
a great smile
to dress reasonably good inc a good hat :D
no such thing as 5 things, just be yourself and honest and then when the right girl comes along she will love you for you and then it will work between you both and you will be happy
regards x kitti x
sence of humor
honesty
be trustworthy
be able to listen
and be able to pay for the odd night out together
1. good sense of humor
2. good personal hygiene
3. nice car
4. good dress sense
5. the most impotant thing is that you can be trusted
1- Be clean and smell nice
2- Smile- If they smile back it's a good sign
3- Be generous women can't stand tight men
4- Dress to impress make sure your clothes match and fit
properly women like men who look smart!
5- As long as you have a good personality then be yourself
women can't stand it when they can tell men are putting on
an act!
Good luck xx
alll women love,
1. a cute box of chocolates
2.along wit a bunch of her fav flowers
3..if u can afford 1, a diamond ring
4.a cute 'T' or shoes(please take her wit u 4 this)
5.but the most important of all is love trust n understanding(they all go hand in hand)
well I'm still not sure of the hat but I'll try the rest of it; Find out where the bar's are in your area and go, Smile and chat to anyone you fancy - keep it light and see what the reaction is, Check out the singles section in your local newspaper, Be your own sweet self. Good luck - and i have to say I wouldn't fancy the hat bit.
1. love
2. honesty
3. a nice expencive ring
4. some new beautiful and expensive outfits
5. a holiday
:)
1-love
2-loyalty
3-honesty
4-compassion
5-sense of humor
Christain Women need advice?
Im trying to help my daughther with the dating process she is 28 what do you think would be a great age range for her to date . Do you think a guy 28 or 39 is to old for her ?Christain Women need advice?
It's Christian, btw. I would think her options unlimited at her age. 21-40.Christain Women need advice?
I think it's sweet that you want to help your daughter, but at 28 she probably already knows what's up when it comes to dating.
Just be there for her when she needs it, and share your own experiences without being judgemental of hers.
Whatever age he is, hopefully she will choose well.
I don't necessarily think that age should be a major factor. If he is a good Christian man who will love her and treat her well, it really shouldn't matter. Older men don't need to take time to ';find themselves'; and explore their options, because they've already had time to do that. They tend to be more settled (not always, but many times), but it should depend on the individual man instead of being too focused on their age.
At 28, she is a grown woman. Let her decide for herself whom she wants to date. As long as the fellow is a legal adult, whose business is it? There's more to picking out a date than just age, you know.
Why are you trying to get your daughter to date as it is between her and God He will lead her on the path she will walk your job as mother is to support and love....age is not important
25 to 35 would be a reasonable range. Older or younger is okay if the guy is really great.
She is 28.
Its too late.
Go in search of a man immediately.
It's Christian, btw. I would think her options unlimited at her age. 21-40.Christain Women need advice?
I think it's sweet that you want to help your daughter, but at 28 she probably already knows what's up when it comes to dating.
Just be there for her when she needs it, and share your own experiences without being judgemental of hers.
Whatever age he is, hopefully she will choose well.
I don't necessarily think that age should be a major factor. If he is a good Christian man who will love her and treat her well, it really shouldn't matter. Older men don't need to take time to ';find themselves'; and explore their options, because they've already had time to do that. They tend to be more settled (not always, but many times), but it should depend on the individual man instead of being too focused on their age.
At 28, she is a grown woman. Let her decide for herself whom she wants to date. As long as the fellow is a legal adult, whose business is it? There's more to picking out a date than just age, you know.
Why are you trying to get your daughter to date as it is between her and God He will lead her on the path she will walk your job as mother is to support and love....age is not important
25 to 35 would be a reasonable range. Older or younger is okay if the guy is really great.
She is 28.
Its too late.
Go in search of a man immediately.
Non-muslim women asking for advice from muslimahs?
i am a non-muslim women very interested in islam and look for a positive advice from muslimahs (please nothing but positive comments) thank youNon-muslim women asking for advice from muslimahs?
Sure, what would you like to know?
@Fireball - Allah runs my life not men....Shows how much you know about Islam. Thanks for your ''oh so helpful input''...
I believe the questioner asked for Muslim woman to advise her, are you a Muslim woman? Then please respectfully shut up about things you have zero knowledge of....ok? Thanks...
[3:195] Their Lord responded to them: ';I never fail to reward any worker among you for any work you do, be you male or female - you are equal to one another.
[4:124] As for those who lead a righteous life, male or female, while believing, they enter Paradise; without the slightest injustice.
To the questioner - You could ask your question again in the Ramadan section its under holidays. I am sure you will get much more responses from other Muslims there. Also feel free to email me so you don't have to put up with these imbeciles spouting there hate and lies...
Scottish Muslim woman...
@Lavy - Thanks for that, well said. Someone talking sense around here for once :) That's new.....But very much appreciated.Non-muslim women asking for advice from muslimahs?
I am not a muslim woman but I have many muslim friends that are women and it bothers me that people are answering to your question saying that women are considered inferior to men in Islam. It's not true at all! Those people don't know what they're talking about.
Of course, my dear, we will give you any advise you like.
The best is to ask questions in Ramadhan category where most Muslim women are there.
Go to Society n Culture, then Holidays, then Ramadhan.
May God always guide all of us to the straight path always.
hi i am a muslim male and i have 2 advices for you
1- check this link
http://www.islamswomen.com/
2-always ask your question in ramadan section (R%26amp;S%26gt;holidays%26gt;ramadan0
Take note that they regard women as inferior creatures
If you are looking for advice you have to take the negative comments with the positive.
i would not recommend it i like being an equal to a man not property.
I wouldnt recommend it....do you want men running your life??
Sure, what would you like to know?
@Fireball - Allah runs my life not men....Shows how much you know about Islam. Thanks for your ''oh so helpful input''...
I believe the questioner asked for Muslim woman to advise her, are you a Muslim woman? Then please respectfully shut up about things you have zero knowledge of....ok? Thanks...
[3:195] Their Lord responded to them: ';I never fail to reward any worker among you for any work you do, be you male or female - you are equal to one another.
[4:124] As for those who lead a righteous life, male or female, while believing, they enter Paradise; without the slightest injustice.
To the questioner - You could ask your question again in the Ramadan section its under holidays. I am sure you will get much more responses from other Muslims there. Also feel free to email me so you don't have to put up with these imbeciles spouting there hate and lies...
Scottish Muslim woman...
@Lavy - Thanks for that, well said. Someone talking sense around here for once :) That's new.....But very much appreciated.Non-muslim women asking for advice from muslimahs?
I am not a muslim woman but I have many muslim friends that are women and it bothers me that people are answering to your question saying that women are considered inferior to men in Islam. It's not true at all! Those people don't know what they're talking about.
Of course, my dear, we will give you any advise you like.
The best is to ask questions in Ramadhan category where most Muslim women are there.
Go to Society n Culture, then Holidays, then Ramadhan.
May God always guide all of us to the straight path always.
hi i am a muslim male and i have 2 advices for you
1- check this link
http://www.islamswomen.com/
2-always ask your question in ramadan section (R%26amp;S%26gt;holidays%26gt;ramadan0
Take note that they regard women as inferior creatures
If you are looking for advice you have to take the negative comments with the positive.
i would not recommend it i like being an equal to a man not property.
I wouldnt recommend it....do you want men running your life??
I need a women's advice
My son was born on Nov. 2, 2007. My wife has been bleeding '; down there'; ever since. The doctors have given her differant hormones to stop the bleeding and, of course, they don't know what's causing it. Has anyone expirianced this or known someone who has?I need a women's advice
Has she been checked for condition called endrometois, I';m sure I miss spelled but it causes constant bleeding. My sister had it many year ago., but knew it befor baby came. Her iron should be monitored for this also. Sometimes you have to change doctor to get right help. If on insurance call them explain concern and ask about how do this.I need a women's advice
I think that you need to go see a different doctor and never go back to the one who is obviously not doing what is best for your wife.
This happened to my mother after she had me and she ended up having to have a hysterectomy.
Please tell you wife that she needs to make her health a top priority though, if she is not healthy then she will not be able to take care of your child properly!
I haven't heard of that before and it is odd the drs don't know what to do but if bleeding is only problem I wouldn't worry unless it is making her weak. I had to have a hysterectomy due to bleeding and pain and adenomyosis %26lt;endometriosis after childbirth%26gt;
She has been bleeding way to long.I would get a second opinion.That is not normal at all.
She needs to get a different doctor.
i know a person will advice u just add her to ur massenger list and ask her ur question her email is tarek_yasmine@yahoo.com best wishes;jessica.
Has she been checked for condition called endrometois, I';m sure I miss spelled but it causes constant bleeding. My sister had it many year ago., but knew it befor baby came. Her iron should be monitored for this also. Sometimes you have to change doctor to get right help. If on insurance call them explain concern and ask about how do this.I need a women's advice
I think that you need to go see a different doctor and never go back to the one who is obviously not doing what is best for your wife.
This happened to my mother after she had me and she ended up having to have a hysterectomy.
Please tell you wife that she needs to make her health a top priority though, if she is not healthy then she will not be able to take care of your child properly!
I haven't heard of that before and it is odd the drs don't know what to do but if bleeding is only problem I wouldn't worry unless it is making her weak. I had to have a hysterectomy due to bleeding and pain and adenomyosis %26lt;endometriosis after childbirth%26gt;
She has been bleeding way to long.I would get a second opinion.That is not normal at all.
She needs to get a different doctor.
i know a person will advice u just add her to ur massenger list and ask her ur question her email is tarek_yasmine@yahoo.com best wishes;jessica.
Men- If you had to give a woman advice on what to look for in a husband?
what would you recommend?
It can be any characteristic, social attribute, physical attribute-- anything you can think of. List in order of importance.Men- If you had to give a woman advice on what to look for in a husband?
sanity
humor
compassion
health
patienceMen- If you had to give a woman advice on what to look for in a husband?
Look always behind the appearance and look for the heart.
Don't get caught up in a game of vanity or excitement ever.
Look for someone who is humble, someone who still loves his parents and family, someone who is a hard worker, who knows the value and love of hard work, not someone who is a player or some kind of gambler with your heart.
Look for someone who you think likes you back. They care about you and not what you have. They are nice to you and so on.. blah blah
um looks dont mean anything.
I'm not helping. Make sure that they aren't trying to impress you by beeing somebody else. Odds are they are bound to do something like that again in another way. Insecurity...
GOOD LUCK!!!
you have to love questions like this one, it's so terribly difficult to answer a question about what one would recommend for you, not knowing you.
Character is based on your perception, so lets start with what you think is important
1 someone that makes you laugh 2 must respect you never go to bed too soon remember a slapper is for fun a wife is somone to care and share that makes a lifelong relationship
Someone who cherishes your feelings.
A happy individual.
Made of money.
Physical attributes dunt matter.
A person who can support your views on the world.
A person who loves you no matter what.
honesty and compromise.
Respect for ALL other people especially those he could be rude to with no consequence.
One who does what he says he will do.
One who doesn't have to spend money to feel good about himself.
Patience
Funny
Good Communicator
Family Orientated
Outgoing
Clean
Spiritual
Unconditional Lover
Stability,
Charitable,
Wants to spend time with you.
Honesty
Righteousness
Thoughtfulness
Handiness
Kind hearted
You should be asking women who have been cheated on - what to look out for.
Marry a man who loves you more than you love him
It can be any characteristic, social attribute, physical attribute-- anything you can think of. List in order of importance.Men- If you had to give a woman advice on what to look for in a husband?
sanity
humor
compassion
health
patienceMen- If you had to give a woman advice on what to look for in a husband?
Look always behind the appearance and look for the heart.
Don't get caught up in a game of vanity or excitement ever.
Look for someone who is humble, someone who still loves his parents and family, someone who is a hard worker, who knows the value and love of hard work, not someone who is a player or some kind of gambler with your heart.
Look for someone who you think likes you back. They care about you and not what you have. They are nice to you and so on.. blah blah
um looks dont mean anything.
I'm not helping. Make sure that they aren't trying to impress you by beeing somebody else. Odds are they are bound to do something like that again in another way. Insecurity...
GOOD LUCK!!!
you have to love questions like this one, it's so terribly difficult to answer a question about what one would recommend for you, not knowing you.
Character is based on your perception, so lets start with what you think is important
1 someone that makes you laugh 2 must respect you never go to bed too soon remember a slapper is for fun a wife is somone to care and share that makes a lifelong relationship
Someone who cherishes your feelings.
A happy individual.
Made of money.
Physical attributes dunt matter.
A person who can support your views on the world.
A person who loves you no matter what.
honesty and compromise.
Respect for ALL other people especially those he could be rude to with no consequence.
One who does what he says he will do.
One who doesn't have to spend money to feel good about himself.
Patience
Funny
Good Communicator
Family Orientated
Outgoing
Clean
Spiritual
Unconditional Lover
Stability,
Charitable,
Wants to spend time with you.
Honesty
Righteousness
Thoughtfulness
Handiness
Kind hearted
You should be asking women who have been cheated on - what to look out for.
Marry a man who loves you more than you love him
Serious question for any women that could be kind enough to give me some advice?
I'm considering getting circumcised but its akward for me to ask anyone i've been with about it. Can u feel the difference? What would you tell a boyfriend if he was considering getting it done? Does it even make any difference for the woman?Serious question for any women that could be kind enough to give me some advice?
You should need to listen to Dr. Dean Edell on the radio - he would tell you that you should not get circumcised. A woman cannot feel the difference, some just don't like the way an uncircumcised man looks. If a woman is that worried about looks though, is she really worth being with. I would definitely not want my boyfriend to go through unnecessary surgery!
The stuff about cleanliness is bull! If it were true, women would need to get their clits circumcised too to keep things cleaner. Also, men in Europe do not get circumcised and they don't have a high number of problems supposedly attributed to not being circumcised. I used to work in a hospital daycare and it was interesting to me that of all the doctor's and nurses sons I cared for, only the boy who was Jewish was circumcised. That should tell you something right there!Serious question for any women that could be kind enough to give me some advice?
It is better for you to be circumcised because it is a lot cleaner. Because of the excess skin or the prepuce, smegma (or the dirt which one you call it) is accumulated or not removed. And i've read from a medical textbook and this is no joke (but not to scare you) that an uncircumcised one has a increased chance of cancer of the penis. if it is not against your religion, just an advice it is better if you have yourself circumcised.
Most women do not feel the difference. Nevertheless, many of us have a visual preference.
You really should follow through and get the circumcision. A woman cannot tell the difference, no. But from a cleanliness aspect, it is necessary. Most men do not regularly pull back the foreskin and clean themselves. So, there is a build up of all kinds of debris - semen, urine, etc., etc. It has been medically proven the some vaginal infections, and maybe even some kinds of cancer are caused by the stuff that builds up inside the foreskin of an uncircumcised penis. So, for yourself and for your partner - have the surgery.
a circumcised penis is more healthy ,less bacteria and the look of it uncircumcised is unattractive
CIRCUMCISED IS DEFINETELY BETTER.
CIRCUMCISION IS PAINLESS, EASY AND VIRTUALLY NO-RISK
Most women prefer a man with a circumcised penis because it may move inside them in a less friction-based manner. Once he is inside the vagina, the unhooded penis may easily slide up and down to create pleasure for both partners.
There are several advantages for circumcised men when it comes to sexuality. First is that circumcised male have no need to worry about daily cleansing of his foreskin. Meanwhile, men with an intact foreskin must take special care to move it up and down and clean it inside its covered areas to avoid odors or serious infection because of material buildup. Consequently, there might be some bacteria and germs that could surface thus affect their sexual health.
Safe sex is an added concern for uncircumcised men and their partners. Men with foreskins occasionally have difficulty finding the right condom or keeping one on during penetrative sexual activity. That spells trouble in bed as well as generates unneeded anxiety.
As for the sensitivity of the penis, no medical or physiological study has proved that circumcision reduces sensitivity, opposed to common belief. It is completely FALSE that circumcision reduces penis sensitivity. The American Academy of Paediatrics (AAP) confirms this on their web site; have a look at: http://www.aap.org/pubed/zzzjzmemh4c.htm
Several studies carried out by prestigious research bodies have concluded that uncircumcised penises are more prone to infections and contraction of STD's, including AIDS-HIV. Circumcised men have been proved to be up to seven times less likely to be infected than those who are uncircumcised. Have a look at this site: http://icuxbridge.icnetwork.co.uk/news/t鈥?/a>
As for women, studies also show that circumcision also protects female partners from AIDS-HIV and other STD's. Browse this article: http://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/Press_rel鈥?/a>
Circumcision is an easy and nowadays painless procedure, which has many benefits, and virtually no risks.
Circumcision is NOT an amputation. Circumcision is NOT comparable at all to female circumcision, which is something completely different.
Circumcision rates are INCREASING nowadays, both in the United States and overseas. Many African and South American countries with little circumcision tradition are starting to promote the procedure to help to reduce the AIDS-HIV infection rates.
I think it is better for men to be uncircumcised. Lots of reasons for this I would prefer not to elaborate. Unless you have a medical problem best to leave it alone.
for me it looks cleaner., but the decison is up to you. you are the one who will have to live thru the healing process.
I've been with both circumcsied and uncircumcised men. My husband is cut but I would have married him if he had been intact. If you're sleeping with someone, you should love them. If you love them, it shouldn't matter if they are cut or uncircumcised.
Could I feel a difference? Not exactly in the way you're probably meaning it. It didn't seem to be a difference in size. But with an uncircumcised man, sex is more gently because the guy doesn't have to thrust so hard. If you get circumcised, your glans will get less sensitive and you'll have to thrust harder. For me,the thrusting hurt. Plus, with uncirced men, there was never a need for lubricant!
Personally, I don't think you should ever have surgery for something like that. There are always risks associated with a surgical procedure like circumcision (that is also true for when they do it to infants). Seriously, you could die, get an infection, have a lot of pain, and all for what? To change the shape of your penis? No way! Stay the way you are, the way mother nature intended you to be.
Oh, and I've had oral sex w/ both cut %26amp; uncut men - same thing, no difference. Uncut men aren't unclean. Seriously, no woman wants to go down on ANY man who hasn't bathed - cut or not! Shower everyday and you'll be fine.
Peace, and may the foreskin be with you!
i wouldn't do it unless it bothers you. ultimately you are the one who has to live with it. as a woman, i prefer it when guys are uncircumcised, otherwise i am always afraid of hurting them
I have been with both circumcised and uncircumcised. Vaginally I could not feel the difference at all.
Oral sex was the main issue. Should you decide not to circumcise yourself, I'd kiss the thought of getting a good BJ away forever.
That's just my personal real opinion though.
You should need to listen to Dr. Dean Edell on the radio - he would tell you that you should not get circumcised. A woman cannot feel the difference, some just don't like the way an uncircumcised man looks. If a woman is that worried about looks though, is she really worth being with. I would definitely not want my boyfriend to go through unnecessary surgery!
The stuff about cleanliness is bull! If it were true, women would need to get their clits circumcised too to keep things cleaner. Also, men in Europe do not get circumcised and they don't have a high number of problems supposedly attributed to not being circumcised. I used to work in a hospital daycare and it was interesting to me that of all the doctor's and nurses sons I cared for, only the boy who was Jewish was circumcised. That should tell you something right there!Serious question for any women that could be kind enough to give me some advice?
It is better for you to be circumcised because it is a lot cleaner. Because of the excess skin or the prepuce, smegma (or the dirt which one you call it) is accumulated or not removed. And i've read from a medical textbook and this is no joke (but not to scare you) that an uncircumcised one has a increased chance of cancer of the penis. if it is not against your religion, just an advice it is better if you have yourself circumcised.
Most women do not feel the difference. Nevertheless, many of us have a visual preference.
You really should follow through and get the circumcision. A woman cannot tell the difference, no. But from a cleanliness aspect, it is necessary. Most men do not regularly pull back the foreskin and clean themselves. So, there is a build up of all kinds of debris - semen, urine, etc., etc. It has been medically proven the some vaginal infections, and maybe even some kinds of cancer are caused by the stuff that builds up inside the foreskin of an uncircumcised penis. So, for yourself and for your partner - have the surgery.
a circumcised penis is more healthy ,less bacteria and the look of it uncircumcised is unattractive
CIRCUMCISED IS DEFINETELY BETTER.
CIRCUMCISION IS PAINLESS, EASY AND VIRTUALLY NO-RISK
Most women prefer a man with a circumcised penis because it may move inside them in a less friction-based manner. Once he is inside the vagina, the unhooded penis may easily slide up and down to create pleasure for both partners.
There are several advantages for circumcised men when it comes to sexuality. First is that circumcised male have no need to worry about daily cleansing of his foreskin. Meanwhile, men with an intact foreskin must take special care to move it up and down and clean it inside its covered areas to avoid odors or serious infection because of material buildup. Consequently, there might be some bacteria and germs that could surface thus affect their sexual health.
Safe sex is an added concern for uncircumcised men and their partners. Men with foreskins occasionally have difficulty finding the right condom or keeping one on during penetrative sexual activity. That spells trouble in bed as well as generates unneeded anxiety.
As for the sensitivity of the penis, no medical or physiological study has proved that circumcision reduces sensitivity, opposed to common belief. It is completely FALSE that circumcision reduces penis sensitivity. The American Academy of Paediatrics (AAP) confirms this on their web site; have a look at: http://www.aap.org/pubed/zzzjzmemh4c.htm
Several studies carried out by prestigious research bodies have concluded that uncircumcised penises are more prone to infections and contraction of STD's, including AIDS-HIV. Circumcised men have been proved to be up to seven times less likely to be infected than those who are uncircumcised. Have a look at this site: http://icuxbridge.icnetwork.co.uk/news/t鈥?/a>
As for women, studies also show that circumcision also protects female partners from AIDS-HIV and other STD's. Browse this article: http://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/Press_rel鈥?/a>
Circumcision is an easy and nowadays painless procedure, which has many benefits, and virtually no risks.
Circumcision is NOT an amputation. Circumcision is NOT comparable at all to female circumcision, which is something completely different.
Circumcision rates are INCREASING nowadays, both in the United States and overseas. Many African and South American countries with little circumcision tradition are starting to promote the procedure to help to reduce the AIDS-HIV infection rates.
I think it is better for men to be uncircumcised. Lots of reasons for this I would prefer not to elaborate. Unless you have a medical problem best to leave it alone.
for me it looks cleaner., but the decison is up to you. you are the one who will have to live thru the healing process.
I've been with both circumcsied and uncircumcised men. My husband is cut but I would have married him if he had been intact. If you're sleeping with someone, you should love them. If you love them, it shouldn't matter if they are cut or uncircumcised.
Could I feel a difference? Not exactly in the way you're probably meaning it. It didn't seem to be a difference in size. But with an uncircumcised man, sex is more gently because the guy doesn't have to thrust so hard. If you get circumcised, your glans will get less sensitive and you'll have to thrust harder. For me,the thrusting hurt. Plus, with uncirced men, there was never a need for lubricant!
Personally, I don't think you should ever have surgery for something like that. There are always risks associated with a surgical procedure like circumcision (that is also true for when they do it to infants). Seriously, you could die, get an infection, have a lot of pain, and all for what? To change the shape of your penis? No way! Stay the way you are, the way mother nature intended you to be.
Oh, and I've had oral sex w/ both cut %26amp; uncut men - same thing, no difference. Uncut men aren't unclean. Seriously, no woman wants to go down on ANY man who hasn't bathed - cut or not! Shower everyday and you'll be fine.
Peace, and may the foreskin be with you!
i wouldn't do it unless it bothers you. ultimately you are the one who has to live with it. as a woman, i prefer it when guys are uncircumcised, otherwise i am always afraid of hurting them
I have been with both circumcised and uncircumcised. Vaginally I could not feel the difference at all.
Oral sex was the main issue. Should you decide not to circumcise yourself, I'd kiss the thought of getting a good BJ away forever.
That's just my personal real opinion though.
Im 13weeks pregnant and dont have a belly at all, ive read that women usualy get them around 13wks. any advice
im naturally slim, but am worried as i dont seem to have a bump at all. i have my first scan on friday and am worried, is it just nerves? wot do you think??Im 13weeks pregnant and dont have a belly at all, ive read that women usualy get them around 13wks. any advice
I'm sure you and your baby are fine. Many women don't start to show until a lot later on, especially in a first pregnancyIm 13weeks pregnant and dont have a belly at all, ive read that women usualy get them around 13wks. any advice
When I was pregnant with my 1st I couldn't wait to start showing either lol. Now I'm on my 3rd pregnancy, and my advice for you would be to ENJOY being slim while you can! Once your tummy gets big, it gets very uncomfortable and hard to move around very well. I can't bend over to pick stuff up without bending all the way down with my knees, it's hard to shave my legs, sex is much more uncomfortable, rolling out of bed is a chore... The list goes on and on lol. You'll start showing soon enough ;) Congrats on the pregnancy and best of luck to you!!!
I had the same thing happen to me too. I am naturally slim as well and I didn't start really showing until about 20 weeks or so. (Thats when people starting noticing.) Don't worry. Its a good thing that you have a scan on friday, because then they can reasure you, and let you know what they think. Good Luck with your pregnancy :)
Every women is different, if this is your first it could be 16 to 20 weeks before you notice a baby bump it could be even longer. Try not to compare yourself to other pregnant women, you'll only manage to drive yourself crazy. Relax I'm sure everything is fine.
you're fine. seriously. I have a friend who is VERY slim.. and is three weeks ahead of me at 19 weeks, and barely has a tummy yet. It just depends on teh person. I am 16 weeks and showing.. but it's the way we are all shaped.
And it is normal to feel worried or concerned about baby. wondering if everything is okay in there. Everyone does.
i didnt get mine until around 20 weeks, and some dont get them til thier 25 weeks, because ur so small u probably will get it around 20, good luck, dont go by statistics, i dont kno how they gets those statistics but theres something rong with them,,, go to babytobe.com they have ALOT of information and sign up for thier week by week pregnancy thingy, they send u a e-mail every week about ur babys development and everything its so freakin awesome, congratz and good luk
Most women don't show until their 5 months pregnant, so it's normal not to show until then, and not huge bump either, but a little bit, then the last few months is when everything gets larger. I was 6 months when I started to really show.
Don't stress about not having a belly. I didn't really start to show until about 20 weeks. The baby is really small at 13 weeks, don't worry you will get a belly soon enough.
I didn't start to see any baby bump until I was almost 6 months and I'm pretty small framed myself but my dr. didn't seem concerned at all.
You got a wrong info. Most women are showing only after 5-6mths. Most women dont look pregnant at your stage,still early.
It's just nerves. I didn't show till my 7th month with my first. By 7 mts I had only gained 2 lbs.
i wouldn't worry about it too much...
but you should talk to your doctor...
good luck!
yup just nerves, i am 20 weeks and only have a tiny bump now xcheap cosmetics
I'm sure you and your baby are fine. Many women don't start to show until a lot later on, especially in a first pregnancyIm 13weeks pregnant and dont have a belly at all, ive read that women usualy get them around 13wks. any advice
When I was pregnant with my 1st I couldn't wait to start showing either lol. Now I'm on my 3rd pregnancy, and my advice for you would be to ENJOY being slim while you can! Once your tummy gets big, it gets very uncomfortable and hard to move around very well. I can't bend over to pick stuff up without bending all the way down with my knees, it's hard to shave my legs, sex is much more uncomfortable, rolling out of bed is a chore... The list goes on and on lol. You'll start showing soon enough ;) Congrats on the pregnancy and best of luck to you!!!
I had the same thing happen to me too. I am naturally slim as well and I didn't start really showing until about 20 weeks or so. (Thats when people starting noticing.) Don't worry. Its a good thing that you have a scan on friday, because then they can reasure you, and let you know what they think. Good Luck with your pregnancy :)
Every women is different, if this is your first it could be 16 to 20 weeks before you notice a baby bump it could be even longer. Try not to compare yourself to other pregnant women, you'll only manage to drive yourself crazy. Relax I'm sure everything is fine.
you're fine. seriously. I have a friend who is VERY slim.. and is three weeks ahead of me at 19 weeks, and barely has a tummy yet. It just depends on teh person. I am 16 weeks and showing.. but it's the way we are all shaped.
And it is normal to feel worried or concerned about baby. wondering if everything is okay in there. Everyone does.
i didnt get mine until around 20 weeks, and some dont get them til thier 25 weeks, because ur so small u probably will get it around 20, good luck, dont go by statistics, i dont kno how they gets those statistics but theres something rong with them,,, go to babytobe.com they have ALOT of information and sign up for thier week by week pregnancy thingy, they send u a e-mail every week about ur babys development and everything its so freakin awesome, congratz and good luk
Most women don't show until their 5 months pregnant, so it's normal not to show until then, and not huge bump either, but a little bit, then the last few months is when everything gets larger. I was 6 months when I started to really show.
Don't stress about not having a belly. I didn't really start to show until about 20 weeks. The baby is really small at 13 weeks, don't worry you will get a belly soon enough.
I didn't start to see any baby bump until I was almost 6 months and I'm pretty small framed myself but my dr. didn't seem concerned at all.
You got a wrong info. Most women are showing only after 5-6mths. Most women dont look pregnant at your stage,still early.
It's just nerves. I didn't show till my 7th month with my first. By 7 mts I had only gained 2 lbs.
i wouldn't worry about it too much...
but you should talk to your doctor...
good luck!
yup just nerves, i am 20 weeks and only have a tiny bump now x
Do you listen to older women's advice..?
like when they tell you ''stay away from chicks''? :PDo you listen to older women's advice..?
No :)Do you listen to older women's advice..?
Rich has the perfect answer. In life, it is important to keep an open mind and to listen to everyones opinions. Of course, you cannot follow every piece of advice you receive but it is a great learning experience to hear ones advice and opinions and the reasoning for them having it.
I have never received the advice ''stay away from chicks'', though.
stay away from chicks ??? no one told me that
but i dont then i find what they said was true :'(
No one has ever told me to Stay away form chicks so ... Hmm =]
I'm a sucker for well structured advice
I listen to any one's advice... Not that I always take it, but i do listen.
well they say older is wiser!!
No :)Do you listen to older women's advice..?
Rich has the perfect answer. In life, it is important to keep an open mind and to listen to everyones opinions. Of course, you cannot follow every piece of advice you receive but it is a great learning experience to hear ones advice and opinions and the reasoning for them having it.
I have never received the advice ''stay away from chicks'', though.
stay away from chicks ??? no one told me that
but i dont then i find what they said was true :'(
No one has ever told me to Stay away form chicks so ... Hmm =]
I'm a sucker for well structured advice
I listen to any one's advice... Not that I always take it, but i do listen.
well they say older is wiser!!
Do lifetime movies give advice to women?
Sure does :P
';My fair lady'; taught me so much about being a lady and that breaking out into song is sometimes not appropriate.
If you're getting all your advice from movies then I think you need to consider a friend ;PDo lifetime movies give advice to women?
I don't know, and neither do any of the other women I know. Women don't watch 'Lifetime: Television for Women'.
Actually, strike that, I watched ';Invisible Child'; once because it was hilarious. Rita Wilson convinces herself after a miscarriage that she actually DID carry her child to term, and she raises the nonexistent kid as if it were any other kid. She decides to hold conversations with it, push it on the swing, bathe it, and her family -- a husband and two REAL children -- play along because they fear that telling her the truth would cause her to snap. The best scene in the movie is when they're at an amusement park, and she flips her sh-t because the nonexistent kid ';ran off somewhere';.
A movie plot just doesn't get any more contrived than that. I'd recommend it to anyone.Do lifetime movies give advice to women?
Yes, on how to avoid the cheating evil murdering husband.
No, I do find the movies entertaining though.
Does Spike TV give advice to men?
'cuz I can name a few guys I'd like to see take some advice from 1000 Ways to Die
I don't know.
';My fair lady'; taught me so much about being a lady and that breaking out into song is sometimes not appropriate.
If you're getting all your advice from movies then I think you need to consider a friend ;PDo lifetime movies give advice to women?
I don't know, and neither do any of the other women I know. Women don't watch 'Lifetime: Television for Women'.
Actually, strike that, I watched ';Invisible Child'; once because it was hilarious. Rita Wilson convinces herself after a miscarriage that she actually DID carry her child to term, and she raises the nonexistent kid as if it were any other kid. She decides to hold conversations with it, push it on the swing, bathe it, and her family -- a husband and two REAL children -- play along because they fear that telling her the truth would cause her to snap. The best scene in the movie is when they're at an amusement park, and she flips her sh-t because the nonexistent kid ';ran off somewhere';.
A movie plot just doesn't get any more contrived than that. I'd recommend it to anyone.Do lifetime movies give advice to women?
Yes, on how to avoid the cheating evil murdering husband.
No, I do find the movies entertaining though.
Does Spike TV give advice to men?
'cuz I can name a few guys I'd like to see take some advice from 1000 Ways to Die
I don't know.
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