Saturday, July 31, 2010

Women: Any Advice You Can Offer Me? Thanks!?

I have never been a makeup wearer, but am now interested in experimenting with it a little more. However, I don't want to go overboard and wear too much. I just want to try little things that might make a difference, but not TOO much of a difference. lol I'm starting this kind of ';late in life'; than most who wear makeup, because i'm in my mid-20's. For those of you who are pros with makeup, what advice would you give for someone who is just starting to become interested in wearing it?Women: Any Advice You Can Offer Me? Thanks!?
One of my favorite cosmetic lines is by makeup artist Bobbi Brown. Her makeup is famous for producing the natural look...the kind where people think you look great -- not that your makeup looks great if you know what I mean.





You can start with tinted moisturizer to help even out your skin and some powder. Keeping your face from being shiny is half the battle.





Lipstick/lipgloss in a light natural shade gives you a little polish....but for more impact, use shades of bone/brown/gold/copper on your eyes -- just some eyeliner or a brush of light color plus some black mascara will open up your eyes. Just don't use lots of sparkle everywhere. Choose to focus on your mouth or your eyes....





Its fun to experiment. If you live near a big city, go to your local Sephora -- and the makeup artists there will help you try on a look....take a friend, have her take a picture of you. Over time, you'll get used to seeing your face with a little extra highlighting


You should also have your brows shaped professionally (can cost $15-20 depending on where you go.) This will open up your eyes and face and you'll be suprised at how much easier it is to put eyeshadow on a hairless brow can be!





One more thing: just because you look more polished with a little makeup -- don't think you can't go out without it. I've been wearing cosmetics since I was 15 and have experimented with lots of different styles. I don't make up every day, but I make sure to practice good skincare (moisturizer/sunscreen) and am happy to face the world without a trace of makeup.





Being comfortable in your skin is what makes you uniquely beautiful.Women: Any Advice You Can Offer Me? Thanks!?
it is very important at your age to start (if you aren't already) on a good skin care plan. you should be cleansing daily if not twice a day, exfoliating once a week, and moisturizing after every wash.


the basic makeup skills are gonna take practice, and to recommend colors i would have to see you, but everyone falls category of what looks best with their skin tone and eye color, and if you know which ';season'; you are then that will be very helpful to you.


i recomend going to a makeup counter and asking for a make-over... they should be able to walk you through and set you up with a great skin care program and products.


i LOVE mary-kay, and recomend it for everyone, plus there is a 100% satisfaction guarantee and a try before you buy consultation, so go to marykay.com and find a consultant who will come to your house and give you an awesome consultation. you won't regret this decision.


everyone can benefit from makeup.


good luck and have fun!
Try your basic light colors as well as shimmery.The best advice I can offer you is to not focus on the eyes, try some light blush and some eyeshadow, maybe a pale lipstick should give you the effects you a looking for. The best place in the world to find the perfect make-up is Sephora check out their website. They have a lot of different brands to choose from.
You can start with a natural blush in soft colours; light-natural (a little coloured then your lips) lip colour or gloss, and no-colour mascara. You can also use brown mascara (you can go directly black if you have dark hair). Using eyeliners with brushes are a little harder so you can start with a soft pencil (brown-light brown).
I would start with light make up and natural colors if i was you. not to much and not to light it will be just right.
To be honest, I would go to a make-up counter, like Clinique or Lancome. They can help you find a natural look. If you don't want to spend a lot of money on their products, you will at least know what products (foundation, eye shadow, etc) they used and you can buy them from somewhere else. The only thing I buy from a dept store is foundation...its hard to match them in store like WalMart or Target.
Start off with a natural look.


Always moisturize your skin before any makeup, especially with an spf of at least 15.


A tinted moisturizer will even out your skin tone without looking like you've put on foundation.


Apply a little blush to the apples of your cheeks while you're smiling.


If you want to use eyeshadow, I would suggest a very natural yet chic shimmery brown. Also highlight your brow bone with a gold shimmer or white shimmer. Also use the same shimmer in the corners of your eyes.


Use black masacra, no eyeliner.


A nude coral colored lipgloss would look natural and pretty. I like Revlon's Superlustrous Lipgloss in Nude Lustre.








Buy items depending on your skintone.


If you look better in corals, oranges, purples and gold jewelery, then your of a warmer skintone.


If you look better in pastel colors and silver jewelery, then your of a cooler skin tone.
Start with the basics: blush, mascara, and lip gloss. Good luck!
Less is more.


Mascara, blush, lip gloss.


Work your way into the foundation...maybe some tinted moisturizer to start. And EYEBROWS are the frame of your face. If you haven't plucked or shaped before, have a pro do it first. They see what you don't.
start with natural colors that almost blend in with ur skin and work ur way up
just buy the almay color for your eyes, let the rest of the face go natural. This way it gives the eyes a little sparkle but not going overboard.
you wouldn't want to put on too much so if you are darker skin girl u would put on darker make up of course but again not to much
Yay! Makeup is fun. It's one of those things you can change with your mood.





As for where to start, I'd say start with your face overall first. By that I mean a nice foundation, or a nice tinted moisturizer, depending on what you're trying to do....a tinted moisturizer will just kind of smooth everything over, whereas a foundation will give you just a little more coverage and even everything out (my personal preference - I feel like I'm starting with a ';blank slate.';)





For this, seriously, head over to the Clinque counter. They'll give you a skin consult, and help you not only find the right color, they'll help you find the right formula to match your skin type (oily, dry, comination, etc.) They can also direct you to some other colors in eye makeup (if you want eye makeup) as well as cheek color. Even if you don't buy it all there, it will give you a pretty good idea of what to look for.





The other thing I'd add would be a nice blush. You can't go wrong with a lovely pink. I actually just typed that into another answer, but it's true. Pink is universally flattering, makes you look warm and fresh and glow-y.





To top it off, some clear mascara - that will define your eyes without you feeling like you piled on a whole bunch of eye makeup.
Hi first of all just start with a foundation that matches your skin tone and get a shine free pressed powder and dot under the eyes with a concealer and on other blemished if there are any and massage in with your finger. Then make sure you buy a waterproof mascara you dont want no smudges or streaks, i would get a volumising one to make your eyes stand out more, Then apply a little pink lip gloss and your good to go. Treat yourself to some eye shadow have a look in the shops at what brands are on offer as everyone will be wearing these colours. If you like the colour then i say get it. At first you may think it looks to much as you dont normally wear make up but you will look fine.
Less is more! Wear a tinted moisturizer if you want to balance the skin tone instead of foundation. Wear a dab of blush (not the powder kind!) on the apple of your cheeks. If you want to experiment with eye shadow go ahead, but I always found that a coat of mascara and an eyelash curler give your eyes that pop without looking too overdone. For lips I'd stay with a clear or light colored gloss.


Also if you havent already, have your eyebrows shaped by a professional. It automatically gives you more of a completed look without the use of makeup at all.
Hi!


First, make sure you have cleaned and moisturized your face. For beginners I recommend using some mascara. (Don't go overboard) and then some lip gloss. Lip gloss can be a very good start in your make up regiment. experiment with colors and textures. From there on if you want to make more of an expression for going out and such try curling your eyelashes and then using 1-2 coats of mascara to the top lashes only. If you have blond eyelashes then use 1-2 coats of mascara on the bottom lashes. You want to use waterproof mascara to begin with. Also, remember to remove the mascara at night or it may stain your pillow, etc..


Lip Gloss is one of the easiest make up tool you can use to enhance your face and your mood. It goes on easy and most of the time you don't need to line your lips.


www.zebacosmetics.com
the less the better---most men i know do not like a lot of make up---a lot of make up makes you look whoring--and again a lot of make up will make u look entirely different when it is removed---u don't wish to scare the guy do u???

Is there something like www.askmen.com for women that gives advice?

ask men.com is great for guys.


there are more sites that help them get women and be the best they can be. i was wondering if there's something like that for women out there. Thanks!


i already know about cosmopolitan!Is there something like www.askmen.com for women that gives advice?
To the same extent that askmen.com operates, there is nothing for women. This is because women have a large library to choose from--such as cosmo which you mentioned.
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  • Do married women get much good advice about their relationship with their husband from their mom?

    My wife's mother died before I met my wife. At times I wonder if not having a mother to go to about marital conflicts makes it harder on my wife.Do married women get much good advice about their relationship with their husband from their mom?
    WELL I THINK IT DEPENDS ON THE MOM ANS WHAT KIND OF ADVICE SHE WOULD GIVE B/C WHEN MY MOM GIVES ME ADVICE SOME IS GOOD AND SOME IS BADDo married women get much good advice about their relationship with their husband from their mom?
    I'm sure it does, but honestly there are a lot of bad mother-in-laws out there. Sometimes, they cause a lot of relationship trouble by their words of wisdom. I hope she has someone else to talk to, though, because times do get hard when you're married. It was always nice to complain to my mom about my ex hubby, but all that did was make her not like him. So, just be there for your wife, and if it seems like she gets down or aggrevated or something, just be patient with her.
    My mom and dad's marriage was a constant battle over money and bills. My parents were married 53 years. My entire childhood I wished they would divorce, but dad didn't believe in it.





    I would never go to my mom for help in any relationship. I turned to my older sister once or twice, but most of the time I talked to friends my age.
    It depends on how old she was when her mother died, but in general women do get great advice from their mother's, if they are not troubled themselves. I would say, if she's missing her mother because she needs advice about marital problems, then she should ask her dad. Especially if her parents had a loving, happy relationship before her mother's death. Plus her dad can give her insight into how a man thinks, but still have his baby girl's heart in mind.
    Actually it makes it easier if one should have a medling mother. I don't talk to my mother about my marriage and didn't when I was married the first time. I like it that way.
    It all depends on what type of person her mum was. I would never ask mine for ANY advice. She has been married 3 times and all 3 were abusive relationships!
    Mothers try but mine has never helped in that department.
    it could but im sure she has plenty of friends that are married and she can talk to, see im married and i dont talk to my mother about this stuff cuz she never really liked my husband to begin with and if i were to say oh me and him had a fight i wud just hear i told u not to marry him and blah blah blah...in a way having a mom to talk to can be good but also bad.....im sure she has plenty of outlets and people to discuss this stuff with, maybe u can be supportive of her and really try to talk things out with her if u have an arguement, its sweet of u to be so concerned!
    Personally I find it hard to go to my mother in law. If I didn't have my own my I would just go to my friends or my sisters. It depends on how close she is with your mother and if she feels like she could talk to your mom without her telling you everything she says.
    XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX moms are great people to talk to but i rarely talk to my mom about my marriage. A girlfriend is a better choice. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
    I never go to my mom about marital conflicts, but I do ask my grandmother. It probably is hard for her not to have anyone to trun to when you two fight. But hopefully she has a good circle of freinds that she can trust.

    I recently found out my husband has an attraction to transgender women. I need help and advice. Is he gay?

    If anyone has been in this situation how did you deal? I don't want to get a divorce, but do I have to?I recently found out my husband has an attraction to transgender women. I need help and advice. Is he gay?
    Emily,


    To begin with is he interested in a transsexual woman or a transgender? There is a big difference there. A transsexual woman is and always has been female in nature. She is just as much female as any other woman.


    If it is a transgender then he is interested in men! Transgenders include, crossdressers, transvestites, shemales, transgenderists, drag queens/kings etc..


    No you do not have to get a divorce regardless. Just because he may show interest in them does not mean he has or ever will have any contact with any of us. As in any relationship one must work at it constantly and move forward until you know for sure where this will go. Do have a calm heart to heart with him and discuss your concerns.


    From a transsexual woman!I recently found out my husband has an attraction to transgender women. I need help and advice. Is he gay?
    I'm a transgender woman, and I know the type of guy who's into women like us so trust me: your husband isn't gay and probably isn't what most people would consider bi. Lots of straight men are attracted to transgender women; its common enough that you can find ads for TG porn in mainstream porn magazines and websites. Lots of guys are interested in stuff they see in porn that they know they'll never get in real life -like Pamela Anderson. Just because your husband likes TG porn doesn't mean that he'll eventually be unfaithful to you.





    So the particular porn your husband likes isn't an issue. What is an issue is how you found out about it and reacted. Were you snooping? If so, you need to talk to your husband about what you did, apologize, and promise not to snoop again. Even if you weren't snooping, you need to accept that your husband will keep on consuming porn just like almost all the other guys out there. If you can't do that, you will end up getting a divorce eventually.
    not necessarily. some women like feminine men and some men like a little husky women. if he is attracted to men then he is gay or bi. have a look at this ad posted on the internet - ';Im a white male 39 from Lehigh area,Im seriously looking for a husky woman who is over the age of 21 from Lehigh Acres area or from';.
    I'm not really sure how to answer that. It's possible that it's just a weird fetish... really weird fetish.





    I've never actually heard of this before, but I think that as his wife you would know if he were gay or not. The best thing I can do is just talk about it. Rip the bandage off. Do it quick and get it over with. Wait, that's my advice for coming out....





    Well, no reason it wouldn't work in this situation too I guess.





    Sorry I couldn't be more helpful...
    Im all for injecting a bit of kinkiness into relationships. what about you suggest to your husband that sometimes you dress up in a strap on? You wouldnt have to do it all the time. you might enjoy it. that way he gets a little of his fantasy and you keep him.

    What is some good dating advice for women.?

    I stumbled across this website - http://cherrypopper.ca/dating-advice-for-women/ and found some advice. Do you think it has some valid points?What is some good dating advice for women.?
    Dont make a 'game' out of it because that makes you a contestant. Once you do that its no longer about the other person but about how you play. Dont be afraid to approach guys in a respectable civilized manner. Women usually play too many head games and just confuse the h-ll out of most mature men who dont have to chase every bi-pedal creature running around. They confuse me at least. The single girls wont breath a word but the engaged/married girls have no problem being somewhat 'friendly' (if you want to call it that). Seriously though dont play the game. It will do you nothing but a quick few minutes of free entertainment and then its over with.





    I just read your link. Nothing on there is bad but it is grossly oversimplified. It may have been intentionally written that way also but its a good 'starting point'.What is some good dating advice for women.?
    ';play the game, dont get played'; - aunt flow

    Any obese women can advice here?

    My last period was end of Aug. Boyfriend came inside end of Sept. Will I get pregnant? I tried 3 home pregancy kit that showed negative. I'm feeling dizzy, vomitted every day. Little sharp pain in low tummy from time to time. What should I do? Must do a blood test to confirm? I'm an obese women, any obese women here have experience and give advice?Any obese women can advice here?
    Even if the test come out negative I would be going to the doctors for a check up regardless, if you are pregant you are in a very dangerous situation where the baby will put extra strain on your heart that is probey already struggling to get blood around your body.





    The chances are you are not pregant as by now it should of showed up on your test...please go to a doctor as it may be something more serious.Any obese women can advice here?
    you may have tested too early or your hormones may be out of wack, there is no difference in a skinny woman or an obese woman when it comes to finding out if youre pregnant, id wait a week take another test if it still says negative i'd go to the doctor.
    Regardless of obesity, you need to get a blood test. May be pregnant or could be something else. Only a doctor can tell you for sure.
    i suggest you go see a doctor, i'm not obese and have not had experience in this but it does sound like that you are pregnant, you have all the symptoms, so go see a doctor .
    make an appt and see your doctor....it has less to do with being obese and more to do with whether you are pregnant or getting sick in some other way....call now...you can get false negatives with pregnancy tests....good luck to you
    My friend got pregnant and had all the signs but the home pregnancy test kept coming up negative so she went to the doctor and had a blood test done, and sure enough she was pregnant. I forgot the reason it never did show up on the home pregnancy test but the doctor told her why. So if I was you I would go to the doctor. Good Luck
    See a doctor. Could be endometriosis. Could be an intestinal problem. Could be any number of things - we don't know your health history. Three pregnancy tests all negative - you're probably not pregnant. But you should have a DOCTOR examine you.

    I';m a very shy guy i like to think i am fairly attractive guy but have no idea how to talk to women ne advice?

    Treat us with respect and caution. I'm just saying, be careful while talking. Don't imply offence, even with jokes. If you do, BOOM! A sweet lady can become a ravaging monster in seconds.I';m a very shy guy i like to think i am fairly attractive guy but have no idea how to talk to women ne advice?
    open your mouth ,and vocalise - just don't p.i.ss them off with what you sayI';m a very shy guy i like to think i am fairly attractive guy but have no idea how to talk to women ne advice?
    Watch what others do and learn. Start with just saying hi and asking others a few questions about that person. Don't use cheesy lines or try to be something you are not. The people worth knowing will try to get to know you.
    just make sure you smile alot. if youve got a scowl or look miserable then girls will not want to approach you.





    You just need to relax and if you see a girl you like then try chatting to her or smiling. Being friendly is always the best way.xx
    Just be yourself; with this being said it depends on the type of person you are. If you are an introvert you probably should just go with the flow of conversation when it is established. You would probably do better dating someone you have befriended. If you are an extrovert you might be able to start random conversations which random people. If you through the poll out you will eventually catch a fish (not that I am comparing a woman to a fish, it was just a parable-type of statement)
    keep eyes at eye level %26gt;.%26lt;
    ya know what? ya don' need to talk much to women. because i as a girl don't like the men who talk much. talk briefly and try to say what's in ur inside. if ya feel ya like some one so go ahead and start ur relationship with making a question.but be careful! ur question must not make her mad.for example ya can ask her about the book in her hands or what she bought. just say ur opinion or ur exprience about it. don't be shy. and always think like we all are human and the same as each other so no reason for being shy in front of each other.one more point! try to speak much in home with ur family. it makes ya stronger.
    well, if there is a woman that you love, then you should just tell her how you feel, and complement her often, make her feel special
    if you think you're attractive, then show that. Show confidence and just walk up to a girl and talk to her.
    show confidence is a must! most girls expect a guy to start a conversation anyhow. good luck!
    BE YOURSELF.





    I love guys that show me their true self and arent trying to hard to act cool and all macho ( so annoying). Or arent afraid to put it all out there ya kno?


    Be sweet, compliment and make the girls lauph. GIrls love it when a guy brings up how beautiful they are or if they have a good personality. Just show intrest.
    There isn't a specific WAY to talk to women, but don't be rude and insulting, just be yourself someone will like you!!!
    well if you are attractive then you should be confident, but not overly confident, don't be a jerk....let me tell you no girl in this world doesn't wasn't a guy who is sweet and shy but still good looking. =) flaunt what you have but don't over do it!

    Pregnant women needs advice?

    Hai. I am 3 months pregnant. I am a housewife. I am feeling sleepy during morning hours. Is it OK to continue? Or do I need to be awake? Will it weaken the baby? I am also feeling tired throughout my trimesters. Can any kind lady can help ?Pregnant women needs advice?
    Your body is going through some serious changes, being tired is completely normal. You NEED the sleep! It should get better during your second trimester, but you'll probably be feeling tired again in your third! (At least this is how it's been for all of my pregnancies.) Don't worry about sleep weakening your baby, healthy babies need healthy moms!Pregnant women needs advice?
    fatigue is a very common symptom of preg and may stop after the first trimester or may continue it depends on the person and the preg. Your body knows what it needs and if its tired then you should rest your household duties can wait until you feel better. it won't hurt the baby, but you remember you are the carrier for this life and your body will protect the baby but you have to give it the proper ways to do that and rest, nutrition, moderate exercise (ask doc) and hydration are all factors. women tend to feel more energetic in their second trimester then get tired agian in their third. good luck
    To continue what? Sleeping? Of course, if you need it. There is a lot going on in your body right now.





    You don't say how much sleep you are getting at night -- if you are not getting enough that is probably one place to start. You probably need at least a full 8 hours per night. Some folks can get by on less, others need 10 hours a night.





    I hope you are taking your prenatal vitamins and taking at least some light exercise -- walking 20 minutes a day is ideal.





    And congratulations!
    It's perfectly normal to feel tired. If you can rest, then you should rest. I wish I could rest when I needed to. The baby is fine. Some people say to stay active... My advice is to listen to your body. If your body says rest, then rest. If your body says get up and go, then get up and go!





    Best of luck to you!
    Atg 3 months, you should feel like you aren't even pregnant. I was tired my whole pregnancy. Turns out I was anemic. Most women get anemia during pregnancy, but I had anemia before hand so it doubled during my pregnancy. After I was given iron pills, my stamina picked up.
    SLEEP!!!! is the best thing for you at this point, if u feel like u need a rest go for it, u will feel so much better. i dont believe it will hurt the baby it will just keep wearing you down. it will gett better but also come back and u could be just sitting there and next thing u know u will be out
    Just sleep it off, the baby takes a lot out of you...you need sleep for the baby to grow , also be sure to take your prenatal vitamins like they were prescribed. GL
    You need the rest. Sleeping is good for you, as long as you make sure you're still eating, drinking, etc. If you're still very concerned, check with your doc.





    Good luck!
    Sleep won't weaken the baby. If you're tired and you have the luxery of sleeping do it! And get an extra nap in for us working moms! LOL! :) There are days when I doze off at my desk.
    no you need all the sleep you can get
    Weaken the baby??? Call your doctor
    sleep is good for you

    Help women only i need your advice please help?

    Would you date a 19 y/o who's nice, and respectful, he's super cute, and no he's not a jerk (used to be fat when he was young) and is still a virgin had the chance to loose it but is still (Waiting for that special girl) has a good job, and owns a Ferrari F430?





    I got girls trying to date me, but the only problem is after the weight loss i've got excess skin on me this is what's got me feeling down would this be a problem to you women?Help women only i need your advice please help?
    Dude can i borrow your ferrari? as for the skin thing work out do running pull ups nd weights then when your barrel chested you look tough chicks thin k your hot and your still innocent to have your virginity but dont tell a girl untill your in bed with er or shell txt her mates in 15 seocnds flat also cause you look like a kid and between us guys chicks dig virgins makes em feel bad cause there doing sumthing your mom wouldnt want you to do instead of you taking their virginityHelp women only i need your advice please help?
    Sounds great! I wouldn't date you since I'm married, but as a person you sound really nice. But I've never seen a guy with the excess skin you're talking about. Any way working out will fix it? If you think that's the problem. I do notice that a lot of people don't notice my flaws until I point them out, so if you're used to mentioning it, don't bring it up. (Ps. Yay for virginity!)
    If you can afford a Ferrari you can afford surgery to remove the extra skin.

    Girl advice women or dueds please anser this?

    so there;s this hot chick that i like so asked her out to the movies but she said no cus she had to go on a trip to arizona so where do i go from there i need help majorlyGirl advice women or dueds please anser this?
    fly to arizona and take her to the movies thereGirl advice women or dueds please anser this?
    Wait till she's back. If she says no again for whatever reason, let her be the one to ask. Otherwise, she might not be interested. Dunno though.
    just ask her again when she gets back...text her while shes there and ask her how the trips going (only if u know her well). If she sais no again i would wait for her to ask you to hangout.
    well dude when she gets back ask ger out again to the movies or whereever you noe......dont be CHICKEN lol............

    Approach and conversation (need proper advice from women and guys. Women especially)?

    Hey guys. Well I am starting to really talk with a lot of women and eventually want to end up in a relationship. I am looking for a real relationship with real connection between me and my partner to be. The question I have is how do you approach a girl and spark her interest through conversation? In other words wut are good methods for approaching the girl. But also how do you spark her to be interested. If you guys could really help me out would appreciate. Just kind of confused about thisApproach and conversation (need proper advice from women and guys. Women especially)?
    I found some really good Videos, btw way by girls, giving guys advice on that topic.


    Its on YouTube, just make a search, you will find tons of it. There are ';channels'; just giving dating tips and advice and such. I prefer the tips by girls of course :)Approach and conversation (need proper advice from women and guys. Women especially)?
    just go up to her %26amp; say hey, how are you? just thought Id say hi Im _______. are you from this area? go to school here or ....? then just let it go from there- if she wants to talk offer her a drink, make sure she's comfortable, has a seat etc...
    Find areas of common interest. Enough said.

    Help women only i need your advice please help?

    Would you date a 19 y/o who's nice, and respectful, he's super cute, and no he's not a jerk (used to be fat when he was young) and is still a virgin had the chance to loose it but is still (Waiting for that special girl) has a good job, and owns a Ferrari F430?





    I got girls trying to date me, but the only problem is after the weight loss i've got excess skin on me this is what's got me feeling down would this be a problem to you women?Help women only i need your advice please help?
    Most people, if they really like someone, and find that person attractive in other ways learn to overlook certain ';flaws.';





    Since you are so young and you claim to have so much excess skin (enough to bring down your self-esteem)--then you probably lost weight really quickly. The youthful elasticity of your skin will eventually kick and catch up. You should also consider exercising--weight-lifting to fill out muscles (and skin). If you can, see a doctor and ask for advice on who to see about maybe surgery if it is that extreme.





    If you meet a girl who seems to be really special, get to know her as friends first. Try to hold back on dating behavior, but go out ';as friends.'; Catch a movie, get some pizza, hang out at the park and play frisbee or go to a local activity--like bowling, a local stock-car race, a live music show, a rodeo, a carnival, putt-putt(mini-golf), go-kart racing, an amusement park...anywhere cool. Get to know her on a friendship basis. If she flirts with you, then you can realistically and honestly open up to her about your concern. She might like you so much she just won't care. If it ';grosses her out'; --and it might-- then you'll have a friend, but not a lover. It will not be wasted time. But you can try hanging out with another girl until you find the right one. You can hang out at different times with more than one girl. Don't allow one to have too much hold on your time or Ferrari--keep yourself available, but DO NOT allow yourself to be used. And don't be in a rush. Seriously, you're only 19. Be prepared that it may take a few years to get to that special person. Once you find her you'll realize you wouldn't have had it any other way...and by then your skin will have tightened up some, too.Help women only i need your advice please help?
    Yes, I would date you. I decided that before I read about the Ferrari BTW. You have a lot going for you, try to feel good about yourself.
    hahaha you sound like a dick. Gross excess skin btw, if you're only 19 going to the gym should be able to sort that out
    it wouldn't be a problem to me..

    Why do so many women ask for advice on divorce?

    What the hell is up with that? Can't you make up your own mind?





    Does begging for non-direct sympathy gain wisdom and power in order to kick your man to the curb?





    It seems most men don't reach out for advice and women get it from everywhere (all for free.)





    Constantly men are helping out hoards of wailing women all over the world when they need to know how to screw over their husbands in a divorce, and in return most of them wouldn't help you out if your life depended on it.





    What gives??Why do so many women ask for advice on divorce?
    Have to maximize the child support and the alimony.Why do so many women ask for advice on divorce?
    I smell something burning......
    They need to talk about it.
    Yeah, what gives it does'nt make any sense
    I've heard 90% of all divorces are filed by women. That coupled with the fact that they like to talk more they will be asking more of the questions. I guess us guys are willing helpers if we see something needs fixing even if we reveal how we got screwed over in a divorce.
    I asked for advice but not for what you think.Some woman are dirty and some men are dogs. I just wish the dirty and the dogs were stuck together so the rest of us could have a chance at the good ones,ya know what I mean.
    Most women know what they're going to do, they just ask for advice to get simpathy.
    Well that's life...On here a lot of men ask the same question!
    Women have a greater need for emotional support and have a greater fear of social stigma.
    Most of the time when men give the advice to screw over their husbands it's cause maybe they want a little somethin somethin, during divore, before or after.
    Divorce is not an easy decision to make. Feedback helps a person to feel empowered over their own decisions, by knowing different options and opinions.
    Excuse me....what are YOU doing ???
    Divorce needs to be made illegal, for the most part.
    Hello Bugged, Well to say such things about women in general someone must have hurt your heart tremendously and i am sorry about that. And it does go both ways; it is not just women; men do the same thing as well. And Baby i am sorry that she hurt you.

    Need advice...women in the australian defence force...?

    im 21 and want to join the navy next year..i find the concept of being surrounded by say 50 or more men rather intimidating and confronting.





    how do i get over this, as i will be training with more men that women.Need advice...women in the australian defence force...?
    http://www.defencejobs.gov.au/womenInDef鈥?/a>








    this may helpNeed advice...women in the australian defence force...?
    Well, I cant say about the Aussies, but here in the US we try to integrate the women to maximum extent possible. My advise would be to find someone that served in the Aussie Navy and ask her directly. I am sorry if this answer doesn't help that much.
    If you can't find any serving women to talk to you should try the some forums. There are a few good ones around but they are mostly aimed at the Army.





    Women are out numbered in the ADF but it's nowhere near 50:1.


    Good luck

    Shaving advice, women read?

    I recently started shaving my chest and I have all these red bumps that look like acne. Sometimes they itch like crazy. I think its razor burn or something, but Im not sure. I didnt have to worry about that when shaving my face, so I have no idea what to do to get rid of them or to prevent while shaving in the future.Shaving advice, women read?
    Try Tend Skin. It can burn for a second but after using it for a bit, it should help. They sell it at Sephora and online.Shaving advice, women read?
    yeah its razor burn, try using a sharper razor and a good shaving cream, then put on lotion after :]
    A dermatologist told me years ago because I got terrible razor burn. He explained that it was actually the hair follicles getting infected. He told me to take a qtip with a dab of neosporin on it and twirl it just inside each nostril daily as part of my hygeine routine. I do it when I get out of the shower while putting on my deoderant etc. It took about two weeks for me to see a difference but I have NEVER had razor burn again and its been 15 years. Worth a try for your problem.

    Why do thees broken hearted women ask questions and pick some other broken hearted woman's advice?

    Some of us girls have the world eating out of our palms. Why don't these girls want to hear it. Is it me or do they always pick some fluffy girl that sounds as hopless as they are for, Best answer?Why do thees broken hearted women ask questions and pick some other broken hearted woman's advice?
    That's because they don't want to hear truth and reality.





    They want to hear dramatic and romantic bullpucky that makes them think that what they are doing is not wrong and that its other poeple who are mistreating them.





    People can't deal with truth. People like to cling to ideals and perfect solutions in an imperfect and unfair world. Just let them do it. Let them boo us for telling the truth, let them live in that pathertic world they call thier lives. After all it's the only solace they have.Why do thees broken hearted women ask questions and pick some other broken hearted woman's advice?
    They can't do that and stay feeling sorry for themselves.
    does it really matter to you that much...? i mean is best answer that important to you? really get over it!
    hahaha good one but really u can't expect someone to pick u as best ans on demand because its their opinion and u just happen to be ';kind'; enough to give it to them and whether they choose to listen its up to them
    They dont want to hear the truth. They just want to put there problems out there.
    well i guess its because they seem to have the same feeling at the time as the sad person does. i always try to look on the positive sides of situations but when im really down and looking down i find the people who are answering the same way.
    because when your heartbroken, sometimes us girls just want to wallow, and we want to hear somebody that agrees with us and sounds as if they truly relate and understand. when we need the real help, we'll just go to our friends.

    Advice from other women with PCOS, who have gotten pregnant...?

    What did you do? Were you on medicine? Did you go through fertility treatments? How long did it take you to conceive?Advice from other women with PCOS, who have gotten pregnant...?
    Everyone with PCOS is different and has different symptoms.





    Here is my story.





    Symptoms:


    Overweight


    Irregular and non existent periods for months


    slightly high testosterone level.


    Acne





    I was orignally put on the pill to get my periods regular well that doesn't work because they are not natural.


    Last year in end sept i started taking Metformin (research this) 1500mg a day. In Oct had no period but started losing weight, acne got better. In Nov i spotted for 2 weeks. In Dec i had my first natural period since going off pill in aug.





    I got pregnant in Jan and now have a healthy 3 week old boy.





    I also followed a low Gi diet, and went to aqua aerobics twice a week. I lost 10 kg and i really think this helped.





    You may not be overweight but metformin may help you because it is the sugar levels in your blood that make the hormones nuts.





    Try looking at these websites they helped me alot.





    www.posaa.asn.net





    www.soulcysters.com





    Good luck.Advice from other women with PCOS, who have gotten pregnant...?
    Hi, I did take metformin and provera to regulate my almost non-existent menstrual cycle and conceived on my first cycle of clomid. I now have a healthy 4 month old daughter. But also please remember to have a calm mind and stay positive.

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    I have PCOS and I have gotten pregnant 3 times. The first time I got pregnant all on my own with no medications after 5 months of trying and had a beautiful little boy who weighed 10lbs 2 oz. I unfortunately lost my second pregnancy which was also conceived without medication. I conceived my 3rd pregnancy after using metformin for about 6 months. I also lost the 3rd pregnancy due to what we now know is a genetic blood clotting disorder so the loses had nothing to do with the PCOS. I am now taking Clomid and we are getting ready to start round 4. Just because you have PCOS does not mean you can't get pregnant. Stay positive and keep your head up. Remember if you can't get pregnant on your own there are plenty of fertility treatments you can use. Good luck and God Bless.
    I got told when i was 15 i had pcos and would never concieve naturaly, but in june 2006 i got quite sick and lost nearly 4 stone in the space of 7 weeks and the after i had lost the weight the first time i had intercourse i concieved my daughter, she was born premature in december 2006 and i never lost my baby weight i have since been ttc again for nearly 2 years, i stated testing my ovulation and was not ovulating at all then i took clomid for 3 months and i was ovulting but never managed to concieve, i had to stop clomid because of the ehad aches but am still ttc just naturally without the stress, i would say see i fertility specialist but always look up the treatment they offer you before u take them and if your weight is and issue try your best to loose some as it really does make a massive diffrence.





    Good luck sending lots of **** Baby Dust****
    hi there...





    i'm answering, but it's actually my friend who has PCOS...





    she's tried clomid and duphaston for a few cycles but it didn't work.





    on her most recent cycle, she decided to rest from all the meds and wanted to try naturally.





    However, her period was really very late and the doctor told her to drink provera to induce her period already. Still, no period came, and SHE GOT PREGNANT instead!!! =)





    good luck to you!

    Women please help I need advice on first time gyno?

    Ok Im a virgin, so will they not give me a pap smear?? is there a difference?? in being a virgin or not??Women please help I need advice on first time gyno?
    They will want to give you a pap smear if you are 18 years old or older but you can refuse it. If you say you don't want one then they won't give you one. It's recommended though in case you have cancerous cells in your uterus.Women please help I need advice on first time gyno?
    You should get one regardless of whether you're sexually active or not because it tells you if something is wrong down there [infections, abnormal cell development, etc.].
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  • Women, some good advice you've learned along the way?

    REGARDING:





    1. Relationships/Love


    2. Fashion


    3. Work


    4. Respect


    5. Friends


    6. Traveling


    7. Family


    8. Anything elseWomen, some good advice you've learned along the way?
    1. The older you get, the better your relationships become - You make better choices





    2. Don't go there - Dress smartly in good quality clothes that never go out of fashion. Always have the 'basics' in your wardrobe





    3. If you know what you don't want (out of a job) don't consider yourself a 'failure', think of it as an important stepping stone to the job you DO want





    4. Should be shown to everyobody you meet, not 'earned'.... But can be lost when someone makes the same mistake 'twice'





    5. Don't seem to have been as important in your 20's, as they are in your 30's (and I imagine 40's, 50's etc)





    6. You can NEVER be open-minded or aware unless you travel!! And culture must be experienced when travelling (staying in a resort won't cut it!). Get down to the grass roots of a place.





    7. No family is perfect! But family is very comforting (even if very annoying at tijmes). Having family around can be taken for granted.





    8. Too much to put in one (relatively) short answer :-)





    LIVE LIFE - DON'T LET IT PASS BY YOU!! And see 'bad' situations as new opportunities.......





    Peace ;-)Women, some good advice you've learned along the way?
    Relationships (Romantic, specifically marriage) . . . Always keep your own bank and savings account . . . not a joint account . . . but your own. Make sure you name is on everything . . . from house titles to retirement accounts . . . not just as a beneficiary but as co-owner. Money is always power . . . don't let love fool you.





    Fashion . . . Always have three outfits clean and ready to go . . . not just any outfits but ones in which you feel absolutely stunning . . . These three outfits should include shoes and accessories . . . and be for the following events . . . professional (interview), evening wear, and casual outing . . . the first two are obvious but the third is often overlooked . . . however from general life experience I can tell you it's the most important since it's generally where you meet the best people . . .





    Work . . .Never assume your boss knows why the other person is a moron . . . be nice about it . . . but make sure he or she knows why your idea is better . . . If you have a great idea document it . . . that way if anyone else tries to steal it you have proof of whose head it actually came from . . . and for office politics . . . and this one is important . . .IF MORE THAN TWO PEOPLE ARE FIGHTING . . . REMOVE YOURSELF FROM THE ARGUMENT TEMPORARILY . . . RE-INJECT YOURSELF ONLY WHEN THERE IS A CLEAR WINNER . . . IT'S MUCH EASIER TO FIGHT WITH ONE PERSON THAN TWO OR THREE . . .





    Respect . . . Make sure you apply it to yourself FIRST.





    Friends . . . Always hang out with people who are slightly better than you . . . more financially successful, better dressed, better spoken, whatever . . . habits are contagious





    Traveling . . . Never hesitate to do it by yourself . . . even when your married or in a serious relationship . . .





    Family . . . Apply the 80/20 rule to those who truly love you . . . if they generally don't annoy you 80% of the time . . . ignore the other 20% and call it a day.





    Anything Else . . . No one over the age of twelve should wear glitter make-up anything or t-shirts with cute saying like ';Princess'; . . . Listen to your mother . . . you will in fact regret that tatoo or nose ring . . . Every girl needs a good accountant and attorney . . . even if your not in the position to need one . . . cultivate these relationships anyway . . . because you just never know. . . Never go out with any man (or woman) who doesn't schedule at least three days in advance . . . it's disrectful to insinutate that you might not be busy.
    1) Relationships / Love: It is possible to keep adding love to your heart, no matter how much is already in there.





    2) Fashion: Is fun but in the end, what matters is what how you wish to present yourself.





    3) Work: Having something to do is important, whether it's to make money or for some other reason. No-one can be a whole person unless they have a feeling that in some way, they contribute to the world.





    4) Respect: Everyone deserves respect for their their basic humanity. After that, it's negotiable. You will only ever get the respect you demand.





    5) Friends: Are not a case of more is better. This is one area where quality really matters.





    6) Travelling: Really does broaden the mind, and it's fun, too.





    7) Family: Whether good or bad, your childhood is over once you are an adult. Family can be a great gift or a great curse, and we need to remember ~ we are not our family, even though we are from the same place.





    8) Mistakes are human. Repeating the same mistake over and over is a waste of time. Expect high standards from yourself and those you associate with, and you'll find yourself not only mixing with a better class of person, but being a better class of person. Oh yeah, and if you turn your sheets in the cupboard so the fold shows instead of the loose ends, it wiill look so much neater with no extra effort at all.





    Cheers :-)
    1. Relationships/Love: ';Make sure that you give your husband all the sex he needs so that you don't leave him looking else where'; - My mom





    2. Fashion: ';Less is more. Don't look like you're trying';


    -Different people





    3. Work- ';Many hands makes light work'; -My Dad





    4. Respect: ';Respect others if you want them to respect you';


    -My Dad





    5. Friends: ';?';





    6. Traveling: ';Pack food in a cooler for lunches to save on money'; -My Dad and Mom





    7. Family: ';These come first: God, Family, Then You';





    8. Anything else: ';never go to bed angry. Always resolve it before the sun comes up'; -My mom
    1. Relationships/Love


    Don't chase anyone. If a guy wants you let him come to you.





    2. Fashion


    Learn what YOUR BODY looks good in.





    3. Work


    Just do anything if you need to pay your bills (except illegal stuff). You can do temp stuff till you find better. Don't allow gaps in employment.





    4. Respect


    Give it when it's earned.





    5. Friends


    You won't meet many of these, but they haven't earned #4, don't keep them.





    6. Traveling


    Get to Europe and on a cruise, and Hawaii atleast once each.





    7. Family


    They aren't always blood related....





    8. Anything else


    Not at this time...
    1. When a man shows you who he is, believe him.


    2. Your breasts and legs should never be showing in the same outfit.


    3. Work


    4. You must respect yourself before anyone else will.


    5. Friends


    6. See everything you desire to see before you have kids.


    7. Family


    8. Always live life with love character and faithfulness
    1. Don't expect things. And communicate what you want. You don't know if you don't ask!


    2. Classic is best


    3. Work smart. Make a name for yourself. You never know when you will need those people you used to work with, because sometimes they can help you.


    4. Respect yourself and you will respect others. It'll come more naturally if you respect yourself.


    5. Friends - love them and try not to judge so harshly.


    6. Travelling - Take one bag!


    7. Family - Love them. They will always be your family.


    8. Repeat - LOVE THYSELF!
    1. There may be plenty of fish in the sea..but sometimes its just best to put away the fishing pole and go about your own life. ( my own advice)





    2. dying your hair blue . or purple...or pink..or bright red is not a bad thing...its just individuallity. and if ppl dont like it...so what! its yor hair..not thiers..they can look else where ( my own advice)





    3. pretend you actually love the job you have....until you find a career you love. ( my own advice again)





    4. No one can make you feel inferior without your consent...





    5. Just because you get along with someone really well..doesnt mean they wont stab you in the back...there is always that potential with the human race. ( my own advice....)





    6. always pack more than what you need in case you have to stay longer....





    7. Blood means nothing when it comes to family.





    8. if ur gonna go to jail over stealing...at least make sure its something worth stealing! ( my step dad..he is an excon and pretty well known here in illinois)
    1. it's about two people giving 100/100...50% is half a$$ed





    2. black dress good to go...pearls go with everything including jeans





    3. aim for your bosses boss's job...





    4. Every living thing deserves basic respect.





    5. Friends will take you places...be sure they are the right kinda friends.





    6. Path less traveled is the hardest route but a heck of a lot more fun.


    you have not lived until your lost where no one speaks English.


    ';not all who wander are lost';

    Should i ask this girl (Need women's advice)?

    Well this girl that i really like has been texting me and messaging me on face book almost nonstop. We were playing 21 questions and she said that she thought i was cute and had good style. and she sent me a picture of herself and asked me to send one too. but we are going to go see a movie on friday and im not sure if we are bf and gf, should i just ask her if she considers us boyfriend and girlfriend? Or does anyone have any idea of how to know?Should i ask this girl (Need women's advice)?
    man up loser lol she likesShould i ask this girl (Need women's advice)?
    Trust me, you'll know if you're bf/gf after the movie.
    No you are not boyfriend and gf, you can ask her to be after a few times you go out with her, don't jump into it, it is too soon.
    Tell her after the evening you want to do it again but this time as a couple.
    you should just ask her out. and then see if see says ';well arent we already going out?'; and then if she does just tell her your checking
    you have to ask her to be bf gf.


    how old are you????
    You aren't boyfriend and girlfriend if you compliment and each other and send pictures.





    If you want to be officially boyfriend and girlfriend you have to ask her if she'll take you to be her boyfriend.





    Good luck!
    See how the movie goes, then afterwards, if you still have feelings for her, casually bring up the whole ';boyfriend and girlfriend'; scenario. She obviously likes you which means there's a pretty good chance that she will/would become your girlfriend.
    No. You are not GF/BF until both parties are aware of the pairing. What you should do is propose something nonchalant like, ';So my friend asked me if we were dating. I didn't know what to say, although I wanted to say yes.';





    Play it smooth and casual and you'll have her hooked in no time.
    If she's a flirty girl then she doesn't think that you're going out. Even for a flirty girl though she wouldn't be messaging you non stop, this girl is really infatuated by you.
    From the information given, it seems like she likes you! :)


    How I would approach it is ';So, I've been doing a lot of thinking _____, and I was wondering how you thought of us?..'; Or something of that sort. :) Good luck!
    it depends on how it goes,..your still single but you will probably start ';seeing her';. then maybe go into a full blown realtionship


    :/
    You should ask her how she feels about your relationship... weather she considers you bf and gf or not. To me it sounds like you guys could be going out. but i really don't know. hope this helps!
    lol just hang out with her she will propose u.





    u r lucky.


    do u play mafia wars?
    I know...you aren't, sounds like a first date to me, that doesn't mean you are boyfriend and girlfriend...relax..see how it goes...keep it friendly, but also keep in mind that you are the sh%t and she should feel honored to be in your presence, but don't let her know that you are thinking that, just keep the thought in your head.
    are you serious?


    you are not bf and gf


    you havent even seen her in person yet


    go to the movie with her


    get a *******


    THEN you're bf and gf


    duh!

    I need your advice women?

    Im a very shy person and its hard for me to talk to a girl..any advice for me on how to approach a girl or how to talk to her? please help. theres been a girl that i really liked and i knew she thought i was cute but i never talked to her cause i was too shy and i dont want this to happen again.I need your advice women?
    just go and talk to her like you would talk with your close friends :]


    try not to think of her as the girl you like but just a girl. i know its hard to do it that way but it does work if you really really try. good luck!I need your advice women?
    If you like someone...just get over the shyness and just talk to them!


    It's not so hard ones you try a little. And try to find someone with common interest as you, so its easier to converse with them, so its easy to approach them. :)
    Grow a set and just say hi.
    :::::pulls out the pocorn::::
    just talk to her!

    Do you think Cosmopolitan magazine gives women good advice about men or not?

    no because they have no idea whats going on in the individual readers situationDo you think Cosmopolitan magazine gives women good advice about men or not?
    Wow Enrica, how nice of you :) Cosmo is the biggest bunch of crap. I pretend that the editor is some guy out there just messing with us because I cant fathom that real women write that crap. If you need advice on how to please your man, you oughta just ask your man, not some barren, single old hags that know nothing about relationships not based on one night stands.





    http://www.associatedcontent.com/article鈥?/a>Do you think Cosmopolitan magazine gives women good advice about men or not?
    According to most men none of the women's magazines give good advice about relationships sex etc... I would go to Men's magazines (or men period)over women's mags for that kind of advice
    good advice about what? If women have questions or need advice they should just ask. If you have questions or need advice just ask


    ranchosauce@yahoo.com


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    I am travelling to Russia ,can anyone who has been there give me advice on Russian women.?

    I would like to know what i should be prepared for good and badI am travelling to Russia ,can anyone who has been there give me advice on Russian women.?
    Yes, just don't call them ';funny bunny';... and you'll be ok.





    ;-)





    See link below... it's youtube... safe and clean ENJOY! I think it's great... and I think Russian women are pretty and friendly overall.





    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QXk18RdxP鈥?/a>I am travelling to Russia ,can anyone who has been there give me advice on Russian women.?
    Prussian girls are beautiful and they are easy-going, a lot of them speak English. But if you are looking for and older woman then i think it will be not so easy to find that one who speaks English. I advise you to be careful with your money. They know perfectly well that you earn much more than they do.
    lol...if you want find girlfriend,dont spend a lot of money on them,they are almost like photo models in Russia,but real love is when pretty girl choise poor or not rich guy,those who just eat your money cash are dangere,its easy,but anyway if your cute and from far country it will grow up your chanses,cos if you are not from Fartistan republic.So russian women....hmm..they dont so good english lang. and it can makes borders of spelling in your and her side.....you must teach russian.....if you are from australia,so...your chanse is 70% ,if from UK or USA its 50%,from west Europe 40%,but any way even if you are from Argentina,if you atractive she will be your,...


    post scriptum:In tRussia also pretty good women choise as husband poor and ugly men....such statistic)
    well depend of where are you going, Russia well i recomend to go to the interior, ladies in Moscow are training for get u money, but depend of the lady, u will see nice nice cute ladies taller than you big *** good legs nice face blue or green eyes...blond and red hair most of them... go to the center and ask for direction u can make love after u make a invitation for a drink or food. Keep a good quantity of condoms depend of you be care they are so clean but who knows in war season no hole can help you ;-)))


    Well after Moscow St. Petersburg is worst...maybe u can go to Chelyabinsk in the middle of Siberia or go to Vladivostock depend of your face and u shape, u can find nice girls start at the 18 y/o the russian girls dont beleived in the age, but the worst girls dont beleived in your shape, if u have a good body shape u can find nice nice barbie girls in anywhere, but if u r old more than 40 and in bad shape u can find girls from 30 to 40 ---is like the marketing---


    There is not reason for bad things only that the russian man hate american and european man, because we r going only for sex tourist, another tip for you ..about the gifts and presents, if you give a perfume to a girl u can have her for the week for free, the russian man only with a beer can have any girl..but now the sex night is changing the russian girls wants more from her lover, more sex more time more and more, because russian man put in and take out faster ..finish and that is it ..time: less than a minute ..


    if you like to play like one hour before the sex and use u tongue u will be the King of the city!!!! russian man dont use tongue is not common
    Remember during the Cold War, all the stories we heard about Russian women being big and fat and hairy? Turns out they're mostly slender and beautiful, and the USA has the chunkers.





    Man - was that incredible propaganda. Kinda makes you wonder if you can believe anything your government says anymore.
    it is a pretty good country if you speak Russian

    Need some advice women, please, did I fail or am I again??!?!?!?

    Okay I just posted....





    Miscarriage on August 16th - 19th





    Ovulation (according to almost everyone) - August 30th (14 days after miscarriage)....





    September 1st-3rd .... light bleeding, started off brownish then got pinkish - only when wiped and periodically throughout the day, sometimes when wiped, sometimes not - no panty liner needed.





    period like cramping around 7th %26amp; 8th this month....





    more period cramping around 28 days after miscarriage (when menses was suposed to start) 13th/14th this month....





    Had an early miscarriage last month, lost pregnancy around implantation, but body expelled 2 1/2 weeks later...natural miscarriage, levels followed down to 0.....everything great, doc said try again!!





    (Increase in cervical discharge for the past 3 weeks)





    Pregnancy test tonight - (2 tests) ';Answer'; brand, both negative.... if I would have ovulated the 30th or 31st of August wouldn't a home test show positive by now, if I am pregnant again?? (sexually active since MC)Need some advice women, please, did I fail or am I again??!?!?!?
    Well you must be a youngster because that is a tramatizing thing for some women. i mean having sex so soon after a miscarriage goes to show you dont really care about anyone but yourself. And what if you are pregnant? then you have another one? I'm not trying to be mean but i just seems like your too young to realize what being pregnant is all about. I would just ask your doctor and they can tell you everything you need to know. Good Luck though!Need some advice women, please, did I fail or am I again??!?!?!?
    It should show up by now but if not then give it a few days and retest. I know its hard to go through a miscarriage specially when you want something so bad..don't let what people say or this get you down!! You will succeed!! Good luck hunny!!
    You should retest in 2 days with you first morning pee. Good luck and baby dust to all who want it!
    I am sorry about your miscarriage... I believe you are really keen to get pregnant again soon. I think you did the test too early to get a good result. IF pregnant you should take the test a few weeks later, you cant see it that soon with the home preg-test. I think you are a little stressed now and that wont help you get pregnant. Let it go for a while and focus on something else. maybe you have time to relax for a week in a nice place to get you mind of it and let your body relax! Your body had a miscarriage.... Thats a big deal.... Take care and good luck!!
    It should show up by now, but every woman is different. Maybe you ovulated later than you think. Try another test in a couple of days. Good Luck!
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  • Girls/women. Some advice please ?

    Hey, I'm planning on having sex with my boyfriend. I am a virgin, he is not.


    I'm a very petite girl, only 5'1 and he is quite big.


    What can I do to make it not that painful.


    Any other advice appreciated.


    Thanks.xGirls/women. Some advice please ?
    Try to use a lubricant...make sure to use protection!!!!!


    Just let him know to go slow...the first time is always weird...but you'll get the hang of it....Good Luck, Have FUN!!!Girls/women. Some advice please ?
    lube and ask him to put in isSLOWW.. befor that have him eat you out and fingger you so your wet n stuff it worked 4 me:)

    How can guys know when women want their advice or just listen to them vent their problems?

    Been in situations where women seemed to want me to offer some sort of advice then later gets angry about it. Or there was one where all I said was ';yeah';, ';uh-huh';, ';hmm';, ';yes'; to show I was listening but not ';interfering'; and she thought that I wasn't listening properly. Then there was one where the girl claimed she was giving me ';the signs'; but I swear I didn't recognized and she expected me to know right away. Wouldn't it be just simple if women said plainly: ';Hey, I want your advice';? What's the deal women?How can guys know when women want their advice or just listen to them vent their problems?
    women are complicated, they think that guys can read minds like other women can. usually you can tell when a women's venting because she'll just go on and on and on . if she want's your advice you know because she'll be talking to you about another guy. it's ok buddy. sometimes i don't know what my friends are trying to say.

    I am looking for advice from any women who have PCOS. Just wondering how you deal with it. Thanks.?

    I have had PCOS for 10 years now and just looking for advice. How do you deal with things like weight gain and abnormal hair growth. I am on metformin. I will be going to the doctor soon to be put on Clomid to try for pregnancy for the second time. Just any input you have would be appreciated. Thank you!I am looking for advice from any women who have PCOS. Just wondering how you deal with it. Thanks.?
    I have PCOS. The Metformin has worked wonders (lost that weight and bloatiness real fast) They also put me on Meridia for a while to get rid of that excess weight I'd gained over the years from having it so I could kinda start over. The other thing I found important is to use birth control pills. Those three things combined made me normal again. I'm healthier, no longer overweight and feel a lot better about myself. I avoid starches like the plague too and that's helped.

    Women's Advice (17-22 preferablly) about predicament?

    There is a girl I find attractive , for a variety of reasons, and I've been talking to her regularly about just typical shared interests. WE flirt a little but I don't know how to handle the situation. She works somewhere I visit regularly , like 5-6 times a week, so I don't know if it would be akward to really flirt with her in a semi-public environment. Also, would a girl feel akward in this situation? I'm confident but I don't want to do anything she would find offensive or rude.





    ThanksWomen's Advice (17-22 preferablly) about predicament?
    ok, as long as you talk respectfully to her it shouldn't be a problem. Just talk like you would when you were flirting before. nothing more nothing less. then as time moves on, you can progress like small touches, and visiting her sometimes, just take it slow, don't worry.


    I'm 18 btw.

    I need some advice from MATURE women?

    I'm 16 years old and I've been with my boyfriend now for over a year. He's 17, and a while back he wanted to start having sex, but we decided to wait until I turned 16. Anyway, I'm 16 now, and he wants to move things forward, but I'm a little scared about it to be honest - some of my friends who have already had sex said that it hurts at first and that you bleed afterwards. We have already done quite a lot of other stuff together, oral sex and stuff like that, but I'm just scared that this is going to hurt.





    Is there anything we can do to make it not hurt the first time? Does anyone have any advice or tips they can give me about the first time?I need some advice from MATURE women?
    You're a little to young to start having sex....but I can't really say anything. My first time was at 16. Okay-so when he inserts his penis inside of you, if it hurts (and it most likely will because your vaginal muscles haven't been stretched that far yet)--tell him to take it slow at first. After a while the pain should go away, and then you can enjoy the experience. However!! If you're still feeling some pain, tell your bf to stop immediately...and then wait a couple of days and try again.





    If your first time doesn't exactly turn out to be as romantic as you expected, it's okay. First time sex, you don't really know what to expect-so the first FIRST time isn't that great sometimes.





    Goodluck sweety. Make sure you and your bf use a condom. Every Time!!I need some advice from MATURE women?
    Well you could ';stretch'; your vagina out beforehand.. some girls break their hymen way before sex anyway for various reasons.. beyond that.. I dunno.
    wait!
    Katie- you should be concentrating on if you really want to go through with it. Pain shouldnt be an issue and if you are making that as your excuse not to do it then chances are that you arent ready. I know that all of your friends are already having sex and its tough being '; the virgin'; I was in your same shoes. All of my friends had ';older'; boyfriends and had all of these stories about how much sex they have had. I was always the one that never had a boyfriend because I wasnt ';putting out'; I always used the excuse...I dont want it to hurt. Well, I had turned 17 and my very first time I had sex I got pregnant. My mom forced me to have an abortion and I think about it everytime I have a teenager ask me about my first time. Its very hard and emotional and you will realize what I mean when you get older. Things happen for a reason and you should know that it is ';your decision'; if you choose to have sex. I hope you feel a little better about your decision making. And know that you arent the only one that thinks about it. Goodluck!!! :)
    if your not ready, don't do it!!! if he loves like he says...he will wait until you are ready.....not until you are a certain age! it is a very precious time.....and you won't realize it until later in life! so wait till you are ready emotionally and physically!!!!!!!!!! which at 16.....your neither! good luck to you!
    If you are scared, you should wait. If he wants to move forward and you are not ready, then you should really wait and he should move on. But if you must, go see an ob/gyn to get some proper advice.





    For old school advice: Lubricate!! Lubricate!! And take it very, very very slow. The more stimulated you are, the more receptive you will be to receive him and you will be less focused on the pain.





    Don't go by what your friends say. Everyone first sexual experience is different.





    Good Luck
    I have never met a woman in my life who said ';I wish that I had had sex at a younger age'; If he pulls that old line ';If you love me you'd do it'; Answer '; If you loved me you'd wait.';
    It doesn't always hurt- one thing is to make sure there is enough foreplay- or use artificial lubrication. Also, go slow- no need to rush it.


    That being said- if you arent ready and your boyfriend wont accept that then he doesnt really love you and you are better off without him.


    I am 25 and lost my virginity early in life- trust me it isnt all its cracked up to be... I wish I had waited-
    The first time is rarely fun for the girl and if it is his first time also, it will be over quickly. It will hurt at first, because the hymen will have to be broken, even if it is already broken it will hurt because it needs to be stretched.





    That being said, wait until you know he is the one you want this to happen with. Once you give up your virginity, you cannot give it back.
    Are you scared because you think it's going to hurt, or are you scared because it's a big decision?





    If you are scared because it might hurt, there's nothing you can really do to make it hurt less. It doesn't hurt for everyone, if you have had manual sex or use tampons, it shouldn't hurt terrible. If you relax and are caught up in the moment, then it shouldn't hurt. But if you are tense or unsure about whether you actually want to have sex, then it may hurt.





    If you are scared for other reasons, just tell your boyfriend. You have been together for a long time, so it appears that it isn't about sex. He should understand!!





    Please be safe in whatever you decide.
    If you are uncomfortable taking the step then it is more like that you will feel discomfort. I woman has to be relaxed and 'in the mood' for her body to properly receive a male. You should probably wait until you feel powerful about your sexuality, in charge of the situation and safe.

    Need advice on a good tough women's walking shoe/boot. see more?

    I take the bus to and from work, total walking distance per day just with the bus stops is 2 miles. I walk a lot on the job in between the offices. I need a good sturdy shoe that will not disintigrate in two months. I prefer boots but either way if possible I would like them to work both for walking and for the office. NEED ALL IDEAS anything! Best shoe wins!Need advice on a good tough women's walking shoe/boot. see more?
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  • Should i tell this girl i still like her even thought she is going out with some one GIRLS ONLY WOMEN ADVICE?

    she went out with me and we still talk and some times she calls me some times and we talk on line but she is going out with some one AND I DONT KNPW IF SHE IS A TEASEShould i tell this girl i still like her even thought she is going out with some one GIRLS ONLY WOMEN ADVICE?
    Sorry I am a dude but I happen to know alot about this subject....





    if you are manipulative and smart you can pull this off,what you need to do, is become a really good friend of hers if your not already. then the key thing in this is Listen. listen every time she tells you of a problem. listen listen listen. because once you listen, she will feel like she can tell you practically anything, and when it gets to that point, it pretty much means its ok to give her a little advice. but make sure advice doesnt come til later cuz girls hate guys that don't listen and just try to give advice. so the smart part and being able to manipulate comes in right here. when you give her that little advice, you have to guide her a certain way. because most of her problems or things she tells you about will be about parents or her boyfriend. then you try to lead her away from her boyfriend. basically your going to slowly pick apart their relationship but she is thinking you are helping her. this is not fullproof but if done correctly, you have a really good chance. especially since you have already dated her, you have that basic foundation.Should i tell this girl i still like her even thought she is going out with some one GIRLS ONLY WOMEN ADVICE?
    Maybe shes a tease to get you to ask her out. Maybe shes a tease cuz you tease right back.
    Chances are...she still likes you. Go for it, cause you can't just live with ';what if...';

    Do any women who have found their guy have any advice for me?

    i don't believe i'm unlucky in love, i just don't think i have found the right one yet. i am really picky but honestly every guy i have liked i hang out with and it doesnt work out and it can suck and make me feel horrible. im 19. please give me some advice or share some experiences.Do any women who have found their guy have any advice for me?
    been there. still there. lol, to me i don't see it as unlucky in love... ( I too am picky ) but its more so patience...waiting for that guy to surprise you with all the qualities you're looking for, can make that relationship feel so much more speacial. Also don't believe that you're unlucky in love again, because think about it...there is the whole world left to discover. Ummm.... experience, found a guy that i really liked, he was from Italy (never was interested much those around me ... ) things worked out great, but then he had to go back, but we still kept in touch, wrote letters, sent gifts, he visited me during the summer (back in my country) and work at the same place i worked....things worked out great. but then we lost touch, time difference...priorities of education came first (we both understood) and yeah ... just remained friends. I honestly believe that things would have worked out longer if only we were finished school...then again, who's to say that it might not :P


    From this experience it made me believe... because i had no lucky finding someone around me, and the fact that i found someone wonderful ....abroad! was just overwhelming because it made me realize that i shouldn't be so down if i can't find love here.... there is a whole world to explore.





    I hope this helps? or inspires you ? Best of luck, and don't give up!!

    Renaissance Men/Women and Entrepreneurs, I need advice/suggestions...?

    I've been trying to get a foot hold in my area but keep coming short on my entrepreneurial endeavors. Any suggestions on low start up business ideas? Or how did you get started? (It may spark my own imagination.)Renaissance Men/Women and Entrepreneurs, I need advice/suggestions...?
    I'm skeptical of anyone who wants to be an entrepreneur/own their own business only because they think this is an easy way to make money. It is not. Owning your own business is a lot of hard work and not always rewarding.





    I know that you did not specifically say this, but I am reading between the lines. What are you good at? What are your skills? Education? Experience? Is there a need for a specific product in your area that is not being met? Answering these questions would give you a better idea of where to begin then knowing what is easy, cheap, or worked for someone else.Renaissance Men/Women and Entrepreneurs, I need advice/suggestions...?
    My hubby and I got started in business at 21. With a loan of $300 and a piece of equipment given to us. I worked a ';real job'; for insurance and a paycheck and he knocked on doors and got clients. I left my job several years later and we both worked long hours in the field.





    Ten years later, and a whole lot of real world experience, we have 4 wonderful field guys working for us and 2 office personnel. In 5 years we'll be able to sell the business and make a handsome sum, or we'll be able to ';soft'; retire in another 10 if we keep it.





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    Christian women, what advice would you give to a single Christian...?

    man who plans on marrying someday in the near future?





    Any tips, insights, revelations you'd like to share that may be helpful for me to know? (Including stuff that sometimes we males just don't get). Thanks!Christian women, what advice would you give to a single Christian...?
    Just love her and tell her daily, be affectionate, give hugs, value her opinion, tell her so, praise her, write a few loving words to her. Remind her how special she is.





    Don't make the mistake that since God has given you headship, that you rule the bank accounts, remember you are joint heirs here and act like this in everything. (Think of her as your sister in the Lord too). Treat and value your marriage as though it is priceless. As the finest piece of china! Your marriage covenant is like a three stranded cord. When you unravel , she and God (another strand ) is there to hold you up, when she unravels you and God hold her up! When you both fail, God the thrid strand holds you both up! You, Her and God create a powerful rope and I believe this three stranded rope is the strongest!





    Be masculine enough, to notice her emotional needs, her sexual needs, her spiritual needs( not nescessarily in this order) ...we all have a unique personality. She may not require tons of hugs, etc...';Knowing your wife'; ... means just that...read her like a book, discover her dreams, her inner value system...her undiscovered talents. Learn what makes her happt, sad, etc. Discover patiently....what broke her heart in her past...why...where she is frail... do this slowly sothat she will be able to show you trustingly her vulernable parts. She will love you all the more for being patient and loving. If she feels you re prying back off! Do this all with a tender heart, one that the Lord would praise you for, Intimacy really mean '; In too me see';!. Show her your parts too, teach her lovingly if she is shy!





    Get over disappointments quickly, don't pout! Act like a man in these area...a spirit filled man! Never go to bed angry. Forgiveness is such a thing of beauty!





    At any real signs of failure...seek help. Nip all in the bud!





    Go to at least one marriage enrichment retreat, classes....learn how to enrichen marriage, keeping it fresh.





    Sexual problems...seek help! Don't let problems start!





    Find a good church for you both...one where you both have opportunities for growth. Consider her needs if you get into ministry.





    Help with housework, child rearing, baby bathing, changing diapers. Be a man. Learn how to repair things! Ask for help.





    Follow God, your Father and you will be fine!





    God bless and may you have much future happiness and joy!Christian women, what advice would you give to a single Christian...?
    1. Talking about God all the time is really boring.


    2. Talking about the Bible all the time is really boring


    3. Talking about yourself all the time is really boring


    4. Find in the Bible where it says buy me a lot of things and get religious real quick


    5. Are you still standing there? I said buy me things.
    Pray without ceasing! Don't marry until you know that you know, that you know, that she is the one that God has for you.





    While you are dating/courting practice keeping your flesh under control and don't yield to temptation.





    Be a man of prayer and meditation (on the Word) Let your yes be yes and your no be no. Be swift to hear, slow to speak and slow to wrath.





    Train up your children to serve the Lord with all diligence





    Be warm and tenderhearted but be a man of conviction.





    Mostly, walk in love because love conquers all!
    I'm not sure I have good advice for you, but I am starring this in hopes that one of my contacts might!





    You already have quality #1 --- godliness. I would say something very attractive in a man is stillness and masculinity. But I don't know how one would learn that, exactly!
    As a single Christian woman, all I can say is, it's ok to be single. When the Lord feels it's time to drop some gal into your life, be ready. But be sure.





    I know a lot of single women who do volunteer work. Get involved with something you are passionate about. See what happens.
    Addicted said it best! ';Because he is so submitted to God'; We should all be so blessed!





    No wait I want to add to that Strawberry said it even better than Addicted we should all be even more blessed! Ok strawberry I want you to pray for me and my husband and I submit your statement to God right now asking him to bless me with a marriage as such!
    my husband is the BEST!!!!!!!!! he submits himself to God and submits ME to God as well.... whatever MY decisions are, he backs me all the way... and that respect and kindness COMPELS me to ask him HIS opinion about EVERY decision I make.... crazy, I know.... because he is soooo submitted to God it is waaaaay easy to submit to him.........
    I can't really say because in my case, I really believe I am with my perfect mate and that God crossed our paths. I would say be patient and maybe the same will happen to you.
    Treat her as person and not a possession.Love her don't rule her. and let her be herself. God Bless.
    Don't sweat the small stuff.
    Don't force it buddy.





    Mrs. Right will come around when she comes around.
    find a women first. then think about marriage.

    Women answer only I need some advice?

    For my last two periods I have not bleed red blood at all it is just dark black looking and just now and then on my pad. I am 25 years old just want to know if this has happened to anyone else. Am going to the doctor just want to know what you think.Women answer only I need some advice?
    it's pretty normal; when your blood comes out dark it is usually just old and that normally happens near the end of your period. it's not a big deal :)Women answer only I need some advice?
    im 12 and your 25 and i know the answer and you don't . wow what has the world come to ?anyways it is normal it is a clot but a flowing clot, it's kinda hard to explain it like a clogged drain. i mean all that blood coming out of your body it is BOUND to get clogged up . it isn't anything to worry about
    **** gurl your gunna die, or your pregnant
    pretty normal for late periods, check wbmed .com

    Quicker ways to orgasm? Women's advice please?

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    Can any women please give me some much needed advice?

    I'm considering getting circumcised. I wanted to do it as an aniversery surprise for my wife because she is overseas and i will be able to heal b4 i see her again. I was just wondering what most women would think of this if their husband did it it. Does it make any sexual difference at all? Does it feel any different?Can any women please give me some much needed advice?
    I will give you the true skinny if you want it. From a grandma's


    perspective and a medical perspective, and a wive's


    perspective.


    #1) Your penis does not belong to you. You just carry it around and use it to urinate thru. The only other use it has is for the pleasure of your wife!!! So you cannot make this decision on your own.


    On the other hand, from a medical perspective, a penis that


    is circumcised is easier to keep clean and is more disease-


    free. Uncircomcised males are the primary reason for


    bladder infections in women!! Also, you will like this part,


    there is much greater sexual pleasure for the male since


    the penis is more sensitive. You also have the benefit of


    a longer penis during erection.


    You wife will also like all of these goodies, but the end


    decision is not yours, it is hers--unless of course you are


    orthodox Jew. Then its the churches decision.Can any women please give me some much needed advice?
    Have you had that conversation with her. It is really your choice. I like the circumcission cause of the feel. But not much of a difference then not circumcised. From what i understand men that are not have more feeling than men who are.
    i dont know, maybe you should talk to her about it, i know it will ruin the suprize but its well worth it! :) just in case! because what if she does like it and you change it?
    Does she like it? If she does then dont do it.
    it all depends!! all womens bodies are differnt!! you NEED to talk to her about it if u have no idea what her preference is!! now if she has ever made a negative comment about it i would go for it!!
    Does your wife not like your uncircumcised penis? I would not do it if I were you.
    Husband had a circumcision several years after we were married. No different at all.
    Go for it. She definetely isn't going to like it any less. I had a husband that was uncircumsized and although it didn't really bother me I didn't really care for it either
    I have only been with circumsized men, so I can't say for personal experience, but I know that this is one of those hot-button issues from doing research on it before I had my son last year.





    From what I understand from my reading, the differences between circumsized and uncircumsized is very little, and it all boils down to personal preference.





    Most women can't tell the difference during sex, and some men say that the penis is less sensitive afterwards.





    Some people like the look of a circumsized penis much better, and some people don't care at all, or like it uncircumsized.





    As you've grown up uncircumsized, you obviously know that with only basic personal hygeine, it is no cleaner or safer, STD-wise, to be circumsized.





    I did decide to have my son circumsized, because where we are living, I don't know of a single uncircumsized male, and I don't want him to feel 'different' from his daddy and the other boys. I'm just guessing, but maybe your wife is from a place like I am, and your's was the only uncircumsized penis she's ever seen.





    If it's something like that, and you really just want to do this to make her feel more comfortable, and you've thought about it long and hard, then I'd say go ahead.





    But if she's said something negative, maybe about how the sex would be better, or you are even slightly apprehensive about the surgury, then I would wait. At least think about it a little longer, or even talk to her about it if you want.





    I have read that the surgury is slightly more likely to have complications (like post-surgical infection, or bleeding) when done in adults as when done in infants.





    Good luck in your decision!
    I've been with my husband for 4 years and he was my first and i never had another man so i wouldnt know if it feels better but it definately looks better !!! lol
    I don't think you should do it . Why would you want to has she complained? By the way there is no difference and if anyone tells you they are full of it.
    Unless your wife has expressed a real desire for you to be circumsised then I would not do it. There is absolutely no difference in the feel for a woman (or so I understand). I have also heard that it is VERY painful to get done as an adult.
    having experienced both circumcised and uncircumcised men, i will tell you that it feels no different for the women. however, YOU will feel much less after the surgery.


    why would she want you to have such a painful surgery? i would also not have a drastic surgery like that without consulting her first.

    Do men and women lose weight differently? Need proffessional advice?

    Men and women are completely different supposedly. I need proffessional advice on what diets and excersizes are best for women and good websites where I can find advice in this as well.Do men and women lose weight differently? Need proffessional advice?
    Im no professional but woman have a harder time to lose weight because they need extra weight to bear a child. So while losing weight you will plateau because your body is afraid you will drop too much weight.Do men and women lose weight differently? Need proffessional advice?
    Sometimes diet and exercising just isn't sufficient, cause there will be surplus weight just sitting around in the colon. It is not body fat, so it can't be burned off, however it will be rinsed out, just by having a supplement. http://gyste.j4y.net has a risk free offer offered currently, I tried it and lost 17 pounds!! Who says there is no magic bullet? LOL!!!
    yeah for women its harder to lose weight. i dunno why just how it is


    try cutting back on fat foods, eatting healthy, and exercising


    nothing else you really can do


    this is how it is and


    this is how it goes :O
    You have to ask your nutritionsit or a diet counselor.
    men lose weight easier. women have to do more to lose weight and keep it off
    Yes men lost it alot easier than women. Find a local weigh watchers, they have all the answers to any question
    My aunt uses weight watchers and it works for her pretty good.
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    Calling all tall, athletic hourglass women for fashion advice....?

    Can you help me find a style that suits me? What capsule pieces do you have for your wardrobe that complement your figure?Calling all tall, athletic hourglass women for fashion advice....?
    First of all Celebrate our body-type! You're sexy, beautiful, and need to be confident in EVERYTHING you put on your body. Confidence is your best accessory and always wear a smile!








    Go for hip slung, trouser, or flare leg jeans. Old Nay and Gap have some great long cotton shirts. Also people with our stature can pull off big patterns really well! SO try going for a bold patterned trench for fall! Pair it with some jeans and a sold t shirt. As for dresses, if you have some larger girls I'd suggest a halter top, they hold up the girls plus they show off that sexy muscled back! Wrap dresses look AMAZING as well. Wide necked shirts, not specifically v- necked but sort of in that area, off the shoulder shirts look nice! And also because we're athletic and curvy we can pull off a simple fitted t shirt and a cute, tight pair of jeans FABULOUSLY. One thing I would not suggest is heels (they ruin your arch and your tall enough already) or floor length skirts (they're just plain ugly and they make you look big) Good Luck, I hope some of these helped!