Saturday, August 21, 2010

Women. what advice would you give other women about insecurity?

- feeling as if your man would leave you for someone else


- someone prettier, nice , kinder things like thatWomen. what advice would you give other women about insecurity?
It just depends how he is treating you. Does he really give you reasons to doubt him? Does he flirt and make long stares at other women? Or is he good to you, give you compliments, etc? If you dont have reasons to doubt and be suspicious---I would back off or you will lose him.





Do you think you are insecure? If so, take steps to improve. Talk to counselor, take better care of yourself...change your looks and exercise; try to broaden your horizons---find more interests--hold your head up!! True, unfaithfulness seems to be an epidemic these days, but dont falsely accuse your partner. See if your partner will talk to you too, reassurance from him would help.Women. what advice would you give other women about insecurity?
Just to add to AKL麓s comment:





there is always someone prettier, nicer and kinder


just like there is always someone uglier, nastier and whatever. Therefore people are different. Nothing you should think about ... be yourself and love yourself - so you need to become more self-aware. Yes, be good to yourself and treat yourself to something every now and then (could be something as simple as a good movie on TV or a long hot shower). Become aware of what you麓re good at and what you might want to improve and what you can live with not being an expert in.





Why would you think that your man might leave for someone else?


Does he behave akward lately? Doesn麓t come home at the usual time, hangs up the phone when you enter the room, smells like women麓s perfume?


If not, this feeling comes from your insecurity. Do you question his love for you or whether ';you are good enough for him';. If the second is more likely to be your answer, stop it. You are together for a reason. Maybe talk to him to get reassured and 麓listen to your stomach麓.
if he has given any reason that he is or has cheated leave him because you deserve better!! he if does not like you the way you are. if your a good person and not clingy and such things like that find someone that will like you for who you are!!

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