Of COURSE you will still be considered a virgin! However the only thing is that you are 16 and im not sure any adult stores will let you into the store. However, they don’t actually check your age so if you look older you will be fine.
Now for the vibrator, im sorry to say that it is actually better than the real thing. The reason is because with a vibrator you can do what you want to yourself and you know exactly what you want. You know what feels good and you can hit the right spot. It is very hard to tell a guy exactly how you want it and have them hit the right spots. Now in this respect I am talking about merely the oral part of sex because penetration is much more satisfying when it is a guy's penis, not a big, dumb dildo.
I would suggest that you only use a vibrator that stimulates the clitoris. Don't get one of those big old dildos. They will probably stretch you out and stimulating the clitoris is FAR more satisfying than penetration. Now I would suggest you get a vibrator that is not too large, and make sure you can adjust the setting. Get one that runs on batteries as well. Sex shops sell a variety of brands and don't feel shy asking someone who works there for help with choosing. You may be embarrassed, but remember they WORK there and are there to help you. All the workers that have helped me choose a vibrator have been extremely kind and understanding to what I wanted. Make sure you get a girl to help you though so you will feel more comfortable.
Also, try to get a vibrator that is waterproof because then you will be able to use it in the shower because sometimes they can be a bit noisy if you lack privacy. Make sure you buy some water-based lube as well so you can move the vibrator around down there easier.
Now, for stimulation when you masturbate I suggest reading erotic stories from online. When I first started to masturbate I didn’t fantasize about anything and it took very long to climax and it wasn't as enjoyable. It is much better when you are turned on by something.
Just don't get a dildo! Stick to clitoral stimulation, it is by far the best! Save penetration for the man you marry!
Hope I helped!Adult advice, women only?
the onky way you lode your virginity is if the hymen is broken by a penis. The idea that if you use a vibratot u arent is ludacris. Many woman break theer hymen riding a bike or doing sports. Do what you feel you want to. The rabbit is a good beginner so ive heard. :) x
It's good that you plan to stay a virgin until you get married. Yes you will still be a virgin if you masterbate with a vibrator. I vibrator is like ummm intense vibrations!!! It's hard to explain. I think a vibrator is better than the real thing only because you are in total control of what it does. You aren't old enough to go to a sex toy shop so you could start out with a massager. It just stimulates the outside and there is no penetration.
Hi. Sorry for having to answer this question cos I am a guy. But the issue of whats a virgin is still being contested, some say that you re still a virgin until you have sex with somebody ie even if you masturbate or use a vibrator as in your case you re still one . Meanwhile, others say that the moment you re penetrated and your hymen is broken as in the case of girls or penetrate somebody as in boys, from then you are no longer one. Wht I would advise you is to keep your virginty till you re married (yes I am of the later group) cos one thing is that you can get to test the waters so to say and discover that it is something that you can do without and from then who knows. So I advise you to shelve the idea of getting a vibrator and wait to enjoy sex with your spouse.
A virgin is someone who have not have sex with a man. So therfore, using a vibrator, you are still a virgin. But the experience the first time with a man might be spoiled. Its better with the real thing…
I would definitely not use a vibrator, it is nowhere near what the real thing is like and if you insert it you would lose your virginity. The first experience would be a lot nicer and more natural with a human being, not a machine, only my opinion.
well that depends on whats ur definition of being a virgin. Physically speaking ur a virgin until penetration, or until ur hymen is ruptured, which could happen with a vibrator also. Ofcourse mentally ur still a virgin because u were not intimate with a guy.
vibrators can definitly be fun, some girls have more fun with a vibrator than with the real thing, but for some its also the opposite.. Try it out and see if u like it!
there are many types of vibrators and it may very well be possible that one will not do it for u, and after u get ur first u will want to try other types as well; u can go for clitoral vibrators, they are basically meant for stimulating the clitoris from the outside, like u might do otherwise with a finger or something by rubbing etc. u have the classic type vibrators, which are basically coneshaped and usually made of hard plastic, which u insert in ur vagina. Then there are g-spot vibrators which are curved at the top. Materials can range from plastic to jelly type, etc. from hard to soft and squishy.
I suggest u visit some online store or something, simply look around and start with a low end model, of relatively small size; don’t go in for something huge because ur still a virgin, it would hurt trying to insert it. U would know ur body best, whether inserting a finger or 2 is comfortable or u can take more, so let that guide u in ur choice.
then also think about how u generally masturbate without the vibrator, if u need more stimulation on the outside, or like it inside, adjust ur choice based on that.
oh and for hygiene pls go for a waterproof vibrator, so u can wash it before and after use! Using a dirty vibrator can cause nasty infections.
if the vibrator u use does not penetrate inside ur vagina and u do not damage ur hymen inside u then u can remain a virgin and a virgin means girl who has not had sex with a male ie no penis has entered the vagina and ruptured it difficult 4 any one to judge how u damaged the hymen
Good on you honey, it takes allot of will power to do what you do, there is 2 aspects to you question, firstly the actual membrane (known as your virginity) will brake with a vibrator or even by horse riding, gymnastics or various other sports. Secondly just because you don't bleed when you sleep with a man for the first time does not mean you are not a virgin, remember that you will remain a virgin until you give your body to a man.
If you have an Ann Summers close by they are brilliant with vibrators, and will help you out with a good beginners one.
Good Luck and have fun
you would still be avirgin,and it is gud to explore your own body,to know what makes u feel gud,and then later on you can tell ure partner what to do etc.I wudnt start wiv avibe str8 away,maybe start wiv adildo first?or finger until u feel confident wiv vibe lol mst women wud say its betta than the real thing,I wud cos u cn take as much time as u want,and u always orgasm wiv aguy,if theyre crap,u dnt lol gud luck and enjoy!
well the rabbit is good, anything thing that vibrates will do the trick. You will still be virgin and probably a happier one for doing it yourself.
I've never like the vibrators.I just use soft dildos.Maybe try ';The Bullet'; to start with or ';The Butterfly';.Don't go with anything big until later.Enjoy! : )
Use a King Dong 18'; special - that will do the trick.
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