It doesnt mean of course you have to nag the guy for a new dishwasher on the first date, but you get the idea, right...
I am asking because my standards as far as dates are really low, but as far as wife - my standards are sky high! What do you think?Is this a good advice to young women?!?
You are right. I think many guys on this forum have more SENSE than some of the women here.
Men want old fashioned women to marry and love not the cheap thrill types. They want girls who have their values. Not women who talk a load of confused crap, the hysterical types.... the pathetic types....
Women think their bodies can get them alot of fun but for how long. I dont speak about all women just the show off proud types. They dont know that their beauty will vanish fast and they will look old like hags. LOL
Any man will hook up for a date but for a decent gal he will anytime respect no matter how modern times become.Is this a good advice to young women?!?
The best advice I could give young girls in this situation is to enjoy and explore their sexualities with confidence, but meticulously use birth control, stay in school, get a great job and stay single until you are in a position to always be able to buy your OWN dishwashers. In men matters, never settle or sell out. Seek a mate who has something more meaningful to bring into a convenant of love than a new dishwasher. : )
date someone that you really enjoy being with.get to know a little bit about the person and consider every woman you date a perspective wife.are you a pervert.dont you already have a wife.why are you asking these questions.
That it's terribly outdated, sexist advice. What if she doesn't want to date or marry? What if she's gay? What if she just is not a stereotypical woman? What if there are lots of different kinds of guys out there, all of whom have different opinions on what constitutes the perfect mate? Is she just supposed to constantly change her personality to make her suitors happy? What if, my god, a marriage based on who a person really is, rather than who they are pretending to be, is a happier, stronger marriage?
My advice to young women is that they shouldn't base who they are on who others want them to be. They should be the kind of people they like, and the kind of people they'd be happy to know. Who cares if someone else likes you if you don't even like yourself?
id have to agree here that its very sound advice(.but its kinda difficult to put an old head on young shoulders).then there is the peer pressure ,eg shes having a great time etc,what do ya do?????
Its good advice if they are looking for a husband. Bad advice if they are looking for action and fun.
that you are not going to find a wife easily
I think that if your standard of dating is low, then the a woman you麓d want to marry won麓t take interest in you. Sleeping with a bunch of sluts makes you a slut yourself. Careful, man.
Uh, not really.
First, it assumes that marriage is the only goal for a young woman to have.
Second, it assumes that a young woman should put on a false person, rather than be her own person. Women can't just turn themselves into something they aren't.
Better advice would be to be her own person and not become overly dependent on men.
Instead of ';Don't be the kind of girl they want to date, be the kind of girl they want to marry...';, how about just trying to be the best person you can be? How about making your life for yourself and inviting a like-minded person to share it with you?
I think if more women stopped trying to be what men (or anyone else for that matter) want them to be and just be themselves, they will have a much easier time finding a lasting, loving relationship that works for them. There is no secret formula to finding a mate. It is impossible to find someone that is perfect. But it IS possible to find someone who is perfect for YOU.
we are who we want to be. Good luck finding a wife!!
I would advise girls to wait until they were in their 30's before looking for a husband. Until then, dating is just fine.
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