Thursday, July 29, 2010

Do i continue to see him ? Men/Women, advice please ?

we've been hanging out for about 2 months now...but that's just it. he doesnt ask me to go out anywhere....and i kind of feel like he's not courting me. he's attracted to me, and obviously enjoys my company...but whenever we're together, its his place or mine...we've never slept together, been taking it slow. i enjoy spending time with him, have verbalized that i'd like him to initiate a real date sometimes, but he still hasn't asked. there's another guy who has asks me out several times, and i've been tempted to take him up on his offer because the guy i'm seeing doesn't. but i know he would be upset if i did, so i don't. am i being superficial or old fashioned to want a real courtship, ...why doesn't he do it and should i stop hanging out with him?Do i continue to see him ? Men/Women, advice please ?
you deserve to be treated the way you want, why settle for second best? you seem to be considering his feelings but is he considering yours?? i would tell him straight out that you want to go out on a date and if he doesnt let him now theres someone else willing to take you.Do i continue to see him ? Men/Women, advice please ?
sounds like the guy is insecure. it happens and sometimes women gotta be the aggressor. tell him lets go out, dont really ask. but be nice about it. from a guys stand point he might not think youre into him. find fun places to go to instead of just the house, that gets boring fast. if that dont work, confront him about it. u have another guy waiting that will do better waiting i see...
if you truly like this guy, then ask him him how he feel , if he looking for a friendship or more. it been only a couple of months so give it time but if you want answer then point blank


ask him. that the only way that you will know for sure what


he feel.

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