Help need some women advice ASAP?

So....I have been seeing this girl for the past month but I have not ask her if she would like a relationship with me because I wanted to take it slow. Last night I saw her and we went back to my place and we made out but I didnt go any further because I dont want her to feel used. We will both go to a party today, and since we arent together yet, how should I react if she does something with another guy...like flirt or dance or I dont know. Please give me some advice.Help need some women advice ASAP?
If you really like her, you should tell her. Be honest and let her know you what your feeling. I am not sure from your question if you are taking it slow because you don't want to be committed yet or because your doing it out of respect for her. It is always best to just be open and honest about your feelings. That way you know where you stand.


Girls can flirt with other guys for more than one reason. Sometimes it can be because you haven't committed to them yet and they just want a reaction from you (which is childish when it happens, but it does)


My guess is that she likes you. She probably wouldn't be making out with you if she didn't and my guess is that she is wondering what she would do if you danced or flirted with another girl. My advice is to talk to her to night and let know how you feel. Let me know how it goes!Help need some women advice ASAP?
why don't you ask her to go with you! and if you don't want to take that approach maybe if she does do something with a guy you can tell her it bothered you more than you thought and you would like to start dating.


FYI: she prolly wont do anything because she is interested in you and if she does do something with another guy it may be to make you a bit jealous.





anyways have fun at the party.
If she dances with another guy it means nothing more then just dancing, so do not react if this happens. If she flirts that's a different story, but still do not react in the moment. If she is really into you she will stick by you and pay no interest in other guys. Before arriving at the party tell her that you feel lucky to be going there with her and tell her how beautiful she looks and put on your proud face when you walk in the door with her, but don't come across as being arrogant. Then from time to time give her an occasional smile that shows her how interested in her you are. Good luck to you, I hope everything goes smoothly. She is one hell of a lucky gal to have you enter her life. Where can I find one just like you??? LOL
You want to take it slow... I understand. As long as she's not tied down, she has the freedom to flirt with anyone she wants. You shld not react differently, but just as a friend... if that's what you want. You cannot expect a girl to stay faithful to you just because you made out with her without any strings attached, right? Honestly, if a guy made out with me (whether it's all the way or not) and tells me, he doesn't want to get into a serious relationship just yet, I would already feel used.
Go talk to her, and stay close to her most of the night.


If you like her a lot, then tell her how you feel, and you can work out a relationship.


If she likes you, then she wont do anything with any other guy, but if she does do anything with anyone else, then you're not meant to be together, cos she obviously doesnt like you.
well even though you haven't declared that you have a relationship, she has been seeing you, making out etc...so I would say if she had the nerve to flirt or whatever with another guy-right in front of you- then that would be pretty rude. if she does that, I would leave, and move on. she should have some level of respect for you by now.
I honestly don't think she will 'do something with another guy' after the kiss, because obviously if she kissed you, it's because she likes you or her friends dared her to kiss you. So if i were you id play hard to get.


If you play hard to get, and she comes after you, then you ask her out


and if she doesnt come after you, she either isnt interested or shes willing to play hard to get too, so you come after her.
Call her and ask her if she would want to go to the party with you. Go out to dinner before the party and ask her to be your girlfriend! She obviously likes you, so go for it! Then later at the party, you wont have to worry about her flirting and dancing with other guys, she will be all yours!
give her something cute,


Like give her chocolates.


Make her feel appraised-


compliment her eyes, face, and hair.


Comment on her clothes.


DONT: go too far though,


she'll get freaked out, and it'll be too awkward fro a relationship.


If she does something with a guy, or aguy goes overboard on her, step and protect her.


She'll like it that you'll be there at the right moments, to protect her!
If you trust her, trust that she won't go tooo far with anyone else. She might flirt or dance, but everyone does that in the heat of the moment at parties. Afterwards, take her home and ask her if she wants to go farther. Tell her you trust her and will take things slow if she wants.
the best way to prevent this is to ask her out. I bet she's dying for you to. You've waited long enough so why not bite the bullet and go for it? Today is the perfect opportunity. If you decide not to, then you really have no right to be angry or annoyed if she dances/flirts with some one else. good luck.
At the party give her space


if she does flirt with other guys, even if you're dying to say something DON'T, just play it cool, talk to other girls and guys, but don't completely ignore her, make sure that she knows that you are aware that she's there too :]





GOODLUCK
You guys are not together so you should not react lol if you do I would not make it an over dramatic statement. If you want to be with her than tell her that don't push it off it will make her thing you don't want her and she will move on.
regardless of you thinking you are in a relationship or something i believe that she thinks there is something going on between you.


Unless she is crazy she shouldn't do anything with another guy and she will be with you the entire time.
Ok, first off, she will let you know how far she's willing to go. Respect her wishes and try to figure out her body language. At the party, you see her flirting, you go join her. flirt with her too, and enjoy watching her. :)
u pretty much cant do anything about it because shes' not with u yet i say if she does flirt with someone or dances just try not to get jealous and dont be mad or anything stay cool with it and if ur starting to get mad or jealous just make an excuse to go somewhere and to cool off just be careful
talk to her before you go to the party... it sounds like you think you will be bothered if she talks to someone else... i think if you feel jealous, you really like her- than you should ask for a relationship
just ask her before you go to the party, then you probably wouldn't have to worry about this problem to begin with :D good luck to you!
Maybe you should meet up with her before the party and ask her if she'll be your girlfriend so you don't have to worry about her with another guy.
ask her out b4 the party also, i dont think u should b worried she likes u but she wont want 2 b w/ u the whole time if u dont ask her out b4 cause then she'll feel liek shes being needy or some thing
Well, what you're doing is too slow. The girl's probably isn't sure about you. If you're making out and stuff, just approach her and say, ';Well, I guess we're kinda going out know, right?';
Before the party ask her if she wants to be your girlfriend. That way you go ti the party as a couple.... awwww I hope everything works well!!!!!!!!!!
if the girl really likes you and has respect she will not flirt with other men or dance with other men she will give you all of her attention.so watch for those sighs.
seeing this girl for a month you haven't asked her out how slow are you going to go? you've made out with her who made the first move? just ask her out then we all can get some sleep
ask her if she wants to go with you


and when you get there ask her out


its that simple


I'm a girl
ask her out before the party, so that way she'll be all over you, and you might get some! lol.
quit being a dip, tell her you would like a relationship, she's ready, your not.
well you cant really get angry if she does.. your not together..


im sure its fine if you act a little jealous to let her kno but dont go over board (: