I am very worried what do i do..men and women advice would be appreciated.?

thanks for reading!


my partner blew me off to go and see his mates (so I'm alone now) and its the same place he always blows me off for(where all his friends live) i just feel 2nd best sometimes


and it's hard for me because the last proper time he went out on a saturday with the same people to the same place, he cheated on me, with the same girl thats going tonight(they are close friends) he was deeply sorry before and cried to me and everything it was a drunken kiss, but they are still doing exactly the same thing seeing them at their mates house and getting drunk


and it will be more out of control tonight because its Halloween and i am also worried because he is very affectionate when he is drunk


if he's doing the same thing should i be worried? I'm still annoyed he blew me off to do this!


any advice would be lovely thanksI am very worried what do i do..men and women advice would be appreciated.?
He knows its halloween and he left you all alone, god knows what could happen. If i was you and i knew that girl was going to be their he wouldnt stand a chance, you should have refused to let him go, now ur ALONE at home on halloween while he is out partying, having fun, and flirting with other woman, men are so predictable :) xI am very worried what do i do..men and women advice would be appreciated.?
He sounds like a jerk. Any guy that truly wants/cares to be with his girlfriend would invite her over too. At first i thought it was just a bunch of guys hanging out so you couldnt join. But he has no reason not to invite you. He is being selfish knowing you're just home alone.





Honestly, if he really cared for you he would ask you to go with him. He maybe does care but feels you wont let him drink and have fun, but if you know he gets affectionate when drunk and there is other girls there also then you should be invited to go.





Sorry for being in this situation. Maybe he'll realize to make the right decision.
hi- first of all, don't think the ball is in his court, it is in yours.


seems like your guys is disrespecting you. he knows you have forgiven him in the past, so hes thinking you'll forgive him again in the next situation. what my advice is to you is to try and learn to respect and value yourself more. people are gonna do what they are gonna do, you can't prevent him from going to a party or meeting new girls...or even cheating on you. but what you can do is change yourself. the minute you start to value yourself more, he will come running back to you. spread your worries, don't let him be your #1 worry. let him go to the party and don't contact him while he is there. when he sees that you didn't try to call/txt him, he will wonder why you're not worried and see that you are OK w/ out him, and therefore gain respect for you. this is how a healthy relationship should be like...





so go on and try to have a good halloween yourself. life is too short to worry about someone else you have no control of. the only person youre in control of is yourself :] gluck!