First text to a girl I meet last night, suggestions please? Women advice would be appreciated!?

As I was looking for a ball last night at the bowling alley this girl stopped me and said ';Hey nice shirt!'; we chatted for a little bit and went back to our separate friends and after awhile she left to get a drink from the concessions stand, I walked up to her and talked for a little bit and than asked her for her number and she gave me it.





So my question to you is how should i text her for the first time? Here's what I think.





';Hey! How's work going? This is the dude with the cool shirt from the bowling alley last night by the way. :)';





I through the work thing in there because she mentioned she was working today.





Well...ideas? :)First text to a girl I meet last night, suggestions please? Women advice would be appreciated!?
Well if I was her, I'd be pretty made up to get a text like,


';Hi it's (enter your name here), how've you been?';


Or something funny with a mention of the bowling alley in it.


';It's me, the one who bowled you over with my shirt ;)';


LOL okay, if you use that last joke and it doesn't work I'm really sorry


Good luck! And don't come across obsessed or over text her (yn)First text to a girl I meet last night, suggestions please? Women advice would be appreciated!?
From a girls point of view...I wouldn't text her today. It may come off too soon, and may cause her to think that you are coming on to strong. Only way I would text her today is if she told you too, if not wait about 3-4 days. Maybe text her at the end of the week or in the middle asking how her work week went/or is going, and do mention that you are the one with the nice shirt from the bowling alley so she knows its you...then go from there...hope i helped good luck
Well in my opinion as a woman it is best to call first. But because she is at work you should call her later on in the afternoon. Its not best to contact girls you meet somewhere in a text message for the first time. Its better to call and then as the relationship continues you text her. When you call her say something like ';Hey its me...the guy from the bowling alley. Hows it going?';
If i was the girl then i wouldn't want some explanation of who you are. Just simply say ';hey hows work going so far?'; the girl is obviously going to say ';whos this'; then casually say ';it's (enter name here) from the bowling alley. you know with the nice shirt'; then she's gonna say ';ohh hey it's going good'; lol or atleast that's how im playing it out in my head!! good luck though. remember to be a gentleman!!
K dnt think there is a proper answer 2 that but wht might be important is thinking bout wht kinda person u think she is frm the conversation u guys had. Is she White, Black Asian Latino or African. Then Ur txt is fyn nothing wrong with that is soft not 2 agressive has just d nice approach especially on a Sunday. If she responds u can go with asking her where she wrks after u ask her bout that u tell her how nice it was chatting with her last night and how u wld lyk 2 do that again.
i like your idea! i dont want to be rude to the girl who commented above me but if a guy would say ' I thought you were pretty great' Id be flattered (i guess) but alert. I think its not the right time to say sth like that yet but hey thats just my opinion.. i like your sms because you will deff get a convo goin. and she will prob like to be distracted from work lol! so be prepared for high phone bills.. good luck!
Haha that is really cool i think it will work


or you can text her' Hey beautiful, How you doing, Its the guy from the bowling alley'


If a guy texeted me that hey beautiful I would so thrilled and text him back that's for sure so i think that would work








good luck
here's some tips:


1. remind her who you are


2. say something ridiculous, that's not offensive, just random


3. put a weird face ;b


4. short and sweet


5. not too enthusiastic, not a lot of exclamation points or capital letters


6. a question might be good so that she will respond


what you have is pretty decent.


maybe you should try calling her though and speaking with voices.
ya that sounds alright. But when you do strike up a conversation make sure its just about normal stuff and don't jump the gun to quickly on asking her out. make sure that you give it at least a week before you ask her out on a real date. If you act to soon it will be a turn off, so just take the time to get to know her first.
If these girl really captivated u then u should definitly text her and ask her how was work but do not over text her because later on she will be bored and going off on why u r texting her so much... since u meet her in the bowling alley then u both have something in common so after a while u can ask her to go bowling with friends
hey we met last night in the bowling alley, I thought you were pretty great, wanna . . . . . . . (get some coffee, see a movie, go bowling, ect)
i like that one.It sound nice and cool.but just in case i would say how are things going instead because she might not be working and no one really likes to talk about work.
haha. that sounds good.


i was wondering if you like her more than a friend.


i mean she may not know you that well but, you never know.
I think thats fine, Theres nothing wrong with that but i'm not the best person to ask about that XD


Well good luck anyway





Actually the one above me is the best I say. The answer just above mine
Save your thumbs some work, dude. Instead of texting her....simply call her. Girls prefer to talk to a guy more than texting. Texting is very impersonal.
Wait 3 days.. then text her ONCE.








Do this. Or you'll look needy and blow it.
That sounds all right :)
Great! Or ';How's your day?';





My hubby and I use the Hawaiian ';Howzit?';
just dont be weird about it.


I hate it when guys make me feel weird ';hey hey lil mommma waz up!'; i dont know i like it better when the guy is down to earth ';hey hows it going?';
put hi this is then put ur name the guy u meet at the bowling alley how would u like to meet up some time?





and then go form there!





hope this has helped





good luck





:)
yeah dude, that's fine
i think what you said is just fine
sounds good to me!


i hope you guys hit it off =]
what u said sounds fine! good luck!
As a girl, i am going to just tell you what i would want you to do if i was the girl. The first text you should send her should have 1st- a short greeting, ex. good morning, evening, ect. the next thing i would do is ask her when the best time to call is. - for example- ';it'd be cool to actually talk to you, when is the best time to call?'; OR since you know she's at work you could say something like- ';hope you're not working too hard! When's then best time to call you?'; i wouldnt bother with the ';im the guy from the bowling alley'; part- if she likes you enough to give you her number she'll remember who you are, and chances are shes is waiting impatiently to hear from you. In my opinion, (and my best friends Laura and Brenda are here and they agree) Its better not to get into the habit of communicating via text too often. Its impersonal, and talking on the phone is much better. If you're worried about awkward silences, think of some questions to ask her before you call, things you want to know about her. Hope this helps! Good Luck! ;)
';Hey. How's work? I bet the bowling was a lot more fun...';





that way she knows you were listening when she said that she was working today. Also, by not mentioning who you are you will be able to tell if she remembers you (unless she was giving her number out to a bunch of guys that night) since one of her friends would already be in her contacts.





or for a more basic message:





';hey. it's cool shirt dude from last night.';





then when she responds you can ask how work is going and get into a conversation from there.