Sunday, July 25, 2010

Pregnant women: I need your knowledge and advice?

According to the doctor, it would be ok for us to have sex. I'm bored, and I want to do wild and crazy things. Problem is, how do you convince a pregnant woman to do them ? The doctor said it was ok, but she's still being too d*mn boring and conservative.Pregnant women: I need your knowledge and advice?
The doctor said ys to sex, he didnt say go ';wild and crazy';.





I am 15 weeks and had a high sex drive up until about 13 weeks, and then it just dropped off completly.





It is hard even at this point in pregnancy ot have sex sometimes. For one, it hurts afterwards because your joints have all loosened up from the pregnancy, and when we do have sex now, I spend the remainder of the day walking around sore, limping, or laying down.





You didnt mention how far along she is, but if she is over 12 weeks and is not into it then I am sure she has good reason.





And as far as being ';boring and conservative'; get a life. You have no idea how she is feeling obviously.





Pregnant women: I need your knowledge and advice?
I dont think your being disrespectful at all... Im 28 weeks pregnant and my husband and i still have quite the intense sex life. I think the problem with most woman is they loose there sex drive as they get larger because they are becoming less and less comfortable in their own skin. Its very difficult to get turned on and want to have sex when you feel like a blimp. My husband and i found that by him making me feel beautiful still we were able to work through it. I suggest putting your wife completely at ease. Im not sure how your attempting to initiate the sex, but you should try some foreplay before hand to get her really into the idea. She may not be into wild and crazy positions because they are uncomfortable. Its a very awkward feeling having a baby in your belly while having intercourse. I would respect her wishes if some crazy positions dont feel right to her, but keep trying new ones... my husband and i have found some pretty creative ways to work around the belly. goodluck.... :)
Omg I can not believe you said that. That is so disrespectful, she is carrying your child and you should respect what she is doing for you and be thankful and greatful for what she is doing. She may just be worried or may not feel like having sex. So don't try to convince her to do anything she doesn't want to do. How far along is she, yes you do need advice and knowledge bc you obviously dont have any what is ';wild and crazy'; I am sure the dr. would not approve of ';wild and crazy';
i think the fact that she's pregnant puts a damper on it to begin w/.


most pregnant women lose their drive, so it may be a little hard to get her to do anything.


me personally, at 8wks pregnant today, still have sex, but i have calmed down bc it's uncomfortable. my drive has gone down, but it's still there.


you shd talk to her about it.


GOOD LUCK!
I don't know how far along she is but if you were carrying around and extra 20 lbs or so how would you feel? Sexy? I think not. So you really need to back off and your actions are probably making her less interested in sex. You should be more supportive of how she feels, she could still feel morning sickness, she could be tired, making a baby is hard work!
Uh. What is wild and crazy? And, how far along is she? I'm almost 38 weeks and I can hardly move. Wild and crazy is NOT on my list. You can't convince people to do what they don't want to do. Leave it be. I've hardly wanted any sex my entire pregnancy and my husband understands.
You need to respect her. If she is still a little scared about it then just let her be. I know that it's okay but I still get a little worried sometimes that we're being too rough. She is just concerned.
Wild and crazy isn't what the Dr. meant by saying sex is o.k. If she is so dam* boring...why the sex and/or having a child happen. Give her a freakin break!
Yea! You need knowledge!
You need to respect her. She's carrying a living human being inside her. If she doesn't want to do something, don't make her do it just to satisfy your selfish needs!

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